Am I the only one that is disappointed when you think someone is gone, but they aren’t?

[Beeneez]

Usually this is when I think someone has ghosted me or just plans appear cancelled but weren’t. I think this is apart of me being introverted. Don’t get me wrong it hurts my feelings, but I get over some things fast and I keep moving forward

[Valdemort]

Yep, though it's likely insecurity rather than introverted.

[Beeneez]

Ooh what would you say the insecurity is

[Valdemort]

Because you worry about something, expecting it to be for a negative (disappointment) reason, without knowing the truth.

The fact that you feel abandoned (ghosted), are sensitive to your social cues (appear cancelled) and need to cope (you get over things, but you're hurt regardless) points to it being more about a lack of confidence in your interactions and relationships.

For me, that's totally relatable, hah

[bowenw]

Some people are looking for a captive audience and don't seem to care about anyone but themselves. I'm not usually disappointed when those kind of people disappear.

[Beeneez]

Agree, it gives me relief when they exit on their on. His actions has shown me that I’d just be just a placeholder for what he really wants

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yea but I'm straight forward, id call them out on their bullshit or make it clear im moving on and gonna cut them off, it makes you feel less stupid lol

[Beeneez]

Same especially if it’s been a while!

[ChicoFromThe305]

Yes as one should, at least you keep some self respect am I right 😂

[Beeneez]

Yes, you gotta keep some dignity 😂

[ChicoFromThe305]

Without a doubt lol

[DishLady]

Some people are just messing with you. ignore them

[Beeneez]

Or I can give em a piece of my mind and cut them off 😂 be the “bigger person”

[Anonymous]

Yes. Because with me once I've mentally moved on from you it doesn't matter if you come back like a boomerang. At that point you just become my game.