Does casual sex ever develop into anything more?

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like one person catching feelings or both? do you call time on it before someone gets hurt?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

One of the best times in 1 of the best relationships that I was in was friends with benefit.
For so many different reasons.
Yeah, we had rules. You could not say I love you. I need you. I want you and if you did, then we would end it, but we never did end it for a while anyway.

But when you make love to anybody you want to do it? The best you possibly, can't anyway and you want to make it all about them and you do this all the time, and you could catch feelings very easily. I because you're not going to do it with someone you don't like

But anytime you have sex with somebody and if you make it all about them and you want to please them a lot of different things about sex with people just think it's sex. It's more than that. There's a lot of different things that come from sex if you do it right

Hobobobo · Accepted Answer

There are occasions when it does, but that usually involves an accidental pregnancy, and typically has an ugly ending.

What I think you are getting at is something extremely rare. It's not totally unheard of, but it's like finding an endangered albino animal in the wild. It's highly unlikely. Most men would say that even if they had some level of romantic feelings at first, as soon as it turns to casual sex, those feelings evaporate completely.

There may be rare exceptions, but I have never met one or even heard of one. I have never heard of a story where a friends with benefits relationship progressed into something serious like a marriage.

rienna888 · Accepted Answer

So what I heard is usually one of them or even both develop feelings for eachother. I fall in love if I’m already attracted to them, but most men I met tend to disappear after. So I asked my boyfriend why they do this, and he says because they didn’t get the time to know the girl enough and it makes him question if the girl really likes them or just wanted sex

777GgG · Accepted Answer

Most definitely. Sex releases feel good hormones. The hormones involve feelings of comfort. Humans naturally crave the things that comfort them whether it be a person, place, meal, item.

Rosexøxø · Answer

It can but like 1% of the time. Like look at 500 days of summer. He fell for her. It can happen to any guy if she’s his first or so and he’s crazy about her. But she has to like him back for the relationship to move forward.

So 1% of guys move their emotions further than sex.

1% of relationships collectively move forward.

Probably a good handful of girls who participate catch feelings cause it’s harder for them to keep emotions and sex separate. Guys can just enjoy the physical and the act of cumming and not feel much else. The girls may associate it with love or safety and that can cause them to crave or want to develop the relationship. Their feelings can very much develop.

Does it go beyond casual sex? A big, resounding, emphasized- rarely.

I repeat- rarely. RARE. Ultra mega rare. lol.

Be safe out there 🫶🥂

Zack-Bann · Answer

casual sex always leads to two outcomes
Getting tired of it for being mediocre
Getting attached to one another and wanting more

So far I have only experienced the latter (where she got attached and I didn’t)

So the whole ordeal is fairly messy

I do like it. It’s liberating and unapologetic which I love but it doesn’t come without a bit of complications

Oldschool1981 · Answer

My wife likes to see other guys. It's almost always just sexual. However, she has been dating a guy now for six months. I sent them on holiday for Christmas. She still sleeps with other guys, though. However, she has to hide it from him because he wouldn't be cool with it

OneViewpoint · Answer

Of course. It can happen. Sex. That moment of openness. A spark can ignite a flame.

NicholasRedone · Answer

That's why I'd caution the likes of folks on here talking about their FWBs lol 😂 😆 like what the.

ProbablyClueless · Answer

I firmly believe that there's no such thing as a casual sex. That's why the people who have it tend to be emotional trainwrecks.

DryGermanGuy · Answer

"Nothing is impossible", as the Toyota advertisements told us for many years! :-)

trumpetplayerforlife · Answer

I feel like it can but it doesn't happen very often or it's a one sided thing

AgentG111 · Answer

Each situation is different it can be one sided or both catch feelings and it can turn into something or it ruins a friendship.

Uglygaypoorcoward94 · Answer

sex is bonding there is nothing casual about putting your penis in another person. Women get uneasy if i casual touch them in a friendly manner

Staximus · Answer

Yeah but it's best not to get your hopes up for somebody who has not expressed any desire to be in a meaningful or serious relationship

dougeats · Answer

just another friends with benefits in my life but I prefer that

MasterKS · Answer

yes it develop into more and more sex, once you start to enjoy it. you don't do it in this age?

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, I never had sex, but I guess it's possible.

jjj101010 · Answer

I’ve had both situations. One were it developed the other nothing happened

Fantastic-User · Answer

I mean it can but it dosent always

DishLady · Answer

Usually no.

RedThread · Answer

I'm sure it could but I wouldn't bet on it.

Paige90 · Answer

Yes it does

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

Nope.

Jennz6 · Answer

Not always

nicfire171 · Answer

It definitely can

Anonymous · Answer

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