Nothing serious means just sex?

[reeseybaby]

When a guy says "I'm not looking for a relationship" in the beginning is it possible for him to change his mind if he really likes the girl and has been seeing her regularly for 3 months?

[Anonymous]

3 months of regular dating is long enough for a guy to know whether or not he wants a serious relationship with a girl. Right now, he gets all the benefits of a relationship without any of the responsibilities.

[Tamikaze]

If you have been having sex with him, it is highly unlikely. Casual sex is not the path to a relationship, it is a dead-end.

[reeseybaby]

He takes me on dates and recently took me on a trip...and he doesn't want me talking to other guys and he doesn't see any other girls right now...what does that mean?

[Tamikaze]

He is the only one who can tell you that. I can say that some guys, even in casual sexual deals, do not want to have the girl seeing other guys. They can also give the appearance of not seeing other girls, and may not be seeing any for a time, but if they decide to do so, they will be shocked that you have a problem with that. They can also take you on dates. So, if you are happy with things now, let it be and see what happens.

[reeseybaby]

Ya I hear you.He always teases me about seein other girls just to see my reaction...he says I'm just teasing you...its cute nd I told him I didn't want a relationship in the beginning so I'm wondering if he's holding back his feelings because I said that....

[Tamikaze]

He could be. Or he could be happy that you did not want a relationship and that is why he is able to do so much with you because you are not expecting anything. But, if you have changed your mind maybe you should tell him that. At worse case, he will not commit to anything with you and just keep things the way they are. I've never seen a guy leave a casual deal over this.

[reeseybaby]

Yea,thats what I was worried about...if he thinks I want a relationship is he guna back off and cut ties with me...or continue what were doing now?

[Tamikaze]

No, he won't cut ties with you. It will be you who would cut ties with him typically. Guys who are enjoying a casual sexual deal, well they will just say some nice things when you mention a relationship but then keep it as it is. You may be the one who grows tired of the situation. But in your case, he may actually be looking for something more. You never know unless you ask.

[Anonymous]

I don't think he's ganna change his mind anytime soon