Do men get more attractive as they age?

[Anonymous]

I did use to be shy. But when I was younger I got no girls. As I’m getting older and older women are springing out of nowhere and I do nothing

Men get more attractive as they age

No men don’t get more attractive as they age

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Now I feel like I’m a girl rejecting all these people

[Effably]

When ranked by the other gender both men and women score most attractive at the general age of 23.

Naturally some of us bloom later. Some age very refined and go from boys to silverbacks, silver foxes, so on. As far as that goes there is a greater acceptance of, and more appeal from, the refined version or men aging.

When we do age well, men typically retain appeal more. Sometimes even increasing it.

But for the vast majority of people? Your 20s and early 30s is where it is at aesthetically. Use it.

[Zack-Bann]

The answers here say it all

If you maintain in good shape.
Take care of your skin
Your teeth
And above all: your hairline.
You can be a hot older guy
A DILF as some would call it


It’s not a given. But it’s achievable


And it does seem like a hot older guy can pull more women than a hot young guy just on account of the appeal of experience and established sense of self vs the wreckless insecurity of youth

[Apple1996]

Nope most men start balding and graying, get fat, have bad skin, ED issues as they age. Nothing is attractive about that stuff. The very few attractive older men that I've seen is usually because they had a female in their life keeping up with their looks and their health. Usually wife, sister, mom, female friends. But like I said it's rare that happens

[Apple1996]

Ngl i acutally feel so bad for men aging to the point I've tried to think of solutions to fix their aging issues just cuz I've know guys who started balding and graying straight after high-school like it's soo unfortunate that happens to men

[Asker]

I think it’s the other way round. As they say men age like fine wine. I always see young girls dating older dudes.
I see balding more when a man hits over 40 tbh. I think men are lucky we have an attractive window of like 25-45. For women it’s like 18-30. They still can look nice older but it’s just not what men want compared to women.

Not rare at all. Opposite of rare. I get girls way easier now at 29 than I ever did at 18-24. I don’t even do anything to try and get them. I got very little at 18-24.

[Asker]

One of my friends did go bald very early and he shaved his head and actually it looked sick. You always see bald guys pull hot chicks

[Asker]

I think it sucks though that I will get married and soon after I will think the girl is old. It will get to the point I won’t want to be intimate

[Apple1996]

Wrong women peak in their 30s-40s. Men peak 18-24. Almost all older women look amazing while the men are struggling

[Apple1996]

Bald guys are ugly af 🤮

[Apple1996]

The amount of attention a person gets means nothing. I got hit on the most while pregnant so I know exactly how that goes. People get attention when people feel bad for them and when someone is gorgeous they get less attention and people try humbling them

[DishLady]

I tend to think so. When I was a kid all
My actor crushes were on way older guys. I loved that touch of grey on the facial hair and temples. Now I’m the perfect age for guys like that but they tend to look at way younger gals. 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Spencer10]

Dont fret too much about older guys paying attention to younger women... I am certain the younger guys pay attention to you in return

[DishLady]

They do, but I’m not really into the “cougar” scene.

[ohsheeT]

Yes I think men do get more attractive as they get older
I believe that I am
but at the same time I really Need to go get my eyes checked

[Anonymous]

both men and women become more masculine as they age

but becoming more masculine benefits men more than women and makes men more attractive in the long run provided he maintains a healthy lifestyle

what they lose in speed they make up for in strength

then add on money, status and accumulation of personality traits from wisdom to experience to maturity to intelligence only increases their attractiveness

[On_cloud_wine]

Yeah.. I think they look more “distinguished” in a very handsome way

[OneViewpoint]

Edit that to... men CAN get more attractive as they age. Too many guys let themselves go. No effort to stay fit or dress well or develop themselves mentally.

[red-lipstick-girl]

Yes, I agree, men look good especially in their 30s.

[Anonymous]

No they grow bald, ugly, fat, get erectile dysfunction, and need TRT and a blue pill.

[Asker]

Or they could just look after their health

[Flower7]

Men’s looks decline as they get older.

[Asker]

Well past a certain point they obviously decline

[Flower7]

Usually it’s when the balding starts.

[Fury_storm]

you are the prime age for getting girls of all ages

[Anonymous]

"Attractive" is the wrong word. Men get more desirable to women as they age.

[Anonymous]

Yes, to a certain point.

[MikeRJ]

It depends on the individual.

[In_Trance]

Some do, some don't.