Is it normal to hate people who ghosted me?

[Anonymous]

[SteveSmith1985]

I've never been ghosted. Nevertheless I can tell you: YES!!!

You are 100% having the typical reaction (from what I've seen) to being ghosted.

Being ghosted really really REALLY pisses people off. (and I totally understand why).

How angry you are about it--how much you hate the ghosted should be somewhat dependent on the situation. (some guy you chatted with three times online vs a guy you've gone out on 12 dates with... are different)

But you are totally normal in your reaction. I'm sorry this happened to you.

(just don't let hating them become a negative in your own life. The feelings may be justified, but feeling that hatred doesn't hurt him... but it can potentially harm you.) 🙂

[Zack-Bann]

Depends on your definition of “ghosting”


If you were talking to a guy, nothing happened no promises were made then it’s not ghosting by definition.
It’s just the conversation fizzling out


If you’re dating a guy and have been committing to one another and suddenly he drops off the face of the earth and wouldn’t take a call then that’s ghosting
And it’s normal to hate him for it

[Joshydavid25]

It's normal to have a strong reaction to something that is a bit rude.. Especially if you saw potential in those people.. I guess it depends on how long you've been talking to them, if hatred has formed from it. I also don't think younhate them, just what they did..

[Anonymous]

I depends if the really ghosted you.

[appetitefordominance]

Yeah.. what else would you do? Blow them lol?