Why do all my friends ghost me? Did I do something wrong to them?

[Anonymous]

I don't have many friends. But when I do, they always ended up ghosting me. All of them just stopped replying to my text. They don't even bother to reply or write back to me. I must admit that sometimes it took me a long time to reply to their text, after I replied late to their text, they ended up not responding to my last text that I sent to them. They ended up ghosting me. They just stop talking to me just because I replied late. What do you guys think? And what should I do? I sent this girl a double text and she still did not reply. Did I do something wrong for replying late? Am I just not good enough for them?

[CHEN1109]

I also sometimes delay replying to messages, not because of any thoughts about the other person. Most of the time, it's because I've seen the message and thought I'd responded (but didn't infact). Of course, if I didn't get a reply for a long time, I will think that the other party does not want to continue to communicate with me.
My suggestion is to reply as soon as possible when you see a message worthy of reply. If you can't reply in time, please explain the reason to the other party. Don't worry about people who don't reply for a long time. You don't have to change to suit someone.

[Asker]

Thank you very much for your suggestions. I have apologized for replying late to her, and she still did not reply to my text even though she's online most of the time. How do I deal with this?

[Rose_84]

She's purposely ignoring you and she needed an excuse to ghost you. But after you apologized, it revealed her true intentions. If she genuinely wanted you then she would have responded.

[MrHopper]

Maybe they thought you had ghosted them and so did it back, i get people late replying all the time to and if i am the one making all the effort i just give up in the end and move on

[Asker]

What if I replied after 15 hours? Is that considered to be a ghosting? I didn't mean to ghost them though.

[MrHopper]

Oh i am thinking more 15 days, 15 hours is nothing

[Rose_84]

I know for no reason they leave the conversation in the middle. Avoid people like that. I won't even text them later "what happened?".

I typed something and it's their business to reply or not. I ain't gonna pamper them.

[Anonymous]

you're at the age where that just happens. it's life. i'd suggest stop putting your effort into people who don't put in the same effort.

[chicosuave]

When you leave them ghosted for too long. people think ur not interested so they move on. I ghosted people cuz of that.

[Asker]

She sent me the text at night, and I replied to it in the next morning. She ghosted me before and came back again. Now she's doing it again.

[chicosuave]

Haha if she is still replying she is not ghosting you. That's not long. I thought you meant days or weeks.