I couldn’t believe my eyes?

[Anonymous]

I recently was asked by a friend which girl was more attractive? There were 8 girls walking through a warehouse coming back from a break. I pointed out one who was wearing a blue and white striped top. He looked at me and laughed a little and said that girl is a trans. I said no way, so he showed me her FB page. And that was him I mean her. It was hard to believe. I could not tell. So my question is,
Has anyone dated a girl for let’s say a month before they found out they were dating a transgender?

Yes I believe it’s possible.

No this is not possible.

Not sure it’s possible.

[Effably]

Obviously possible but... Almost every time you see it, or feel it attraction-wise. If not you almost always hear it. After all, transitioning does not transition your voice and voice training is rarely perfect. Although serious kudoos to anyone who makes it perfect, difficult stuff.

Also while I don't think there is anything wrong in dating whoever you like, legal consenting etc of course, I do think it is rather morally wrong to not be upfront about such a massive part of your life when dating. A month in is definitely too far.

[missindiana93]

That would be shocking to hear and see.