What’s something that’s a dealbreaker for you?

[Summeroflove]

[fartingspinster]

Fighting hard for my attention and wanting to be in a relationship, and then when they are - the level of attention and effort becomes subpar. Consististency is key, dont offer me something in the beginning you aren't willing to offer for the majority of the relationship. I break that stuff off quickly...

Getting caught lying or their stories are changing (facts changing etc). If you can't keep your own stories straight... your sense of reality is warped. That will he a lifetime of problems

Double standards, extreme frustration at a sex/race/culture and generalizations

these accumulate and aren't a first one and done thing

One instance deal breakers?
Getting drunk, abuse of any sort (drug, pain meds, emotional, physical), needing contact 24/7 when they've been given a heads up I'll be busy, spiraling if they dont hear from me vs having a conversation of the heart and mind, not being transparent about past things (obviously trauma block is an exception), being fucking rude to their parents or elderly people in general, being obnoxious and rude to workers of any kind - id express it but if they keep doing it or dont understand how its not appropriate I can't stand by them.

[Insecure2]

A few things, particulariy lying, manipulating, being immature, cheating, taking drugs, being intolerant/racists, being rude or excessively arrogant.

[Finchie40]

Liars and cheaters and backstabbers , a girl that is selfish and only cares about herself , is a girl I won’t waste any of my time on whatsoever. If she can’t wear my shoes the same way she expects me to wear hers , my ass is walking the other way. I can’t stand selfish girls’ that have no dignity or respect for anyone but themselves.

[Anonymous]

Lying.
Feminism
Leftism
Being a sex worker of any kind
Having a higher body count than me.
Being unkind
Having a large social media presence and the need to check it more than once per day.

Lacking basic life skills and unwilling to learn said life skills.

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

Ur a coward !

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly how am i a coward child?

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

Ur a Trumpet!

[Opinion Owner]

Actually bitch I'm not, try again

[Summeroflove]

@SuperZonicGUY1992 stop being a troll

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Smoking no matter if it's weed, cigarettes or vaping it's all gross and a deal breaker to me

[darkwing91]

Smoking is terrible

[trumpetplayerforlife]

@darkwing91 agree

[IslaTheWitch]

lack of hygiene
pretending
lying
arrogance

in any order...

[MoonFace2]

Racism. Cheating. Sexism. Unusual attractions. Cruelty, abuse and disrespect. Treating waiters badly.

[calipsoooo]

if they dont like animals, thats... um. same thing applies when dogs DO NOT like you. i dont trust you

if they have a high body count, i dont want an std

[Summeroflove]

Or to be cheated on…. It’s funny though how sone men with high body counts and counting…. Think women who have low body counts by choice want them.

They are as stupid as the women they complain about who sleep with douche bags and cry where all the nice guys went….

[Summeroflove]

They wonder why they only attract women with high body counts and women who pretend to be someone they’re not.

It would be one thing if these men seem the error of their ways and repented of it. But many are still sleeping around.

Many times the people these types sleep with aren’t the kind they want in marriahe. They want rhier cake and eat it too. They want to sleep with the degenerates but also he with someone in a real relationship

[NicholasRedone]

Personality and handedness - lefties have to stick together and they're equally important to me. Before even getting into physicality

[NicholasRedone]

Lol if left handed isn't physical hahaha 😄😆

[NicholasRedone]

But sure I do love sunscreen and not getting sun burnt or sun damaged you'll see those folks out there peeking like they 80 at only 20

[NicholasRedone]

I mean peeling skin - awful

[ProbablyClueless]

Anger and bitterness. As soon as I encounter anything that sounds like resentment, I book it on out.

[PeachyPie93]

Having girl best friends
Lying
Hiding their phone

[Yannae]

Playing games. The moment I notice a girl is playing instead of being direct, I cut contact and move on.

[sawno]

There's a lot of things yet the right girl for me can navigate that blindly.

[HighValue]

Dealbreakers:

Liberal morals, drugs, heavy alcohol use, feminist, promiscuous past, over 30, has kids, fat, short hair, unnatural hair colors, tattoos, dishonesty, doesn't take initiative at least occasionally, high debt.

[fartingspinster]

Did you end up finding a partner?

[Lionman95]

A woman that´s in an open relationship and looking for a "friend". To me that´s the nice description of a person that´s looking for an affair but isn´t honest about that.

[KostasKouvalis]

Physically: Short nails/small nail beds

Personality wise: Gets offended easily

[fartingspinster]

I am offended at the small nail beds!

[KostasKouvalis]

@fartingspinster You mean you're offended by small nail beds or offended that they're a deal breaker for me?

[fartingspinster]

Offended that they are a deal breaker for you (but really im only kidding lol)

Curious about the explanation to your response tho... what about small nail beds is a deal breaker?
I see a foot there, foot fettish?

[KostasKouvalis]

I don't know, but as far back as I can remember since childhood, I didn't like them. On men too (not that I'm bi). But I don't even like touching someone's hand if they're nails are too small/too short.

Yeah, I have a foot fetish

[Anonymous]

Smoking… especially cigarettes! Chronic bad breath. Lack of empathy/compassion.

[Jakefromstatefarm6]

Little to no sex drive. Mismatched drives is a relationship killer

[NicIsmyusername]

Not being open to anal, at least give me a chance 😂

[darkxoangel92]

If they are short😅 I need someone like 5’9 and up.

[Wayneg89]

5'9 is a great cut off! 😂😂😂

[NicholasRedone]

5"11 reporting for duty 🤣😊🤣🤠

[Bricealan]

@summeroflove Smoking or someone drinking too much

[DrPepper12]

If she used to be a he

[Summeroflove]

Like Mike Obama?

[DrPepper12]

You guys need new material. So 2000 & late...

[Summeroflove]

Aren’t you a republican?

[DrPepper12]

Flaming lib!!

[lorenzomichael]

Untrustworthy and being unhonest.

[Summeroflove]

I agree

[MemeSupreme]

doesn't treat boundaries seriously

[__Nikki__]

Being a bigot.

[darkwing91]

Love your profile photo

Strong women are always sexy!

[__Nikki__]

Ha, thanks

[darkwing91]

I think any man here would give almost anything to be the one who gets to untie your bikini top

[__Nikki__]

That's a very specific kind of compliment!!!

[darkwing91]

Sorry too much?

[__Nikki__]

Lol it's all good

[Summeroflove]

@darkwing91 you could just DM her lol

[darkwing91]

Level 1 can't send DM

[Summeroflove]

@darkwing91 ohhh okay

[NicholasRedone]

@darkwing91 imagine my daydream of my ideal woman girlfriend and man the top is barely able to hold in the E cups, that's why my woman would never complain that the bikini has both neck strap and back strap - double to untie 😄👀 and thick, not painful, straps fabric 💪🏻 I have never like a spaghetti string bikini 👙

[NicholasRedone]

@darkwing91 and some men would rudely to their girlfriend even in bedroom time would not always treat with care which is terrible - they'd just try to yank it off which isn't very polite lol - I'm glad we're all not "old fashioned men" of old - alphas"s rolls eyes 👀😅

[NicholasRedone]

Hooray for modern men 😄 I'll shut up now @__Nikki__ always pleasant to come across other similar "Nic/Nik" - it's a small club 😄

[NicholasRedone]

I'm more of a pale fan though - pale skin rejoice like mine plastered with sunscreen on most daily days 🧴😋 watch my eyes lol

[Bkay123]

Bad social anxiety

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Annoying me is a serious deal-breaker for me.

[Manuelwe]

It depends on the argument and what I gain or loose

[itsannalee]

Money

[itsannalee]

When someone always flex it, not everyone wants your money.
Not every girl wants free foods on the date, we have money too.

[Summeroflove]

You’re right. Men who do this are going to attract narcissists and women who want them for their money.

If I had money I would never flaunt it to get women or j hope I would never

[Anonymous]

Passive/submissive, I don't like that, I like dominant girls.

[Anonymous]

Dishonesty and doing hard drugs or being an alcoholic.

[dudeinohio]

Woman having male friends

[Truthatanycost]

Lack of godliness.

[katiesmuff]

Cheating on a spouse would lead the list!

[alice55]

Racist, fat, lose his hair

[alice55]

Those that are not loyal and men acting like women

[Shortkay4568]

A smaller than average dick

[MysticDevice]

Smokers, drug users, and communists.

[Anonymous]

anyone who defends degenerate lifestyles

[Chargirllll]

Bad smell

[beefcakebradybatson]

Lack of hygiene !!!

[dougeats]

body odor

[Professor-college]

If she lied about something very important

[oceandepth1000]

being cruel

[jimmy2]

Lying to my face

[Anonymous]

No car

[fartingspinster]

I see... so you are responding to all the questions with this? 😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Yep..

[Djaay]

Americanized women.

[convo_king89]

Smoking

[Wayneg89]

Lying for sure.