My deal breaker is If they aren't Disney fans or dont have good music tastes
+1 y1. smoking
2. women who have college degrees in stupid stuff like Psychology or East Asian Studies. The worst is "Women's studies" followed only by "African American Studies." Don't forget "Business Administration. Why can't women take on the serious subjects like Math, Computer Science and Engineering?
3. She had kids. No guy should ever date a woman with kids. Stay away from them.
4. Old fat women. Women after 30 start a downward spiral with their beauty declining so fast that if they don't marry by 35, statistics show they never will.
5. Deadbeat women. They live in their parents house at 30. They have had kids without being married. They have been to rehab once. They don't have any career or plans for the future. Their only goal is to find some dick who will provide for them
6. She is a closet alcoholic. If you spend time together and she insists on having alcohol, she is probably an alcoholic but you can't see it because she is pretty and has amazing pussy.
7. She has sexual problems in the bedroom (is boring). No facials, no swallowing, no anal, no sex outside the bedroom, no submission. She thinks sex is for making babies. IF you aren't making babies, you aren't having sex.
8. She is aligned with a church and cannot think for herself. Worst examples are Catholics , Baptists, Mormons.
9. She does respect monogamy which in turn means she respects you.
10. She discusses information that you tell her is confidential with her girlfriends and Mother. This one caused me to continue dating a woman for a year just for the sex and then I dropped her without warning when I graduated from college.
You now see why men think that there are few quality women worth making a marriage commitment.
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Just curious. In reference to no. 2. If a woman has a liberal arts degree but is making a decent chunk of change, or worked their way up to management, does that change your opinion of the degree that allowed them to get in the door in the first place?
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@Whatthefluff
I agree with you. There are a lot of women (and men) who get a liberal art's degree just to get their foot in the door. Also, to get a MBA it doesn't matter what your degree is in. - +1 y
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+1 yIf I'm dating for long term reasons, then these are my dealbreakers that others consider to be "petty":
1. When she is overweight (I'm a fit guy so I have the right to prefer a fit girl)
2. When she has a high body count. Why The Number of Sexual Partners Matters
3. When she doesn't have conservative/traditional values (I have them and I'm not going to settle for headaches with a "modern" woman).
4. When identifies as a feminist.
5. When she got guy "friends". Why it’s almost impossible for men and women to be “just friends”
Despite I'm probably going to receive some butthurt replies, they will pale in comparison to the fact I'm in a wonderful relationship with someone who lives up to these requirements. And our relationship keeps getting stronger.
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+1 yHmm petty to others... I think all my deal breakers would seem petty to the guys on here.
I'd drop a guy in a second if he shows any (what I think is) negative conservative views. Says anything against LGBTQ+ or tries to get me to have a conversation/reconnect with my family, despite knowing what happened.
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I feel the same way. If you can't support people trying to live their life the way they feel they should I don't need you in mine
+1 yNot respecting boundaries, even small ones. If you continously have to tell someone "no" or "stop", even for a small thing, it shows they aren't going to respect you when it's a big thing. Relationships of all kinds cannot be healthy without trust, including respecting boundaries and consent.
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+1 yMine is they don’t kill insects or won’t take out the trash.
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Didn't you say that you wanted to marry a disabled person so that they would be dependent on you though?
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@ElementoP Im talking to Jennifer
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@Subarugirl he has a psychological issue but is extremely intelligent
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And able bodied
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that doesn't make any sense... if they were that capable then they wouldn't be dependent...
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@Subarugirl he has an emotional issue, I don’t want to describe his disability cause my stalkers might try to track him down to hurt me
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lol oh yeah your imaginary fan boy that you refuse to block and call your stalker...
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@Subarugirl he creates different profiles and goes anonymous with his questions so I can’t block him and I have 2 girls stalking me too, that’s what happens when you have 13,000 followers on this site.
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if it's really an issue then why don't you just create a new profile
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@Subarugirl why are you being so rude-
1.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Poor hygiene and lazy 🤮
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+1 yI don't think a lot of these people understand what "petty" means. A lot of what is listed isn't even petty. A lot of it is reasonable.
A petty thing that is a dealbreaker for me is fashion style. If she dresses like she just woke up out of bed all the time, then it's a solid "nope". If all she wears are yoga pants, crop tops, and athleisure... NOPE.
She has to have class and has good fashion. A lot of girls today don't know a single thing about dressing well.00 Reply- 340 opinions shared on Dating topic.
+1 yIf she has zero interest in leaving out of her parents house and not becoming independent. I will tell everyone right now I am a guy who still currently lives with his parents and sisters but eventually I am interested in getting my own job and moving out. I don't mind if my future girl is exactly like me she still living with her parents but deeply want to move out and have her own life, I don't mind that but what I don't like is a lazy, unmotivated bum who still want to have mommy and daddy support them I ain't interested in babying someone who isn't my future kids if I have any.
00 Reply Not wanting a dog! I've wanted one all my life, my previous boyfriend didn't want one and I never stopped thinking about that haha. Also probably my partner being okay with a threesome, because to me that shows I'm not enough for them/grosses me out.
20 ReplyAn instant turn off for me is when a girl takes her "tests" too far. I know u girls do it to see wether the guy lets himself be disrespected or not but u can take it too far.
For example once I went to the gym with a girl and before leaving we went for a shake. They are usually prepaired by the gym staff and the women who did our shakes spilled some of the powder on the floor. I got up and helped her clean it since she always makes the shake for me. The girl with me then said sth. along the lines of "I like to watch you clean". Call me insecure but this is what makes it petty. for me it was already a turn off, that she didn't help to begin with. long story short: A bit fun is alright but I dont waste my time on people that play silly games.10 Reply
+1 yDoesn't like dogs... sorry I have one, not giving her up for anyone.
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+1 yI was a Disney fan, now I dislike it. They ruined star wars and now all they do is lazy film writing, greed and putting political correctness agendas into their movies
Dealbreaker for me would be:
-tiktok star
-self entitled
-Golddigger
-fake, lying
-rude, berating, no respect or empathy
-having no matching interests
10 Reply 3.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. If they're leftist I would never date them, they're the worst hypocrite on earth.
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+1 yIf they try to one up something i show them.
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+1 yBeing late. I've dealt with one guy who was always constantly late! Never ever again. If someone was in hospital, I would be understanding but if they are late because they are so unorganised. I'm not wasting my time with that person.
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+1 yPeople who look down on animals. As if their lives don’t matter.
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If a Wild animal Was Tearing you or Someone you care about apart and you were there Watching as A Wild animal tear one of your family members apart
Would you Still think that the Animal that is ripping your Family member apart matters or would you Want to Kill that Wild animal because it’s Evil for trying to Murder your family or friend apart? - +1 y
So You think Cold blooded Killers Life matter you think Rapist lives matter as well as the lives of ISIS PUTIN
ADOLF HITLER
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@EarthRealm You missed my point entirely.
+1 yShe must be a christian, but if she doesn't believe in infant baptism then she and I can't get married because I want my children baptised. I only date with the intention to marry.
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+1 yIf this happened...
https://www.youtube.com/embed/mtVqD-ac5eQ20 Reply - 5.9K opinions shared on Dating topic.
m +1 yif you actually think that Aaron Rodgers is better than Tom Brady...
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Tom Brady is the GOAT. No one is better than him.
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@TransAm85 I would actually be happy if they win another Super Bowl... lol
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+1 yIf they smoke.
I don't know, I feel like most of my dealbreakers are pretty acceptable, I don't see them as petty12 Reply- +1 y
That's not petty. That's perfectly reasonable
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Yeah I think so too. Just what I thought of first
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+1 ySmoking, I hate the smell. Plus I can see she would chose the cuffs over me due to the addiction. Then again this isn’t really petty. I don’t think I have petty one since I’d be willing to work with it.
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+1 yNot shaving legs/armpits may be “petty” to some men. But it’s a deal breaker for me.
But I have a long list of very legitimate dealbreakers.00 Reply
+1 y(1) Someone who doesn't value their health (wear sunscreen, eat well, work out, etc.)
(2) Someone TOO socially awkward
10 ReplyI don't like people that are heavy into Disney.
Some petty deal breakers are clothing choices. If I see: Birkenstocks, pajamas in public, Crocs or uggs, my interest turns off.
10 Reply1.9K opinions shared on Dating topic. Homophobia and transphobia. Huge deal breakers. It means next stop is sexism.
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@iSlipKnot you put a penny too!
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@iSlipKnot true.
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@iSlipKnot they should call hatred hatred. No need to call it phobia. It's too good.
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+1 yA woman I'm getting into a relationship with being in communication with guys she slept with in the past...(guys she has kids with are an exception)
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+1 yIf she sleeps with socks on or thinks this is a fucking lobster 😤
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+1 yIf they are not interested right off the bat. If they fuck someone else after they met me but before we are exclusive then I’m not interested anymore
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s +1 yif they can’t laugh with me about the dumb things I laugh at…
00 ReplyPolitics, Smoking, Visible tats, and horrid personal hygiene.
00 Reply3K opinions shared on Dating topic. If you get offended easily then I lose my boner to the point where my dick shrinks back into my body.
00 ReplyReligiousness.
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+1 y@smahala1991 My absolute deal breakers are saying my name incorrectly, no shared musical tastes, supporting liberal beliefs, riding a motorcycle, & hate playing video games.
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+1 yLack of common free time. Though I don't know if that really qualifies as "petty".
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+1 yIf there a leftist a communist or don’t like animals
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+1 yA height less than 6 ft. I can attract tall guys so why not?
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+1 yNot liking music, different religious beliefs, opposite political views and not wanting sex.
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+1 yWanting kids or extreme baby fever, gotta respect what your partner wants but if you have a hard boundary they can’t respect gotta cut the cord
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+1 yI dont deal w/ chicks that dont give blowjobs.
00 Reply 700 opinions shared on Dating topic. They aren't a fan of the Big O. If they can't enjoy his music, that's an instant turn off.
00 Reply3.8K opinions shared on Dating topic. Thinking you're at all in charge of me
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+1 yI guess if im just not attracted to their face. thats like my only physical requirement.
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+1 yThis is my new deal breaker, I want a child, If she can't or won't have kids it's not worth my time advancing into a relationship
11 Reply1.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. If they are more Confident than me I find them Unattractive.
00 Replylacks character (lazy, dishonesty, rude) & not a practicing Muslim.
20 Reply526 opinions shared on Dating topic. Licking all fingers while eating and making noises...
00 Reply2.1K opinions shared on Dating topic. If they are a liberal/democrat.
10 ReplySmoking, poor hygiene, rudeness
00 ReplyLack of motivation or ambition :-/
00 Reply2.6K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not liking animals.
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So if 2 wolves Runs up on your dog And Tears your dog apart while your out on a walk With your dog 🐕
Or 2 wolves run up on your Child or your sister while your hanging out with them on a walk then The lives of these Wolves matter? - +1 y
If you truly Like animals like you said then an animal Killing someone you care about would not change your Views on the animals
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@EarthRealm I think human lives matter, but if a human ran up and started ripping apart my pet I would absolutely take them down. That doesn't even have to do with valuing their life or liking them—there's just not time to do anything that won't hurt or kill them in that scenario.
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That’s different Humans are aware of the things they do
Animals are not
All they see is food 🥘
And the Need to survive if Tore your friend Timmy Apart You would call them evil For Getting Lunch so they don’t starve to Death. - +1 y
Yeah
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Your drawn to the allure of animals darkness
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Yeah that’s why they are better than human beings at Surviving.
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Oh that is actually a very good one.
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So if I Lost all my Money and other Resources and Acted off Instincts and Killed people and ate them for food would you judge me or would I be considered evil in your mind?
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@EarthRealm if you lost your rationality/mind? No I wouldn't think you were evil just for not being able to tell the difference between right and wrong. I would expect you to be locked up somewhere because you can't be free in society when you go around killing people. That's just not safe.
If you're talking about in an apocalypse or life and death scenario where you are still rational, but your only option for survival is to kill and eat people, then I might consider you evil for choosing that path, it would just depend on the circumstances like everything else. - +1 y
So Survival is evil in your mind well then
I already know you’d be the first person to drop dead By starvation in a world where there was absolutely no food nothing. - +1 y
let’s say some person lives in New York and let’s say The Government went ahead and there plan was successful of you can’t buy or sell anything unless you have a chip or a barcode in your hand if he kills someone’s to eat them I won’t stop him I won’t do anything because the poor guy is hungry and humans are by definition food 🥘
They have meat 🥩 and healthy Foods inside them like the heart and Brain the liver and many other Organs that when eaten provide good nutritional value
So in your mind that would be considered evil.
Your just some democrat that wants your freedoms taken away and if the government told you that they will Put a chip inside the back of your neck that will Track your entire movements and has a GPS In the chip that The government can just Pull up and Get your location and follow the map on google maps to get to you.
And the person decided he wasn’t going to have that inside of him because he’s a Christian and that is Armageddon and is mentioned the Bible not Submitting to The government not submitting to Satan and having his soul taken away by being Turned into an Alien from Dr Fauci Vaccines 💉 that you probably already Signed up for the second they were made available.
Which means you may not even be Human anymore.
And If that man eat you or your dog 🐕 because he Is a Hungry and just trying to survive you’d want him to be thrown in a Prison to be vaccinated and have his free will taken away.
That just goes to show what kind of Person you are. - +1 y
You aren’t Survivable material. You’d be the first one to die in any world without food and water.
Me I’d drink peoples blood and eat them for survival because that’s what Has happened since the beginning of time.
You’d lay there complaining like they did in Shanghai when they’re all locked up inside of there apartment.
Me i wouldn’t be locked up inside my crib which it’s not possible for any government to lock me inside of my crib anyways due to the way my crib was designed. And even if I didn’t live in a Designed crib and it was harder to kill out I’d still get out.
There’s always a way to escape a place.
Always some loop hole something someone can do to escape nothing is inescapable. There was however Places that used to exist that were inescapable. - +1 y
This would be You
These are people crazy people screaming out and not trying to escape or nothing.
Wouldn’t be that hard to Piss the government off and get them to enter.
All you’d have to do is The Window and roll a couch down the apartment window then BOOM 💥 some Cop gets Hurt or someone gets hit by the couch or Create a massive flood that pours out the window into the streets filling the streets with water 💧
https://youtu.be/RBJj_UwkSyc - +1 y
Or taking a water gun shooting it down into the streets and Throwing lighters down there to catch the Street and surrounding areas on fire 🔥
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Or simply waiting till the government unlocks the Door and burning all of Shanghai or burning all of China to the ground
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And being prepared both physically mentally and tactically so one can escape and Burning China to the ground
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16.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. If she has a bad diet (too much fast food)
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+1 yNot liking cats DUH
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If some dude doesn’t like cats then he’s gay
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I meant A Girls Kitty
But I used the Term Cat as a Joke - +1 y
@qdbrown how so?
5.7K opinions shared on Dating topic. Dislike of Animals is a deal breaker.
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Same
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+1 yUgly hands and feet
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yCalling people 'mate'.
00 ReplyIf they want to talk about their ex.
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+1 yTo high a body count
10 Reply4.3K opinions shared on Dating topic. Disney movies are the opiate of media.
00 Reply639 opinions shared on Dating topic. Tattoos.
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00 Reply2.4K opinions shared on Dating topic. Smoker
10 Reply4.5K opinions shared on Dating topic. Not liking animals
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+1 yWeak conversations
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