Is it weird for a 33 year old man to go for girls in their early 20s?

[Chargirllll]

In the UK the legal age is 16 so what if a man of 33 were going for 19-25? Would you find that strange? And why?

Strange

Fine

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1 y

Really weird poll and comments don't correlate

[David318578]

Nope completely normal and actually instinctual

[oldpigg]

I don't like old women.

[Finchie40]

No not weird at all , A lot of guys’ like younger girls’ and a lot of younger girls’ like older guys’ so nothing wrong there whatsoever, if they are both legal age of consent then they aren’t doing anything wrong

[WhiteBoyChill]

You dont find the obvious maturity gap in any way concerning? A girl in her early 20’s is more of a girl than she is a grown woman

[Finchie40]

Not at all, I know girls’ in their 20’s that are more matured then girls’ my age or older

[Chargirllll]

@WhiteBoyChill she is a woman you fool

[Finchie40]

I prefer younger girls’ these days , mainly because younger girls’ don’t hesitate to please a man and keep him satisfied in the bedroom , where older women , tend to carry a lot of baggage and are negative about so many things , I been with both, and younger girls’ are way better in my opinion , if you like having a shitty sex life then go for an older women if you want an active sex life go for younger , I prefer an active sex life , so I lean more toward younger girls’ that don’t carry that much baggage like an older women does. I like girls’ that don’t make me bed for sex , I like girls’ that want it as much as I do

[blackeagle007]

Under 21 means they aren’t legally adult. Meaning unless they are 21, they can’t buy Alcohol, Gamble, get into strip clubs etc.

[blackeagle007]

It depends on the women. There’s all types I feel

[Chargirllll]

@blackeagle007 everywhere else except usa, 18 year olds can buy alcohol and do all those things.

And just because they can't do those things doesn't mean they aren't adults at 18. They get adult privileges at 18 too.

[blackeagle007]

Examples please

[Chargirllll]

@blackeagle007 here in the UK you can do anything from 18 except buy some products like tabacco.

In the USA you can go to army and many jobs at 18, vote, live on your own, drive, and more

[Finchie40]

Yea age is just a number for the most part , legal age of consent is 17 where I live. and I had sex with a 19 year old when I was in my 30’s because her and I had great chemistry and connection together , so her age didn’t stop me from banging her. There are girls’ my age that I wouldn’t bang because they were selfish immature girls, the 10 year old was way more respectful and mature for her age. So that’s why I don’t hold age as a deciding factor unless she is under legal age of consent

[blackeagle007]

It’s still weird I feel. My oldest niece is older than 19. Besides 18-25, neurologically their brains haven’t reached the mature point until 25.

[Chargirllll]

@blackeagle007 that's a myth about the 25 age.

[blackeagle007]

Many experts in the neuroscience field say otherwise.

[Chargirllll]

@blackeagle007 neuroscience experts literally say 25 means nothing lol

[Finchie40]

Well I am not fucking her brain , just fucking her brains out lol

[blackeagle007]

I dunno what you’re reading but I got friends in the field and I read articles. You have to admit though, a 44 year old with a 19 year old? You gotta believe that’s cradle robbing

[Chargirllll]

@blackeagle007 I think it's fine. And you can Google the 25 age brain development myth

[Finchie40]

People can call it whatever they want , me personally doesn’t care what other people think or say when I meet a beauty girl that wants to rock my world , if she is legal that’s all that matters

[Chargirllll]

@Finchie40 good for ya

[blackeagle007]

The internet like that’s a reliable ounce of info 😆. Anyone could write stuff online. That age, they are partying, live streaming themselves. I have no interest in partying

A. I’m too old for that

B. That’s how I developed my addiction

I just think we need to stick with our range of age.

[Finchie40]

I am not saying I am chasing after 19 year old sat my age now , but if it happened, I would t say No to it , Would
You say No to someone you found attractive and beautiful to your eyes that wanted you and they were of legal age of consent? Just being honest here

[Chargirllll]

@blackeagle007 it comes from scientists.

It's none your business who others date or fuck

[Finchie40]

Exactly @Chargirllll

[blackeagle007]

Do you two have children? Have would you feel your 19 year old is getting banged by a middle aged person?

[Finchie40]

It wouldn’t bother me if she was happy and he treated her good , I don’t control who my kids’ date if it’s their choice and they are happy that’s all
That matters

[blackeagle007]

We all live on complex planets I guess. The most important question, many women so young may not feel romantically attracted to someone much older unless he’s very well off financially. Let’s face it. $ plays a big role in order to attract someone younger.

[Chargirllll]

@blackeagle007 I wouldn't care either. Older men are more experienced. You seem to have a one sided beef with this too. Just focusing on the girl if she's younger.

[blackeagle007]

I got no beef. I’m telling what feedback I hear. Lot of younger say “ewww that guy is old, why is he hitting on me” not that I’d hit on them but I hear those ladies talking like we’re creeps

[Finchie40]

I see what you are saying but not every younger girl is like that ,

[blackeagle007]

I guess it’s where I live. Michigan females are so brutal. Poor attitudes. Especially in the expensive parts of the states

[Crimsyjo]

@blackeagle007 I was 19 when I met guy who became my husband. He was 31 at the time. Not rich. In fact he lived with his parents. We lasted 12 years. I guess one issue was I grew and changed and he never did. And there were other issues. But at 19 no o don't think I wasn't mature enough or developed enough to make a sound decision. I decided when we would try for a baby (age 23 or 24). After I learned to drive and we got our own place together. I very much was the lead in the relationship.

[Finchie40]

@Crimsyjo when I was in my early 30’s I dated a 19 year old as well , but our relationship didn’t last like yours did but it wasn’t the age gap that made us go our separate ways , it was because her parents’ moved away and she went with them , so we actually ended on good terms , I am still friends’ with her til this day , She eventually got married and had kids’ with someone else , but her and I are still friends’ and I was her first so another reason she keeps in touch with me , You girls’ love holding onto your first lol

[Crimsyjo]

Haha my first I chose a stranger in a night club lol

But yeah I get what you mean. It was never age that broke my husband and I up.

I wouldn't date a guy more than ten years younger than me. But that's because as the woman I find it hard to trust a younger gut won't discard me for a younger model as we get older. But age in and of itself has little to do with compatibility. If my husband and I had been just 5 years age gap or two we would still have broken up if our characteristics and issues were the same.

[blackeagle007]

@Crimsyjo by the way women do leave their spouses for younger guys. I think the trend is becoming that guys prefer to date within their own age while women prefer the younger get, athletic guy. It’s just that it’s easier for women to have options. Men have it really hard

[Crimsyjo]

@blackeagle007 I don't know. Most women I know prefer guys a few years older or maybe a little younger. But only by a couple of years.
If a woman is thinking fun then sure younger guy is great. If she's thinking long term relationship? I find it hard to think they don't feel as I do.

I don't seem to have options at my age. I do for sex. But for relationship i am finding it extremely hard. And I'd give any guy a chance so long as I have some attraction to him. But guys my age I think want women younger in 30's. And I don't want to date guys much older than me. Or can't find guys I'm attracted to who are older.

[Chargirllll]

@blackeagle007 Lmao men will always want younger women. This is a thing set in biology. It will never go out of trend.

[Finchie40]

For each their own I guess , but age doesn’t really matter if both people are happy and they are not forced to be with each other. , what matters is the chemistry and connection and attraction a couple has for each other , Age doesn’t determine that whatsoever. A lot of states have different age limits of consent , some states have the legal age of consent at 16 , So a 16 year old can date anyone that is their age or older. You are only considered a pedophile if you go after someone under legal age of consent

[Crimsyjo]

Age doesn't matter if you meet people the natural way. Like through work, sports, hobbies or maybe even through family and friend gatherings. You can hit it off with someone and feel chemistry and then when it comes to "oh so how old are you?" Maybe it doesn't matter. If it's a little bigger gap than your usual and you like eachother. But I never meet anyone this way. There's nobody at work.. I've tried hobbies and groups. People here in UK don't seem to do mingle events like BBQs and parties. Not in my age group. So that leaves dating apps. And thar means people have pre conceived ideas of the age they are looking for. So for example a 40 year old man will prob set the search for 25 to 35. Or maybe upto 40. Maybe more specific even. Already discounting me based on age (probably preconceived ideas that a 45 Yr old woman is not young and fun and sexual like me).

[blackeagle007]

@Crimsyjo I’m sure many men would like to date you. You shouldn’t discount yourself because of the younger ladies. I prefer my own age, I would get called a creep. And that’s happen with other guys when they approach someone younger. I assume you aren’t in the states. American women have terrible attitudes and never give ordinary looking guys a chance. Could be how they were raised. I always suspect my looks is keeping ladies away. But each culture is different.

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

Finchie40 Just a quick question, Ok she you connected with woman from a different generation then you better rather with woman you're own age?

I seem to connect better with woman in their early 20s rather then with woman my age. I am glad I wasn't the only dude.

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

@blackeagle007 Well if the 19 year old woman is a racist maga and this white dude is also a racist maga.

[Summeroflove]

What it comes down to is someone’s intentions if someone’s only dating younger women it could be a sign he’s wanting control and to take advantage of someone. If he’s just with someone younger and building a genuine connection that’s different.

Yet some people also take advantage of someone older as well if they are more financially stable as well. So people need to be aware of the red flags.

[Chargirllll]

Could be just hooking up too, no need for a connection there

[Summeroflove]

That’s the issue many people just want to have sex. Some people aren’t so honest either. Even though sex is cheap… Finding other sluts is easy. But unfortunately some people want more of a challenge as retarded as it sounds. So they will pursue people acting like they want a connection and just drop off after sex.

[Summeroflove]

Many people will have sex with the opposite kind of person then what they want to marry too. Which is sad seeing someone end up strung along with that as well.

Like someone whose marrying someone for money but love bombing. But has slept with men with crimson records. Slept with men who are bums and losers who the only thing they got going for them is they’re hot and fun in bed.

As for men it’s women who are sluts have STD’s. Slept with 100s of men. But is marrying a girl who is mentally stable. Wanting to have a family. Loves him.

It’s just incredibly sad to see it happen especially when the affairs start… with the same type of people.

[Chargirllll]

How i

[Chargirllll]

How is it any of your business?

[Summeroflove]

If someone’s asking the question then I’m going to give a honest answer. Not
The answer you’re wanting to hear

[Summeroflove]

I can say for me personally. If someone seems to be stringing me along. I run….. it’s just sad seeing good people taken advantage of when there is someone out there who would love them.

[Chargirllll]

Oh I thought you are criticising other peoples sex lives.

[Chargirllll]

Your first paragraph is valid, but everything else seemed like you are just criticising casual sex

[Chargirllll]

So I guess you answer to my questions is "it depends"

[Summeroflove]

I’m just saying many people want their cake and eat it too. So yes, I am criticizing them.

If a man wants a woman whose a virgin by choice. But he’s slept with 100s of women who are sluts. Why would someone like that want him?

If a woman’s sleeping with deadbeats and bad men. Especially if she ends up a single mom (feel sorry for the kids not her or the men she picked) but also wants a gentleman to swoop her off her feet and save her from herself. She wants him to be Prince Charming with his life together. But also…. Accept her for who she is and her flaws and her lifestyle.

It just
Doesn’t work that way. Now…. I will say people can mature and see the error of their ways. But many people want the same thing at the same time. Including if they are married to someone having affairs.

[Summeroflove]

People don’t like to hear that they need to chose one lifestyle or the other. It’s either new partners all the time…. Drama….. never feeling happy unless you’re getting the next high and thrill. Ending up either growing old and single or being a single parent. Paying child support or raising the kids on your own.

The other option is to be the kind of person you want to attract. I feel bad for
Good people who are taken advantage of but at some point they end up having all they can take from someone and leaving. Either breaking up or divorce.

People who make good choices and have their life in order just point blank want someone whose the same. Sure, at one point they have empathy. They think they can change someone and save someone from themselves. But at some point they realize that they also have to want it and many narcissists want a enabler. So they focus on people who deserve it.

[Summeroflove]

You’re right. Short answer to your question is. It depends.

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

Listen here you moron if 21 year old woman is a racist maga Karen and finds herself a racist 37 year olds Karen maga dude then they're best for each other.

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

Chargirl if they're both racist maga fanatics then they're best at marrying each other.

[Summeroflove]

@SuperZonicGUY1992 ok

[Summeroflove]

@SuperZonicGUY1992 ok keep going with your Trump hate

[DishLady]

Its stupid and weird, but it happens.

[Chargirllll]

Why is it stupid?

Because you are old?

[DishLady]

Most likely because young gals like you are known for being easy and doing stupid, desparate shit for them.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Shots fired!!! 💥💥💥

[WhiteBoyChill]

@Shiprex I’m sorry but most younger women are not “genuine feminine women” these days. What fcking planet have you been living on?

Nevermind the “more established” part. LMAO

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

@WhiteBoyChill What about you racist maga Trump fanatics! You are part of that racist club I bet you joined the whites supremacy in you're neighborhoods. Yeah you and you're little racist bigot friends Exterminator, Alwaysreckles and you have get together with you're pointy white kkk hats and have you're meetings together.

How about you admit to all these people that you're a racist !

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

DishLasy so you agree the first lady is stupid since she is younger then her husband Mr. President.

[DishLady]

Everyone is younger than MrP. We can’t hold it against the little gold digger for getting her guy.

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

DishLady so you hate the president.

[Screenwriter]

It's not "weird" but unless you're only going out with them for fun, your chances of having any kind of successful relationship with someone 10 to 13 years younger than you at that point in THEIR lives when they haven't decided who they are or how they're going to live, study, work, etc, is unlikely.

So, it's up to what you want from these young women. If it's casual dating, it's fine. Serious relationship, much more difficult. And it's not precisely the age gap. It's the age of the women you're pursuing.

If you were 40 and the woman 30, you're both grownups with some life experience. But 22 to 33 is a giant difference in maturity and life experience.

[blackeagle007]

Your user name looks familiar. I think we spoke years back from another site

[blackeagle007]

by the way I agree 2 different planets isn’t a healthy relationship

[Lliam]

It's not weird at all if he's interested in sex. She is fully mature and past the age of consent. And nobody can say that young women aren't sexy af. They are flawless, fit, flexible, taut, and often horny, eager, enthusiastic and athletic.
Plus, he might have some success since some young women are attracted to older men.

Also not weird if he wants to start a family. At 33, he may own some assets and be financially stable. He may figure that young women are more fertile and physically capable of bearing children.
And some guys who want to get married and have families have a hang up about wanting sexually inexperienced women. The younger the woman, the more chance there is of her being a virgin or having had little sexual experience.

[Zack-Bann]

Why would it be weird?


You’re 27 like me.
Can you tell me that you’re so fundamentally different from someone who’s 22
To the point where a 35 year old dating you is ok but a pedo for someone 5 years younger?


I think so long as both parties are consenting adults its not weird


Of course legally is non negotiable but then you consider the mental maturity


I have met women who were 30 and behaved like such children to the point it felt strange to see them as dating partners


And of course some 20 year olds are self sufficient and well grounded adults who know what’s what and it feels completely natural to consider dating them

[xcheerleader_jessx]

It depends why they are together. If it's just friends with benefits, you could really be any age. If they are dating to marry then a 10 year gap still makes sense. An age gap bigger than that might make it difficult for them to relate to one another, at times.

[Chargirllll]

I agree

[Shiprex]

I don't think it is. A lot of women these days have jumped on the promiscuity bandwagon thinking it's for everyone to find themselves and end up damaged because it's a minefield of emotional turmoil when they get into it. That isn't appealing to men who've worked to establish themselves in careers and want a person to share that stability with who has potential they can see that matches their life goals. They can build something together rather than compete in the same rat race at the same stages ending up competing against each other for the next great career development.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah lmao. This idea that girls my age are “young and innocent”.

Almost all the ones I know started having sex when they were 15! LMAO

[Shiprex]

@WhiteBoyChill You're obviously only hanging out with the future OF and 304s then. I know literally hundreds who aren't that way but then they don't live on Tiktok

[WhiteBoyChill]

I’m talking about girls in my classroom in school. Not ones I ever “hanged out with”

[Shiprex]

@WhiteBoyChill so it's likely the popular ones and not the nerdy ones you're noticing and thinking they're the only ones around. The ones who are in libraries, striving for educations and not putting out because social media is their life.

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yeah that’s true but the point still stands. A lot of women my age have been around the block

[Shiprex]

@WhiteBoyChill I think that's true of any generation tbh, there are 304s gonna be run through, knocked up and divorced before 30

[Lalalove11]

Well , 19-25 is a pretty big difference. 25 and a 33 year old, I don't see a problem. But personally I have matured since I was 19 and become wiser to men since then. I have known of two manipulative men that specifically targeted 18-19 year old girls who are definitely less experienced/more naive than a 24-25 year old. Overall it isn't that strange but it strongly depends on the man and his character. It's quite nuanced and should be taken as a case by case basis. I think guys and girls at the ages 18-22 should kind of stick to people their age to six years their senior at most.

[Chargirllll]

That's a weird age range 18 to 22. There's quite a difference between 18 and 22. Also, how is it different if a 25 year old fucks a 19 year old vs a 40 year old? Seems irrational to me

[Lalalove11]

I didn't know you were just enquiring about fucking, I suppose.

[Chargirllll]

When there is an age gap like this it's nearly always just fucking

[Lalalove11]

I guess I'm still naive 😅if it's just that then sure , I don't see too much an issue really. They're just consenting adults

[Levin]

I think that is biologically natural. But ultimately, to each their own. Not sure why people take such an interest in other people's lives rather than just living their own.

Also, this notion of maturity. Certainly, in my place of work, the older the women, the more immature and emotionally illiterate they are.

[TsundereMatrix]

I don’t think it’s strange at all. They are both adults. But if the girl was 18, I’d think it’s a bit more strange as she just turned into an adult. If the man knew her before she was 18 or befriended her before 18 then that could be considered as grooming in some countries.

[Vevv123]

This is an interesting question because I believe people can fall in love regardless of age. However, if he is constantly seeking to date only younger girls, it might be something to question. Can he not connect with someone his age? Is he solely thinking about looks? Etc.

[Chargirllll]

I implied it's sexual

[Vevv123]

Oh i see, so like with only sexual purposes. I’d prefer someone who wants a relationship based off of emotional connection. But if we’re talking about a sexual relationship, I mean if she is looking for the same thing he is, sexual/physical connection, I guess it wouldn’t be weird. I don’t know honestly. But then again it might be a fetish.

[Chargirllll]

So what did you vote?

OR you didn't vote because it depends?

[OneViewpoint]

No you didn’t. You left it vague and unclear. Why do women depend on mind reading for communication? Why can’t you be more direct?

[OneViewpoint]

Could be fine or could be strange. Is he ONLY targeting much younger inexperienced women? Or did he happen to find a connection with one younger woman with say a 10-12 year age gap. Did he pursue her or did she pursue him? Details and context matter in a subjective judgement of "right" and "wrong".

[Chargirllll]

I think the question is clear enough, it says a 33 year old man going after women in their 19-25 years of age. The question implies it's just casual or sex.

[OneViewpoint]

Just because you think it’s clear does not mean it is actually clear.

It obviously is not since now you’re complaining that you didn’t get the answers you were expecting.

[Chargirllll]

How am I complaining

[Chargirllll]

It's clear you think it's wrong, so just add your vote and stop preaching on so many of the comments

[Samuel75]

Men are attracted to younger women naturally and also it's best as a man to go for a woman younger than you because according to study women age faster than men because of their body structures. And likewise also some women are attracted to older men.

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Hi I'm 24 my husband is 31 when we met I was 20 he was 27 lol

[Chargirllll]

Did you vote?

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Yes I did

[RageBabe]

I'm in a 30-year age gap relationship; he's older than me, and we're very much in love. I'd say as long as they're legal and respectful to one another, it's fine for a 30-something-year-old to get with a 20-something-year-old.

[RedThread]

It sure as hell is strange to me and I'm 37. I could never go out with a teenager or a woman who is in her early 20s. What would we have in common? We're probably in way different stages in life, plus it would feel like I was a creepy groomer. I know if someone my age was hitting on my young hypothetical daughter I'd absolutely hate it.

[Chargirllll]

That's fine for you, the question assumed sex not dating though

[RedThread]

That would still feel creepy to me. I'd have way more life experience in social situations so it would feel like I was taking advantage of her. It just feels morally wrong.

[Chargirllll]

That's fine it's your opinion, you shouldn't project it onto others though

[RedThread]

Well you're question was asking if it was weird and I'm saying yes. I'm not trying to force my views onto others. I just think it's weird as hell. Your questions asked for opinions and I gave mine.

[Chargirllll]

Sure

[Akashrangwani1997]

I don't find anything strange in this. If you are just looking at beauty then you can see that there is nothing strange in this. Often a good looking thing can attract you, age has nothing to do with it. And even if your thinking and understanding matches, there is nothing wrong in that. It is wrong only when the other person is uncomfortable with age gap

[Red_Arrow]

Not really. Younger women are usually more sexually appealing to most men. Of course, in 20 years they will both be 20 years older and she may not want someone that old.

[kellytheman]

No most guys want a younger girl and most girls want an older man. Guys want a girl that still young and sex drive matching theirs and girls might want a guy is a little more mature and experienced then guy her own age.

[Blunky]

Fine if he ends up with them. But purposely seeking women that much younger, I start to question why. I myself find most women that young kind of annoying. I've raised enough other people's kids at work.

[FunkyMonkee]

My parents did it! Had dad lived as long as mom plus 2 or 3 months, they would've made it to their 60th anniversary together.

[BadApple69]

Age is a matter of mind, if you don’t mind, it doesn’t matter.

[molonski2]

Not strange at all , I did that as a constant at that age , always loved younger women.

[Anonymous]

It makes old hags feel insecure because they could have had a family with man, but they choose their boring 9-5 job thinking guys would still be interested in them at 50 years, but when reality set in they realized they fucked up.

[Spencer10]

Hey if it works for both of them who am i to judge.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's weird at all and a lot of girls in their early 20's are interested in older guys.

[elizamichale1]

If they r ok with each other I dont see a problem

[just_a_potato]

As long as it isn't a man over 30+ going for a someone who's 18-19, I personally think it's fine. I like older men so I'm a bit biased. But I believe it all boils down to intent. There's a difference between a man who just happens to be attracted to a younger woman, and a man who's specifically looking for that younger woman and is kinda creepy about it. And probably wants to be with her for very, very specific reasons. You can tell. Or at least I can tell.

[Chargirllll]

Whats the difference between 18 and 19 and 20?

Your last sentence makes you seem pretentious.

[just_a_potato]

They just became legal is the difference, when you're that young, two years makes a difference. And my last sentence doesn't make me pretentious, it's demonstrating that I'm able to see things I have seen before.

[Chargirllll]

How does it make a difference? You didn't explain it.

How would a 19 year old be harmed compared to a 20 year old? That's what you are suggesting.

In my opinion you are just arguing about semantics

Your point with legality is wrong too depending on the state. Many have 16 as age of consent.

[Chargirllll]

Maybe semantics was the wrong word used here, but you are just arguing with your feelings rather than facts

[just_a_potato]

a 19 year old was 16 years old three years ago. That's a big difference from say, you bring 27 now, and you were 25 three years ago. And that's not even factoring in the man's age. And since you brought it up, the age of consent of 16 years is for two people who are four years apart from each other, and anything older lands you a statutory rape charge if I'm not mistaken. So before you push this debate further, could you tell me your opinion on your own question? Because I honestly can't tell which side you're on.

[Chargirllll]

It's obvious I think it's fine regardless of the age.

And no, the law doesn't state that, it's legal for any adult to have sex with a 16 year old if it's legal In that state. You can double check that.

And you STILL didn't explain how it would be different for the 18 or 19 year old. You are just arguing with your emotions and how you feel but can't back it up why it would be wrong

[just_a_potato]

So are you saying you think it's fine for an adult man to have sex with a 16 year old? Because that's what you seem to be saying. I brought up the three year point to show you that they were still considered a child not too long ago, but you obviously don't believe in that do you? The crazy part of this entire debate is that I wasn't even against your point, and you're nitpicking one thing I said to make it sound like I'm unreasonable.

[Chargirllll]

Did I mention 16 year old in my question? You know what I am talking about, it's right in my question.

Your point makes no sense because they wouldn't be a child anymore at 19.

Someone can say you are still a kid at 20 or 21 or 22. Lot of people say that yet they are adults.

And we clearly disagree here, you are arguing with emotions, but I am arguing with facts. That's the only difference.

[just_a_potato]

I DON'T know what you mean because you're so fiercely defending the argument that 30 years should be able to specifically fuck teens without it being weird, as if you are a teen yourself defending your boyfriend! If we were to go into the psyche of the typical 19 year old, in college, just graduated high school, and I mean, really went into depth, I'd hope you understood what I'm trying to say here. But I'm not going to try and fit a whole essay in a comment section just for you to disagree with me anyway. We can agree to disagree, but you won't because 20% of my opinion is 'yeah you should be able to fuck and be with whoever you want, but it would be weird for 30+ to be going after teens' is such a mind boggling take to you. It feels like you're the one arguing with emotions. Especially considering you had to leave a response on a separate question. I don't understand your need to be combative.

[just_a_potato]

Here's the kicker, I even mentioned intent. So I'm not even saying they can't! And you're still arguing.

[Chargirllll]

Because you make no sense, so I am arguing my point? We clearly disagree stop denying it.

I am speaking with facts so I am not using emotions you are. Your current argument that 19 year olds are in college literally applies to all up to 21. Many 19 year olds are in college already a year so they didn't just graduate high school.

You still can't explain how it's wrong to go after a 19 year old but not a 20 year old.

Just say it's your personal opinion, then it would make sense

[just_a_potato]

I'm starting to think you aren't who you say you are. Did you grow up as a girl in America? And yes this is relevant to the argument.

[Chargirllll]

No I didn't

[just_a_potato]

That makes sense. Okay, then we can just agree to disagree. I hope you get the responses you were hoping for out of this... very specific question.

[Chargirllll]

I already did

[4ngelic]

it's not unless that's only what he's after. though 19 is a little too young and a bit sussy.

[Chargirllll]

Don't forget to vote!

[Chargirllll]

What if it was your friend?

[4ngelic]

the 19yo or the 33yo?

[Chargirllll]

The 33 yo

[4ngelic]

i wouldn't be friends with someone 10 years older than me, but lets i say i was. if they happen to go for 19yos and it's not like a one off thing, i'd probably be put off. i think 18-20yos should be off limits for people that aren't young. 21+ is fair game though to me. i'm still in the same age range as a 19yo but i'd feel a bit like a pedophile if i trying to sleep with one. i'd be called a groomer i bet. so for someone way older than me doing that it's just icky

[Chargirllll]

That's weird you'd feel like that, but you do you.

I don't see how one or two years makes a difference though.

[Joshydavid25]

Not strange or weird at all.. 33 isn't old at all and is still on the younger side.

[soe11]

• to me nothing wrong whatsoever

[sawno]

24+ i'd say is normal at those ages, younger than that is odd to me.

[Chargirllll]

That's weird so how's 24 different to 23?

[sawno]

23 can match as well. But 24 is more likely to have finished school making their maturity align more.

[Chargirllll]

That's such a weird argument with school.
Some people finish at 18 or 19 as they don't go to further education

[Sunrising]

I'd have an age limit of 31, and + 1 every year !

[Chargirllll]

I don't understand

[Sunrising]

I think it's weird like you said !

[Chargirllll]

I never said I think it's weird

[Sunrising]

If you find love it doesn't matter about the age ! But it would be good to have the whole market for myself !

[Chargirllll]

Whole market, what is that?

[Sunrising]

All the females, I don't like sharing !

[Chargirllll]

Oh I see

Why do you think it's strange?

[Sunrising]

To remove the competition !

[Chargirllll]

Ohhh

[Sunrising]

Unfortunately I'm single !

[Chargirllll]

Bless ya

[NewestOdium]

Depends though I have been roughly in the opposite situation (older woman me younger) and it was fine.

[Chargirllll]

What age gap?

[NewestOdium]

It was 10 years once 11 another

[Chargirllll]

How does it depend?

[NewestOdium]

Factors of maturity I believe the rule for older looking for younger is half your age plus 7 to look socially ok.

[Chargirllll]

But that rule goes against your relationship

[ProbablyClueless]

I would find it strange. But only because the cultural difference between the man and woman would have me wondering what they even connected over.

[masterSir]

They're both adults it fine. I'm 45 and have a girlfriend that age.

[HungTexan]

It’s fine. Why not?

[chrissykerdock]

do you like younger girls

[HungTexan]

@chrissykerdock at my age, most are younger. But I just like hot women generally, whatever their age.

[Chargirllll]

Haha

[Anonymous]

It's pathetic because it shows they can't find men... I mean women at their own age. Predatory out of desperation.

[Opinion Owner]

Awe honesty beings out the pink trolls

[Opinion Owner]

Man in a pink account

[fish5505_87]

I can't. Are you researching your thesis? lol.

[Chargirllll]

Just add your vote

[fish5505_87]

ok, i'll play along

[blackeagle007]

To me 20’s isn’t fully matured. I’d stick with early 30’s to mid 40’s

[Chargirllll]

I am talking about the people in the question, not you

[blackeagle007]

Look at other poster. Don’t come after me pal

[Chargirllll]

What poster lol

I am just telling people who don't answer the question properly

[blackeagle007]

Read the entire responses. I read the question. Try to use respect or don’t post a question at all.

[Chargirllll]

I am, and I want answers to the questions, not personal ones.

OR maybe I misunderstood?

[Chargirllll]

And I AM reading the responses. Don't deflect your wrongs to others.

[blackeagle007]

I’m a certified expert. Labl

[blackeagle007]

There’s 2 types of trolls. A professional and Amateur. I’m a pro!

[Chargirllll]

So you think it's weird OK

[blackeagle007]

If it’s in bounds legally anyone can do what they want. Doesn’t mean everyone will date that young. But I won’t try to stop anyone

[SuperZonicGUY1992]

If they're maga racist Trump supporters and they are legal age they be perfect.

[Wayneg89]

As long as they are both consenting adults I don't see the problem.

[chrissykerdock]

men always want younger girls

[Username3005]

Your age

divided by two

plus 7.

that’s as low as you should go

[Chargirllll]

Yet most people don't follow the rule, what does that make them?

[Username3005]

Rule breakers

[Chargirllll]

I thought you'll say pedos

[alice55]

it's weird and it's most likely a manipulative weirdo

[WhiteBoyChill]

Its a sign of an emotionally immature guy looking for a woman that’s easier to control if you ask me.

[Chargirllll]

@WhiteBoyChill so what if it's sex?

[alice55]

@WhiteBoyChill Yes that's 100 % this

[dean53AU]

It happens a lot in many countries

[Kelly6]

@chargirllll no it’s not weird

[LunarEclipse433]

Both are of legal age

[Adogdog]

A little. I'm 29 and feel like early 20's may be a little young.

[Chargirllll]

Yet you support teens with old women in their 50s. You are a weirdo and biased.

[Adogdog]

When did I say that?

[Chargirllll]

We used to speak before, I want to have nothing to do with you.

Glad you are in the minority here, shows what kind of weirdo you are

[Chargirllll]

Also don't project your rules onto others. Just because it's young for you, doesn't mean it's like that for others

[Subtle_Luminescence]

All good

[chocolatetwopointo]

he should be with someone his own age

[Chargirllll]

OK little one

[chocolatetwopointo]

ur the kind to be 16 and date a 40 yr old and act like she's ”mature”.

[Chargirllll]

Lol no that's nasty

[chocolatetwopointo]

mhmm

[Chargirllll]

You're weird, this is why kids shouldn't be here

[chocolatetwopointo]

how am i weird?

[Chargirllll]

Making shocking assumptions about me and behaving weirdly like that mmmm

[chocolatetwopointo]

so u think men should date 18 yr olds?

[Chargirllll]

Sure

[chocolatetwopointo]

what💀

[MikeTheGreek1979]

If they are over 21 sure if it legal.

[Chargirllll]

How can it be not legal over 21?

I mean seriously, this is common sense

[Smegskull]

consenting adults, etcetera, etcetera.

[Wise4myage]

Not strange.

[PaleDale]

Fine

[WhiteBoyChill]

Weird af.

[Chargirllll]

Hypocrite

[WhiteBoyChill]

In what way?

[Chargirllll]

I saw you on different thread saying its OK if it's a woman

[WhiteBoyChill]

I never said that. Its just weird in general

[Chargirllll]

I doubt it. You're a hypocrite

[WhiteBoyChill]

Yet you fail to provide the evidence

[Anonymous]

The higher end no but the lower end yes

[Chargirllll]

Why?

[Opinion Owner]

Half age plus 7
That's 23 in this case

[Chargirllll]

That's a retarted rule and most people don't follow it. It's made up lol. An example of how stupid it is.

A 40 year old could date a 27 year old, but by the rule it's wrong or creepy but nobody would give a fuck.

[Opinion Owner]

That would be fine under the rule

[Chargirllll]

Lol 40 and 26 then 😂😂

[Opinion Owner]

Technically sure, thing the rule wears out after a point maybe 35 (24 yeah sounds right unless you're Madonna)

[Chargirllll]

What are you talking about?

You are all over the place

[Opinion Owner]

After 35 the rule doesn't apply

[Chargirllll]

I never heard that about the rule

You just make stuff up lol

[Opinion Owner]

Rules been around forever not that it affects me only pursuing older women

[Chargirllll]

Your own rules, I don't think anyone else cares about your rules.

And your rule applies to your older partners

[Opinion Owner]

I recall hearing the rule back in the day

I didn't think of that, hang on
18/2=9+7=16 okay we are Coolio

40 is safe kind of unfortunate the celebs who tickle the pickle are older than that

[Chargirllll]

Lol you are weird

[Opinion Owner]

Correctamundo chief

[Chargirllll]

Oh you're him.

Yes a massive weirdo and ugly too

[Opinion Owner]

Right again but I don't not proclaim of my failure in looks