Can your boyfriend love you after three dates?

[MoonFace2]

My boyfriend and I have known each other for two months online but have had three dates, soon coming up to our fourth. He keeps telling me he loves me. Can this happen so soon? Three weeks of dating?

[SteveSmith1985]

Usually no. Definitely not unless you two were unusually close in every way... and just had the closest conversations and talked for hours for the two months before the date... and are... very different from most people after this much time.

The thing that lets me know something is off here, is the fact that it strikes you as off. As too soon to be genuine.

If there were any chance this were a rare exception... BOTH of you would feel that way. You wouldn't ask this... because you wouldn't feel it was too soon. You would be over the moon that this guy you are absolutely crazy about... said he loves you after so short a time. Thats not the sense I'm getting here.

If it's too soon for you. It's too soon.

Also... objectively it's too soon (in all but the most magical of cases)

You clearly are not on the same page. Therefore it's too soon. That's really the only exact way to know.

That's not great. It's not necessarily fatal. It... depends. It's not ideal though. How do you feel about it exactly?

[ohsheeT]

Anyone can do that. But the guy who really loves you will not tell you but he will show you in his own ways. And he might think it's right but he won't say anything until the right time.. because he doesn't want to hurt you


The guy that's says it after 3 days has a form of puppy love. And sees his role in a dream of dreams
And what HE'S going to get from it. Instead of what he wants Needs to give to. All he know is he doesn't want to lose it

[Summeroflove]

Online especially seems questionable if you feel like things are moving too fast for your comfort be honest and slow things down. Be honest with how you feel

[Anonymous]

Not unless he's mentally challenged. Or very immature. You cannot know someone after just 3 dates.

In your case I guess it's possible if he'd really gotten to know you those two months. But I'd still tell him to pump the brakes a little bit.😆

[itsannalee]

Everyone is different.
My man loves me after 1st date but I told him that i love him after a year together.

[chrissykerdock]

yes you must give great head

[MoonFace2]

We haven’t had any kind of sex yet. He wanted to wait for me, for a while.

[chrissykerdock]

maybe he really loves you

[Paige90]

No...