What’s something that used to be a red flag but no longer is?

[Summeroflove]

[Drumlin2001]

Not a red flag per se, but previously it was an absolute when dating that the person wanted kids. If they didn't it wasn't worth continuing. If I were ever single again, that wouldn't be an issue (have 2 kids now), infact probably the opposite. I've had vasectomy, it's highly unlikely I'd want to date anyone who wanted kids

[NicholasRedone]

A man who's not been lucky in love - or a woman who's not been lucky in love 💕 😘

[Sirenboobzilla]

I'm gonna say tattoos. They used to be more associated with gangs ue violence and drugs. Last few decades they've been seen more as a norm.

[Anonymous]

Unfortunately having sex outside of marriage

[NicholasRedone]

I love this about the modern world plus the availability of condoms, sti tests, etc - all at a click of a doctor's appointment button or chemist etc

[Menace69]

Only in literal terms a real red coloured flag 🚩got bleached out 🧼of colour and no longer sustains its red. Because if it is pertaining to a person, once a red flag is always a red flag you just have to choose what demons you are willing to compromise and make peace with and what are deal breakers no one is perfect.

[DrPepper12]

I've heard rave review from women about guys who have a bimonthly professional cleaning crew for their place.

My generation that would be a 🚩 that he doesn't do it himself and would expect her to do it all.

Or I'm just old...

[Anonymous]

A history of cheating, divorcee, a child outside of marraige, child from a previous marriage.

[Anonymous]

A red flag that was painted a different color.

[Kingofkings1992]

I think the use of the term “red flag” is stupid.

[Professor-college]

I single mother used to be a bad sign to me when I was a teenager but not anymore I would definitely go out with one for sure

[robocop666]

It used to be a red flag to see an adams apple in a woman. Now it's fashionable.

[Hellraiser1984]

Being a complete whore.

[Games_]

Yeah exactly lol.

[Hellraiser1984]

@Games_ I have 0 respect for whores. Porn stars are disgusting people to me. They are not heroes of any sort. No one should respect them. I have a 5 person limit on a girl I'll date. If she does only fans I'm gone. Ever done any porn I'm gone. I'm so disgusted by parents who are encouraging their adult children when they want to do porn. I have no respect for a parent does only fans. Id rather have the good girl anyday. Porn shouldn't be allowed on the Internet at all.

[Summeroflove]

I agree and goes for both sexes. Men who sleep with those kinds of women and thinks a virgin wants to marry him

[Games_]

A man’s value doesn’t go away if he sleeps around. The more promiscuous a man is, the more attractive he is to higher quality women

You are brainwashed by society and you forget that women are attracted to successful , competent men @Summeroflove

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ that’s completely wrong…. A woman with values and standards wants a man whose the same way for the most part. Unless she’s just pretending to be someone she’s not for other reasons.

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ if you want materialistic superficial whores…. Then keep believing the crap you believe and chasing the decent women away.

If you believe the Bible, then you’ll know sex outside marriage is a sin regardless of your sex. Besides…. If certain women are garbage. Why even sleep with them? It’s just men who are lowering their standards and end up very sorry in the end. So do these women

[Games_]

It isn’t wrong, you are projecting male preference and mating onto women. Women and MEN ARE two different things.

Women are hardwired to get with men who are component. A guy who struggles to have sex/virgin is not desirable. A guy who can have sex with multiple women is more desirable

It’s just basic animal biology

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ you can’t have double standards. That’s typical of narcissists they believe it’s okay for them to do something but not someone else.

It’s just like women who cry about how they are used for sex… And men are perverted pigs. Yet they choose to sleep with these men but it’s the man’s fault.

[Games_]

Double standards will always exist because both genders are different. You think men and women are the same, and you are projecting preferences

And also you believe everything that women say

You WATCH what women do, not what they say

[Games_]

Men and women ARE NOT THE SAME. Since you like to use the Bible and religion. The woman wears a white dress because of purity and a man wears the black suit because of impurity

Both genders are opposite

Anything attractive in women is unattractive in men

Anything unattractive in men is attractive in women

It’s basic biology that allowed us to survive for generations and it hasn’t gone away

Promiscuity and impurity in men isn’t a deal breaker for women.

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ it’s a dealbreaker for women who have self control and aren’t whores. Yes, it is. Unless she just can’t get laid because she’s not attractive inside or out.

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ both men and women have sex with people they see zero future with her the narcissists expect someone perfect to marry them.

Men sleep with degenerate women for instance. But want a virgin. Women sleep with deadbeats, bums, men with criminal records, and losers. Making poor decisions yet expects a good man with his life together to swoop her off her feet and wife her. Saving her from her past choices. But…. Still cheats with these same people.

It’s also the same with men who cheat on a woman who loves him. It’s really just disgusting.

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ if you think all women are just pure and innocent either you’re very wrong. Women on average as good as many men are at pretending to be someone they’re not. A lot of women are better at it.

If you want to talk about biology. You should look up the flesh verses the spirt….

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ but you’re on about “the blue pill” but then start claiming how women are the pure sex is just a oxymoron.

I know for a fact dude. That good Christian women who aren’t likewarm or pretending to be someone they’re not. Want a good upstanding Christian man. Not a man whore.

Stop walking one foot in one foot out. Many people like yourself want your cake and eat it too. You want to sleep with degenerate women and marry a virgin. You’re as delusional as the women are sleeping with bums and losers plopping kids out by them. And wanting a man whose rich and has his life together.

[Games_]

No it isn’t, I literally gave you proof and logic based off human biology, and your still here tryna talk as if you know more than generations of evolution

[Games_]

It’s like you didn’t listen to anything I said at all and you’re repeating the same arguments. You need to put your ego aside

[Games_]

Oh you keep bringing up religion. I have some bad news for you about religious women lol

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ I have said plenty of women pretend to be someone they’re not. Including women who will pick a man knowing full well he’s a man whore

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ here comes typical gaslighting and projection. It’s men like you who think they’re right and have a massive ego. Only to find out after 10 or more years of a miserable marriage. That you’re not

[Summeroflove]

@Games_ I’ve said that we have flesh. It’s called flesh… A lot of men pretend to be religious too and cheat. They’re called hypocrites it’s nothing new

[Games_]

It’s not gaslighting, it’s the fact your trying to argue with Mother Nature.

A woman is literally hard wired to go after successful men in every society.

Women is a part of success

It’s gross but it turns women on, knowing that some guy can get a woman and fuck her

It also gives a man more experience, which is what women like as well

And you saying “a lot of women pick a man who’s a whore” literally just proved my point

[Games_]

The difference between me and you isn’t ego

It’s the fact I see women for how they are

You see women for how you WANT THEM TO BE

We aren’t the same here.

I told you why women are attracted to men who have women

Every animal that survives is attracted to this, chimps (our closest relatives), and other animals flock towards the males with more women

It’s just biology

You forget that humans are STILL animals

[Hellraiser1984]

@Games_ we are civilized animals. We don't all run on hormones. I know guys that are plumbers and have really attractive wives. They're not multi millionaires or live in a mansion. They're not movie star handsome either. They're just good hard working guys with their crap together. Married for years. Women are all different. They are not all after money. Or rich guys. Some are really smart and others are really stupid. Some are hard working others lazy. Men are the same way. Biology is not always a factor.

[Games_]

Dude your never going to beat me in this because your tryna debate with HUMAN NATURE

lol it doesn’t matter if we are civilized or not, you are not undoing generations of evolutionary biology

They have attractive wives because those women settled for them.

Your trying your best to give these niche examples that I’m just gonna easily counter

Let’s stop right here before you say something else that’s dumb

[Games_]

So if we are civilized animals, why don’t you want a whore?

It’s male biology to look for a woman who’s not sleeping around to ensure his child

Yet your here saying you don’t want a whore

Why DONT you want one if humans are so CIVILIZED and don’t run off human biology?

[Hellraiser1984]

@Games_ because of a simple biological reason. I don't want STDs. People who sleep around aot have a greater chance of carrying STDs. People who don't carry a lesser chance of STDs.

[Games_]

Ok that’s you, but this is not about you. We are talking about male and female intersexual dynamics.

Since you want to try to disqualify my argument with “STDS”

This is still a common practice in religion where the man has multiple wives that have already been vetted and tested, and women still get with these guys when there’s options opposite of this

Like I said your never gonna win this argument since you want to argue with Mother Nature

No, avoiding STDS isn’t a biological urge. People are going to have sex regardless if we have a STD outbreak or not

[adventurous-1]

Sex on the first date.

[Unap0logetic_]

Hooking up and having children out of wedlock.

[Anonymous]

Everybody has red flags

[Summeroflove]

Those are more yellow flags. Red flags mean run and danger. Yellow means proceed with caution.

[Opinion Owner]

It's called experiences

[Eempriyanka]

Public display of affection

[MikeRJ]

Maybe being a single parent.

[itsannalee]

Prostitution

[locusteo]

Having gas around the girl you like! Oh pooh! x)

[Staximus]

Smoking weed