Will a guy forgive a woman spamming his phone during an argument?

[Anonymous]

As long as there was no name calling or anything rude said, would a guy be turned off by a woman expressing her feelings or asking to be heard by sending a lot of texts? He kept opening them and not responding.

Do men get over this and come back even if it overwhelmed them? Or is this a dealbreaker?

[SteveSmith1985]

It really depends on the context here. Obviously there is some situation where you ended up spamming his phone. It depends mostly on what was going on that led you to do this. What you were trying to get him to hear; and where his mind is on whatever you were talking about.

Generally, yes, guys won't hold it against you. But again, it really depends on what the conversation was about.

It's not the overwhelming you have to worry about. It's his reaction to whatever it was you were saying.

Can you tell me more about the situation? The more you give me, the more I'll be able to give you an accurate answer.

[Stevepro68]

No not necessarily. Texts are extremely poor conveyors of tone. People add the voice tone in their head. Only skilled writers can really convey tone. Texts are easy to send and really easily ignored.

[Asker]

So a guy wouldn’t be totally turned off if a girl spammed their phone to get a reply during a fight? I know tone plays apart but I’m talking about the amount of texts.

[Stevepro68]

It's unlikely to be any better or worse than any other type of arguing. Just less likely to convey accuracy. And much easier to ignore

[Anonymous]

Never argue over text, even being limited to a phone call is bad enough.

[integrale77]

My ex used to text and if I didn't reply then drop call me... then text again and drop call me... Then keep drop calling or actually phone me untill I responded

That was super ANNOYING!

[Anonymous]

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