I laughed at her with him now she's laughing at me with him. Why is she being spiteful?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend of seven years Baby mother posted a video recording online of him talking about me to her. On the recording; he told her that he was never with me, that I'm bisexual and probably want to sleep with her. (She told him I've been watching her in public for two years.) so he said, "that's stupid. It's my fault for letting her contact you. she shouldn't be watching you. She's weird" just talking badly about me. The last recording she posted online: she said, "you laughed at me , now I'm laughing at you".

Why is she being spiteful towards me?

[SteveSmith1985]

This is all kinds of messy. Jesus. Ok.

Are you still with this boyfriend who you've now seen talking all this shit about you, with his baby's mother?

That's what I'm not understanding. Have you talked to him since seeing this video, and what does he have to say for himself?

Now, It could definitely be some other reason. I don't know anything at all about your history. You are with this other woman's ex. I'm going to guess that's where her spiteful feeling are coming from. Also, if she knew you and he used to laugh at her together... she might also feel spiteful because of that.

I am so confused why you are wondering about her, rather than wondering about him.

She, can say whatever she wants. She doesn't owe you anything.

He, on the other hand, is your boyfriend. Why are you not angry that HE was saying all of this about you behind your back. I assume he didn't know he was being recorded. So why is your problem with her, rather than him. isn't he your boyfriend? (who should not be shit-talking you with his baby's mother)

[ohsheeT]

Well you have to let it go. And don't look at it as a negative. Look at it as if she's really being a friend. And thank her. For doing it. Because that's kinda what friend do .. I know in this moment your not friends . But by her doing that you maybe feel the way you made her feel. So it's a learning lesson for both of you.. and if your were to Apologize and say maybe you are wrong. then just maybe

The common defector is him because him knowing the both of you and he could had stopped you from doing it and he could have stopped her from doing it. But he aloud both of you to trash each other. . So now one day you both might have the chance to laugh at him or you both don't give the guy the time of day.

But anyway you almost have to thank her because all she's doing to you is showing you what you made her feel like. And only ture friends do that stuff kind of to teach... It really is a positive if you think about it and let all the other stuff go because all she did is help you. Maybe so you don't do it again because it hurts

[Summeroflove]

This isn’t how normal people act number one it could be considered criminal harassment if you asked her to leave you alone and she does not. Number two if she’s making defamatory statements I would lawyer up buttercup you shouldn’t tolerate that.

If she is so happy with him then why doesn’t she just piss off…. I think you dodged a bullet with him and he had the chance to dodge a bullet but he went back to her. So it’s his life to live now not yours.

[Shiprex]

She's jealous probably and wants you to hurt as she is.

[ImalwaysrightOK]

Dump that mfer.