Why is she mad when I was with him first?

[tempirl2012]

My boyfriend baby's mother is mad, talking bad about him on her facebook saying "I'm putting him on Child support for leaving me with a baby" all because he blocked her for me almost a year later in April. She's mad because he's living with me and my daughter and abandoned HER and her daughter. Which has nothing to do with me. He stayed because i know him longer. She only knew him a month or 2 and got pregnant by him. Now she's mad because he left her with a baby. Why is she mad when i was with him first?

[Anonymous]

You’re so up his ass and delusional it’s disgusting. This man left a woman with HIS child, blocked her, and she’s in the wrong? Let’s put all your petty quarrels and selfishness aside and focus solely on the innocent life of that little girl for just a second, why is it OK for him to abandon her? It doesn’t matter how little time he knew the baby mama and that isn’t even relevant, fact of the matter is she didn’t climb on top of herself and get pregnant. It’s so incredibly shameful for you to approve of this just because you aren’t the one being tossed aside for right now. And yes I said for right now because if he can do that to his own flesh and blood then your little girl doesn’t stand a chance. How sad to let her form a bond with someone who will ultimately jump ship, you are literally witnessing him do it to his own daughter.

[tempirl2012]

Well.. according to him, the baby isn't his. It might be.. but i'm going by what he said!! And No, I still don't like the baby mom because she knew we were together.

[Opinion Owner]

Trust me I know all about not liking the baby mom, but it’s about the kids, not her. If you’re making the choice to forgive your man and stay with him then you can’t treat his child like she doesn’t exist. If he’s saying the kid isn’t his then demand a dna test, otherwise tell him to man up and be a father. Yeah it sucks but he’s the one that fucked up and put you in this position in the first place.

[Opinion Owner]

He sounds like a scumbag anyway, all these years together and not only did he cheat and potentially father a child but no ring for you in sight.

[tempirl2012]

Okay. But she, his so called baby mom, slept with his cousin and friend. So who wants to be around that?

[tempirl2012]

honestly, i cheated on him too. And no, he and i agreed to not being around her nor the kid.

[Opinion Owner]

You’re making it sound like you have to be besties with this woman when you don’t have to be around her or deal with her at all, take her to court! I only ever saw my partners BM during drop off or pickup and even that is only a glimpse of her. What you can’t do though is act like the kid doesn’t exist. In a perfect world you can leave his infidelity in the past but now that there’s an innocent life in the mix he has to deal with it. For you to just go along with what he says rather than wanting actual proof just because you don’t like the BM is just sooo avoidant, childish and sad tbh. That little girl did nothing but to be born.

[Opinion Owner]

Her cheating with his cousin, all the cheating in general just does not matter. It is about the child and her having a relationship with her dad, that’s literally it. Be mad at the situation all you want but it doesn’t change what’s done.

[tempirl2012]

Well she can't do anything for him. She doesn't even have a house, car nothing. He was picking her broke self up in MY car. He blocked her because he knew that i wouldn't give him money anymore nor use my car.

[tempirl2012]

She was homeless too. She asked to stay with him and told her no because my daughter and I was with him already. Lol.

[Opinion Owner]

Whyyy on earth are you only talking about the woman? Where is mention of the little girl and how her life is being affected? I mean I know you clearly don’t give a fuck but it would be nice to see you at least act like it.

[Opinion Owner]

This is why you are stuck with a little boy running from his responsibilities and not a fucking MAN who will put a ring on your finger. You have no backbone nor a shred of compassion, but you what you do have is a filthy d*ck man who’s probably cheating left and right.

[tempirl2012]

Are u married? 🕵and my Daughter daddy left me with her 6 years ago. My boyfriend baby mom will be just fine by herself.

[tempirl2012]

Just like i'm fine without my daughter dad not being around 6 year's. My boyfriend baby mom will be fine too for the next 6 years too.

[Opinion Owner]

I am married, dealing with baby mama drama since our kid was 8 now they are 18! Your mindset is very sick and toxic, “she’ll be just fine by herself”, this is why you will always be a TEMPORARY girl. Zero respect for yourself or others because why would you want a man who not only cheated but fathered a child? And you’re all rainbows about it lol my god.

[tempirl2012]

Welp. That's good. And yes, i watched her all last year to see if she was with my man. He's scared of me. He knows not to ever go her way again or i would flip out on her.

[Opinion Owner]

You need psychological help at this point.

[HelpfulWoman]

😂😂😂😂 imagine thinking this dude is a keeper though 😂😂

[Zestyassmf1997]

If you were with him before her…how the hell did she get pregnant by him?

[tempirl2012]

He did it while we were together. Smh.

[Zestyassmf1997]

What do you mean he did it while you were together?

[tempirl2012]

He was picking her up in my car and said she was with him while he was also with me. Smh but i forgave him

[Zestyassmf1997]

Lol. Lmao, even.

[tempirl2012]

What?

[Zestyassmf1997]

You’re out here fighting some woman over a man who cheated on you. This is just like Jerry Springer.

[tempirl2012]

I've been with him 6 years. I know what he did. But i forgave him. And no, I DONT like the girl.

[jahaims]

You are with a person who abandoned his kid? You sure know how to pick them.

[laly520]

dont mind her
she can stay mad