Okay so. Am I trippin?

[Anonymous]

i’ve been talking to this guy and we been chopping it up good. we been on the phone several times and the chemistry is good.

It was after 12am and yk… we started talking that talk so we planned to meet up so we can do the do. the call ends and we go to sleep. the same following day bc the call ended at 2 sum in the morning, it’s radio silence from him. it’s only until i texted him 2 times throughout the day that i get a response. he told me to “go ahead and value that” regarding to my virginity.

i was upset bc i was looking forward to this. he was someone i wouldn’t mind losing it too. now when i asked him if we still finna be communicating and to lmk now if we not it’s radio silence all over again to even now. someone please attempt to explain whats going on in his brain.

[ohsheeT]

No your not tripping. He is..

Ok so first of all you need to learn how to read guys. What they s a y and how they say it..

It sucks you have to do this.. because you don't want to think about that crap

You want someone like you There's no b*******It's just kindness and null2 people talking, communicating and enjoying each other's company. And each word means something and you feel each one of those words


But there are guys who are playing with you they want more and they will make you feel so good because they know what to say

Ok so it's none of my business but did he try and flirt with you... or did you flirt. The first and second time you talked. If yes then you gave him what he wanted. And now he's finished. . But he will be back just to do it again..

If he truly liked you he could flirt with you and let it go.. then flit and, Talk to you about something else, I mean.
Many many different thing that he likes about you.

I don't knowbyou but your words you used tells a story about who you are. You kind beautiful heart and you let him in and he took advantage of that.. this is a guy that you chalk it up as a learning experience .. And I can tell you this no matter what he says to you.
You will do the same thing over and over again until you wise and you say goodbye

Because that's just who he is and your t o kind and her knows it... but the sad part is is that you are real and would be a good catch.. but he will miss out on that because he's more focused on himself and getting what he wants he's just selfish And only think about himself

That, to be honest in the long run. You want him to show you everything about him
Because he doesn't even know it but he's painting a picture of himself and who he truly is

[Asker]

the flirting was mutual and tysm for ur input

[ohsheeT]

You're welcome, but. Wait. So what happen

[Asker]

still no contact till this day. i felt embarrassed that i ruined something going good for myself since he was actually getting to know me. i apologized and i’ve been left on delivered 😭

[ohsheeT]

Your kidding me. I don't even know what to say to that except. I'm sorry you are going through this

You know that we both know this has nothing to you with you. Don't you.

[Shiprex]

Yup, tripping over your own lust and eagerness to do the deed and that's kinda risky. Have you MET this guy irl?
Seeing someone or hearing someone on the phone isn't a wise choice to be willing to drop your pants and let them in.

[Asker]

i appreciate ur input, thank u sm

[Shiprex]

You're welcome

[SueShe]

I believe that you are simply in a hurry to fornicate but you want to do it just for the sake of being like all the others. You don't want to be different, you don't want to be special, you don't want to be that virgin because all your friends and buddies are no longer virgins and you are afraid to miss something. You are not missing anything.

Value what you have and don't just copulate with the first one that shows you interest. Have a little dignity and self-esteem and be choosy when it comes with whom you want to lose your virginity.

What you are going to get yourself is nothing but problems, starting with STD and to be discarded after the first use.

[Asker]

i won’t say that im in a hurry to fornicate cuz of the sake of being like everybody else. i was sa’ed when i was younger so i view my virginity different I don't know. thank u sm for ur input

[Changiis07]

Don't lose it just to lose it. It's so much better doing it with someone who is your boyfriend or partner in life

[Asker]

thank u sm for ur input

[Anonymous]

You’re already pretty clingy without any sex involved, he might not want to be your first because it would most likely only increase that attachment and he’s not looking for anything serious.

[Asker]

hm. i didn’t see myself as clingy but thanks for pointing that out. thank u sm for ur input

[molonski2]

Yes , I think you are " tripping " for certain.

[Asker]

i see i see thank u sm for ur input

[Anonymous]

He got Snooki vibes from you.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/ST1VHJdxcls

[Asker]

wait😂😂😂😂 maybe he did fr , thank u sm for ur input !