Am I Tripping or is this normal?

[Beautylove99]

My man let another women wear his pants in my face and thought it wasn't a problem

[RoseySarah]

Well my question is how was it in your face?

Why did she need pants?

Would yours not fit or did she want his?

Itself is not an issue her being okay with it is! Also with him I can see him seeing it as okay.

Not your jealous he is sharing his clothes with someone else besides you!

[RoseySarah]

With things like this your never tripping it's always something and your reacting just fine to it

[RoseySarah]

Thanks for mho

[laly520]

did u ask him why he did that?

[Beautylove99]

I did he said he was being nice

[laly520]

by giving his pants? I wouldn't trust this guy around girls if I was u

[Beautylove99]

He doesn't think he did anything wrong

[laly520]

or gaslighting u into thinking that
who knows

[Beautylove99]

Gaslighting is don't think that

[boggboss]

I honestly don't see a issue with this and have done it before with friends that come to my house if somthing goes wrong g like dropping drink or it raining with my partner with me what else would I do let them stay soaked?

[Beautylove99]

So you don't mind your women wearing your homeboy clothes

[boggboss]

Not at all if we went to a feiends house and she needed a change of cloths and their was no other option I wouldn have a issue with it no

[Beautylove99]

Well that's why i said am i tripping or is this something normal

[boggboss]

U guys got me thinking I'm wigging out lol but then surly my partner would have said somthing if she had a issue with it so I dono

[boggboss]

See I get the aspect of if u wasn't their that could look shadey but with u their I don't see the issue then again I know I can be a social retard at times

[Beautylove99]

I just don't feel that's being respectful because a man wouldn't wanna see his women in another man's clothes

[boggboss]

I dono I man within context I just don't see that as a issue

[Beautylove99]

Maybe there isn't a issue and I'm just being unreasonable

[boggboss]

I'm gonna ask my partner her opinion and I'll share back what she says also

[Beautylove99]

Will be in tune for that

[boggboss]

Spoke with my partner and she was in agreement of preferring friends to be comtble whilst at ours if their was a issue with clothing even if it meant wearing my cloths

[Beautylove99]

I completely understand and have had a full blown conversation

[dreamstar72]

I kinda see it as a big deal, because of “why, how, where, what” happened.
Just wonder what he would say to you if you came home wearing your male friends pants and you was blushing

[Iron_Man]

What is he trying to accomplish by that stupid move

[Beautylove99]

That's what I'm trying to figure out as well

[Iron_Man]

Ask him that’s a red flag

[Beautylove99]

Don't know what to ask at this point because I don't know if I'm right or wrong

[In_Trance]

Depends why it happened

[Beautylove99]

Because the girl needed clothes and he had some and she needed to wash

[In_Trance]

I don't really see what the big deal is

[Beautylove99]

Word

[riverrat3]

Not a big deal