Guy says he had fun and wonderful evening, but does not want to meet again. Wished for good Spring. Has not deleted from Bumble though, why?

[ayeerna]

[Anonymous]

He likely enjoyed the evening on a superficial level but didn't feel a deeper connection or see long-term compatibility, hence the "fun and wonderful evening" followed by a polite "good Spring" dismissal. Keeping his Bumble profile active suggests he's still open to meeting others and hasn't found a match he wants to pursue exclusively, indicating his disinterest in further pursuing anything with you specifically.

[Smile456]

Who knows? But if he doesn't want to meet again, what difference does it make?

[ayeerna]

Maybe he does, but not now?

[Smile456]

Not now.

[Nikki1989]

Being male, he is probably enjoying the attention and validation he gets from matching with people on Bumble, even if he has no intention of meeting them.

[HelpfulWoman]

if he deleted you, you could match again, so not deleting keeps it set.

does the rest really need answering?

[ayeerna]

Yes?

[HelpfulWoman]

he doesn't want to date you.
he doesn't want the hassle of getting you again as potential matches. hence leaving you as messages.
how fucking dumb are you? Ahhhhhhhh nevermind, American.

[molonski2]

I think the answer is as obvious as the nose on your face , when you meet you are polite , but often you know immediately that they are not for you.