Is it ok for my SO to want me to lose my wig?

[Anonymous]

Okay, so this guy I'm interested in insists on seeing me without a wig. Is that too much? Shouldn't 'no' be enough?

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I meant one "no"

[Anonymous]

What is happening when you say NO? Is it all lighthearted and smiley? Does it come with a bit of playfulness? Don’t get me wrong, at the end of the day NO is a full sentence and no matter how you give it he should be receptive regardless. However I do think delivery can make a difference because depending on your dynamic and how you’re saying no about this, he may just think you’re joking about it or giving him a hard time. Again, none of this should matter at the end of the day but that still doesn’t stop it from happening.

[BadApple69]

Well to be honest with you…. Us guys want to see what our possible future wives look like….. I don’t think if he is a “SO” that’s not a ridiculous request.


I agree with him. I would want to see the real you also.
Don’t be afraid to be who you are.

[SteveSmith1985]

I think that totally totally depends on how you feel about it. If it's not something you're comfortable doing. It's too much.

[Joshydavid25]

I mean, if you don't want him to see you without the wig that's your perogative and he should respect it..

[HighValue]

Why do you wear a wig?