Guys be brutally honest?

Question

Are you more or less likely to date a woman if she sleeps with you on the first date? Or does it not matter to you?

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

Therevare a lot of wemon out there That believe in something you have morals, values and ethics. And that's who they want to be , and there's nothing wrong with that at all

There are some women out there will tell you there grand mother say it's the wrong thing to do. And I respect that to

And then there are moments in time of a first date where things start to get hot and heavy and in the middle of it looking in to each other's eyes and they are saying I'm not like this. We probably should slow down. And then
there's is a blink and the next look is don't you even think about stopping
And that is the type of girl that's she know what she wants . And the way she wants it and it's a very beautiful moment. Because it's not all about having sex. Its how and the way you get to this moment and it can Actually bring you closer together

Everyone is different . But if you know the person your with and you truly know she's not the type to do something like that. And helps make a moment like that because she can feel more than that moment it makes me like them even more

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Doesn’t matter to me , all that matters is her and I have great chemistry and connection with each other and we both choose each other and continue to see each other , just because her and I have sex the same night we met , doesn’t mean I am no longer going to like her or be interested in her. Only guys’ and girls’ that are players, do shit like that. Sadly some of the girls’ I have slept with the same night were shocked that I showed up with flowers the next day wanting to see her again lol She was shocked but happy as well.

Effably · Answer

In my head I am easily self-absorbed enough I will just assume that means she felt I was extra awesome and her going for me is a testament to her good taste, not any lacking quality.

I think it is rather odd to judge someone negatively for wanting you when you were both part of the deed. If I wanted to slow it down I would and still feel flattered she was already willing. No issues regardless.

Orion84 · Answer

I wouldn't sleep with a woman on the first date, and if she offered, I would assume she was more interested in something short and physical, rather than a long term relationship.

I'd also be concerned about the possibility that she sleeps with everybody on the first date, and I wouldn't want someone with a high body count.

Consequently, I'd be less likely to date her.

tzdc21 · Answer

Depends on the guy and how experienced he is. An inexperienced guy would think you're a bad bet. A guy with more experience may not jump to that conclusion right or waya or at all. But I will say this, if you were willing, AND I SAID WILLING, NOT ACTUALLY DOING, to sleep with a previous guy or precious guys in the past, but not with me... that's gonna rub me the wrong way.

Ariesman81 · Answer

I'd be like "no, we shouldn't do this"

And she'd be like "but I need it so bad"

And I'd be like "but you're married"

And she'd be like "but he's not much of a man"

And then I'd be like "damn, I suppose I could this one time"

And then get walked in on by your sister

OneViewpoint · Answer

It has no bearing. For me it's about the person and the chemistry. If it's right, it's right whether we sleep together the first night of the 10th. If it's wrong, I'm wasting both our time whether we sleep together the first night or the 10th.

Anonymous · Answer

Less. Because if she sleeps with you on the first date she probably sleeps with most guys on the first date. And why would I value her when she clearly doesn't even value her.

A woman that respects herself makes a man learn everything else about herself before that.

Zack-Bann · Answer

Definitely more likely  Sex is one hell of an investment  If we’re already exploring that then it’s only right to consider dating prospects

Fireguy17 · Answer

it never changed how I felt towards them. Some dates we would barely make it into the house without ripping each other's clothes off, other dates it might take a couple of months.

Crankor · Answer

Not Particularly. I guess it does help overcome any personal barriers which makes those topics easier to discuss but if you still find out there's thing you don't like about the other, sex doesn't nullify that.

HighlyQuestionable · Answer

if a girl or woman I like is physically intimate (kissing, cuddling, etc.) and is affectionate, then yes I am defiantly into her and will ask her out again (and again, and again...)

fish5505_87 · Answer

This is really subjective, I would say it would not affect my decision. It also depends on how I feel about her, if Im madly in love, head over heels, then no, I'll do anything she wants! Well, almost.

DJB72 · Answer

Less. If she's offering it to me on the first date she's clearly lost her mind, and I've done enough crazy.

ImalwaysrightOK · Answer

I don't think I could sleep with someone on the first date. In my head it sounds hot, but I'm too much of a romantic for that.

Shiprex · Answer

It would depend on the character and pulse between us. If it works then sure roll on the next round and see how things work out

slatyb · Answer

If I didn't want to date her, I wouldn't sleep with her.

Oldschool1981 · Answer

For me? Yes, but I find promiscous women far more attractive. I married a "slut" and I wouldn't change that about her

jamesgoldman · Answer

Doesn't worry me, my second girlfriend gave me head before we were dating because I was passed out on her dad's couch

Jay-_- · Answer

Has nothing to do with the sex, it all depends her personality, FOR ME, I don't speak for anyone else.

BarryLiverstone · Answer

Tbh I wouldn’t sleep with her on date #1. So if she wants to I have to say no.

seeyounexttuesday · Answer

Less likely. Can't turn a hoe into a housewife.

krin_m · Answer

Probably! Depends on a lot of other factors though.

Anonymous · Answer

I don't know, I actually never had a date, and I'm still a virgin.

MasterKS · Answer

It won't make difference to me, i am okay with it.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

I don't allow sleeping with me that fast.

WhiteThought · Answer

It depends on her past.

jahaims · Answer

I wouldn't date someone who has casual sex

Luckycharms12 · Answer

less will not talk again unless it was amazing sex

Rohaan2020 · Answer

Doesn’t matter to me

eagle1951 · Answer

does not matter

jjj101010 · Answer

Doesn’t matter to me.

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