Are you a jealous type in matters of the heart? Of so why? If not why not?

[thegreenyogi]

[NathanDavis]

nope, not at all...

why not? I guess is just how my first relationships came to be and happened to be...

there was an absolute bridge of trust, communication and awareness from both sides... and just how I learned most of what I know about relationships in this sense, mostly positive experiences gave me foundation to go with in future relationships as well

only one of my exes was a bit jealous at the start of our relationship, but when we really sat down to examinate the causes, or rather triggers for it... we realized that she really didn't have any real reason to feel this way, and I was not giving her any reasons either to feel that kind of level of jealousy and pretty much, ended up right there

[Zack-Bann]

I am.
I think if you’re not jealous then you don’t really care
But I also try not to manifest jealousy in a toxic possessive way
More like a statement of strong feelings towards someone

[thegreenyogi]

Understood. I thought as much. Lol!

[Simslover92]

Whoa. This was the exact same thing like verbatim my date said to me Saturday when I asked was he the jealous type. And you and him are right. It shows that you care when you show some jealousy as long as it's not the toxic possessive kind.

[Zack-Bann]

@Simslover92
Actually I haven’t told you this but I am the one you were on a date with, I just use a fake profile here to get some insights…

Nah just kidding 🤣
Haven’t been on a date in quite a while now

But I’m glad to know that someone out there shares my opinion on this one
(Other than friends who’ve been influenced by me anyway)

[Simslover92]

Haha good one 🤣

[Simslover92]

Yes I am. I feel like if you're not even a little bit jealous then do you really have affection for that person?

[OneViewpoint]

Nah, jealousy is pointless and a waste of time. I don't want to control anyone. Do what you wanna do. Have your own friends and interests. Stay with me because you want to be with me. Leave if you want to. I'll feel free to base my responses on your actions and I'll leave if it's not working for me. It's the only way love works. Voluntary.

[Miristheiss]

To a degree.

My girl is mine. If I am going to commit to her then there will be good solid boundaries.

No clubbing, wearing skimpy clothes, close male friends.

If she didn't like that and wanted to do those things I just would never have dated her seriously. If you are ever with someone who won't respect your boundaries you don't argue and complain and fight... you just leave. You two aren't a match.

[Anonymous]

I'd say that depends on what you define as jealous. I don't think I am. I very black and white when it comes to this. I know the respect I deserve. I communicate it. And if I don't get it then there's no reason for us to be in a relationship anymore. I'm not going to tolerate disrespect.

[NicholasRedone]

Only if I was led on or led astray by a woman or woman eyes 👀 😅 I mean why do that to someone 😋😋

[Shiprex]

No but I don't like the thought of my SO being with someone else but that would be on her.

[Anonymous]

Sometimes, not always, but I'm usually very tolerant.

[jahaims]

Jealousy is pure immaturity

[Agape93]

Nope.

[dudeinohio]

Yeah