Guys would you rather have 1 woman for the rest of your life or open relationship w/ same 4 women?

[Vegasrunner]

[Zack-Bann]

I would never have even 1 open relationship
The only extra I would be into is me and my woman having threesomes exclusively with other women
(This would imply my girl is bisexual and enjoys it not just sucks it up for me, because I would never do it with a man)

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann Imtetesting. How many women have you been with?

[Zack-Bann]

Around 20, (would rather not give an exact number)
Not all were girlfriends obviously some were one night stands or short term arrangements

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann Gotcha, so pretty inexperienced, that may explain your viewpoint.

[Zack-Bann]

I’ve been with 20 women mate in what post modern universe does that count as “pretty inexperienced”? 😂

That’s as many women as the last 17 generations of men in my family put together

There’s not much I’m “learning” about the whole thing at this point.

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann Assuming you started at 17 that's only 2 women per year for 10 years. As a rule of thumb it's around 50 women that a man starts to understand female nature. So yes there is a correlation between your answer and your inexperience.

[Zack-Bann]

What if I told you that I started at 23.
And got to 20 within 3 years
It’s not an even split but that’s roughly 7 women a year

Besides I don’t even agree with that rule of thumb
There’s absolutely nothing that number 50 will teach as opposed to 49 or 30 or 20

Yes if someone’s count is 3 you can say it was 3 flukes and he has no experience
But by 20 you’ve already done the work

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann I would ask why you started so late. I would want to know what mind shift you had that allowed you to be virgin until the end of your college years and then suddenly increase you partner total exponentially.
No it doesn't have to be 50, it is simply one tangible metric, considering you could say the same thing about any number picked 50 is a good one. in my opinion 20 is a god baseline, but considering the number of woman that HV men bang it puts you woefully behind your competition.

[Zack-Bann]

It’s not really a competition though
If it was I would hammering it full time 😂

I come from a relatively small town with a very conservative community. Promiscuity was just something we saw in movies

At 22 I moved away to study and now work in a big City in Europe
So I was a young bachelor with every option in the world

Lost my virginity one week before my 23rd birthday and never looked back

But I’ve also slowed down now.
Im still 27 and up for a good time anytime but I don’t feel like I have things to prove like I did a couple of years back when I was just stacking bodies

Don’t get me wrong I still have the itch every day. But I also know how futile and unfulfilling casual sex can be at times

The chase is fun and engaging but afterwards you’re just wondering what the point is.

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann TY for sharing this. By definition women are a competition simply because there is another man waiting to take what's yours. Thank you for sharing your background which only goes to prove a statement that O always share. Simply because something is new to you doesn't mean it's new. Your 4 year run of being introduced to sex has you believing that you've discovered fire, well how can you compare your limited knowledge against someone who's exceeded what you've done consistently for over 20+ years. The point is that you hold this world view because of your inexprience, and I would argue had you not grown up so sheltered, your answer to the original question would be different.

[Zack-Bann]

I just realized you’re 20 years older than me.
And yes from your point of view I’m a young kid discovering fire.
Understandable

But my original take isn’t so outrageous
Many men of all ages wouldn’t do open relationships

And many would love an MFF threesome

I’m simply being honest about it

It’s not equal or fair on paper but different people have different needs

Which is why I said I would do it if my girl had an appetite for other girls
If she’s being a good solider just for me then no thanks we can keep it monogamous

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann Agreed w/ the first part.
I never said your take was outrageous, in fact I don't have a judgment on it at all. My point is that, you have that take because of your inexprience and upbringing. I never mentioned anything about threesomes and don't know why you even brought that up to begin with.

[Zack-Bann]

Well you talked about open relationships with 4 women

If I had that in place there’s no chance I won’t try to bring at least two of them together from time to time

You can forget anything else I said

The short answer is: no I wouldn’t have an open relationship because I wouldn’t be ok with a man having sex with my girl at any capacity no matter the context

[Vegasrunner]

@Zack-Bann I think I see your confusion. By open I mean open on my end closed on there's.

[serious]

1 woman for the rest of my life. However, the woman has to be exactly as per my standards both in terms of physical and personality wise.

[Anonymous]

A civilized man spends his life with only one woman. A man who chooses to be with 4 women is no different than an animal.

[Vegasrunner]

@Anonymous A man has to be doing something right to have four different women.

[spartan55]

Anyone can tell someone what they want to hear.

[Vegasrunner]

@spartan55 TY for sharing. What does that have to do with this conversation?

[spartan55]

Good lord why would I want to deal with four women.

[Vegasrunner]

@spartan55 Interesting what types of things would you be "dealing" with?

[Alex-Snow]

I think one would be enough as long as there is love and ofc a lot of sex.

[SteveSmith1985]

One woman for sure.

[BonzoInBitburg]

Anything more that 1 woman sounds like a nightmare

[Vegasrunner]

@BonzoInBitburg Interesting, so you feel that woman can be troublesome to deal with?

[BonzoInBitburg]

You've never experienced female drama? I don't want double female drama in my life and there's no way I want 4x. I choose quality over quantity

[Vegasrunner]

@BonzoInBitburg OK, so you're saying females are all drama? Interesting point, what type of drama have you experienced?

[MongozDish]

One woman will do.

[Anonymous]

If she's the right girl, one is enough for me.