Ladies, would you rather have an average guy all to yourself or share a top 4% guy with other women?

[KrakenAttackin]

The average guy is average looking and height, is a faithful provider, who will commit to you be a stable, loving husband and father. The top 4% guy is over over 6', high income, well above average looks, buys you nice things, take you on trips, enjoys your company, but will not commit, and regularly has sex with other women.

Average guy all to myself.

Share a top 4% guy.

I'm a guy.

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According to Tinder, you ladies almost entirely want the top 4%.

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As expected, women are not being honest.

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At present 27% of women are willing to share a top tier man with other women.

[HighValue]

I just watched a news story this morning that showed statistics in the USA and it shows that women 18 to 39 ARE sharing higher value men. If I recall correctly it was 28% of the ones in relationships are doing that in that age group.

[KrakenAttackin]

@HighValue. Exactly. Women would almost all rather share a Giga-chad (in hopes he will eventually commit to her), than have a good but average man to themselves.

[whirled_up_girl]

@highvalueI I have a feeling though that they are not sharing those high value men, if they do classify them as such or if they are they don't know it. In my opinion one guy with several women is the opposite of a high value man. I would be surprised if that many women think different and see "Chad" of whoever as high value.

[msc545]

I think the results here speak for themselves, except, there is anotehr option - "Have an average guy until I can get a top guy for myself". Hypergamy.

[KrakenAttackin]

True enough, also most women are too ashamed to vote. It is like the paternity fraud questions, decidedly lacking pink votes or answers.

[msc545]

So I see. The lack of pink answers speaks for itself.

[Spongebobssocks]

Well my crush is 5'8 feet tall. Avarage built (skinny fat). Has a good pay for where he is but he is completely broke for western standars. So I have no problem dating the avarage guy. I would be fine with him having one night stands with other women as long as its not his or my relatives or on special occastion. As long as its 100% physical I'm fine with it I dont care but I would never accept him to marry or date another woman. I dont evan see this as me sharing him... well well. So I don't know what option to pick..

[VIVANT]

The only person I’ve been really been in love with was 2 inches taller than me, thin, clever, on the neurotic side high anxiety, broke, w/ regular earning prospects 🤷🏻‍♀️

[Spongebobssocks]

@VIVANT yeah! The media isn't telling the truth most of the times:)

[VIVANT]

!! 😊

[KrakenAttackin]

@VIVANT Vivant, you I actually believe.

[KrakenAttackin]

Most ladies are actually chasing the 4% and average guys are invisible to them. There is quite a bit of data to support this.

[Spongebobssocks]

@KrakenAttackin you the male version of a feminist Karen. Stop watching fresh n fit and go out in the real world

[D_Bone_Steak]

Us dudes already know the real answer to this. That's why I just regularly have sex with other women and have been married longer than the vast majority of dudes on this site at the same time. ... and I'm not shifty and try to hide anything.

It's just my royal right and probably why my friends don't want me around their wives.

[KrakenAttackin]

@d_bone_steak. My man.

[Adaeva]

Humans would evolve better and quicker if 90% of boys, not in the top10% or the top 5% is looks, brains, or athletic ability, were neutered at ages 10 to 13.

Since the top 4% will have much more money and far better genes, for the benefit of my children, I would rather share a top 4%.

[KrakenAttackin]

@adaeva. Finally, actual honesty.

[DarkLegacy]

Humans would evolve better if people like you were euthanized at birth

[Adaeva]

@DarkLegacy I can understand that you might say that. After all, you know you would never be accepted by someone as attractive as me. Like most people, you have to settle for someone within your league.

[DarkLegacy]

@adaeva you are not attractive, you are just as conceited stupid little girl. Beside when you start going downhill in less then ten years you will receive karma. Im 35, I've come across so many people like you and they all regret it in the end

[Adaeva]

@DarkLegacy You poor thing. It must be terrible to be well past your prime and still looking.

[DarkLegacy]

@adaeva you are just a troll and most users on this site know that. You bang on about being upper class but you are so underdeveloped mentally hence why you still live in the stone age which you openly admit. Only a sad case needs to keep banging on about being pretty and popular which you are not.

[Adaeva]

@DarkLegacy Boring!

[DarkLegacy]

So is an amateur sports person, you engross in the most redundant sports possible

[DarkLegacy]

As for popular most of the people that claim to like you are only doing it just to boost their own profile and image, girls like you stand out a mile off and you delude yourself up to your late 20s into thinking you are popular and they actually like you.

[WhiteBoyChill]

So here’s the thing man. Women are notorious liars. Many of them are going to come on here and say they’ll take the average guy, but in reality close to 80-90% of them are already doing the complete opposite

[KrakenAttackin]

Oh, I know, but it still makes for good sport.

[Apple1996]

I'm only into average guys. The 4% you are talking about sounds extremely unattractive to me

[VIVANT]

They are generally psychopaths

[Apple1996]

@VIVANT glad I'm staying away from them then 😂. I'll take average over crazy anyday

[KrakenAttackin]

@Apple1996. Tall, handsome, wealthy; you wre not into men like that?

[Apple1996]

Nah not into that. Money and looks don't matter to me

[VIVANT]

Do not take red pill seriously! lol no sane person wants to share their partner and “average” also means no psychotic bc pathological is not a share so how story bonus ♥️. There is a reason most elope what a kind & considerate partner— bc it’s the absolute highest value person. Good people make a an otherwise cruel world livable & even lovely.

[KrakenAttackin]

@VIVANT. This isn't red pill, it's reality and data supports it.

[Aakash_Hangargi]

Hmm that's presumptuous? Lol average men are average BC they don't get the opportunity.

And average men and average women hit the same vibe as they aren't that much ambitious or like to have that wavelength of energy and feel the need to make those sacrifices that it takes for a person to be above average.

How does average mean no psychotic huh huh huh?

Haha 😆
Good people can be rich or poor and goodness is also a matter of perspective

If a guy cooks up a chicken and feeds the hungry it's good in the eyes of the hungry person

But killing a chicken and separating it from it's chicks or it's family consciously is not bad? Whose to say?

[KrakenAttackin]

@Aakash_Hangargi You have completely missed the point.

[whirled_up_girl]

@KrakenAttackin The data you cited in your uddate was Tinder. 😂I don't exactly see Tinder mainly a a place where men and women pick a partner based on superficial looks for mainly the purpose of "hooking up" as a quality source for dating or relationship integrity.

[KrakenAttackin]

@whirled_up_girl Match, POF, and one other dating site did similar studies with similar results. Just admit reality.

[whirled_up_girl]

@KrakenAttackin Somehow I have hard time believing they used the term top 4 percent of men and that the respondents indicated they rather share the top 4 percent rather than have average. It sounds very red pill to me but I’ll reserve judgment and I’ll google it sometime when I’m more bored.

[KrakenAttackin]

@whirled_up_girl Deny reality all you want, which is nothing new for women.

[whirled_up_girl]

@KrakenAttackin Honeslty though why does it matter either way, what I think, what effect does it have on me if I believe that stats or not. I know what is true for me and my dating styles, what effect does it have to know what other women do. I don't want to date women.

[KrakenAttackin]

@whirled_up_girl It matters because it shapes how men will view you, at least until you prove to be different. Of course, every woman says they are "not like other girls".

[Genie23]

Why did you post a question if you do not want to believe women's honest answers?

I have been with average looking guys happily because I liked the chemistry we had and their personality made them more noticeable and attracted than those good looking guys. Also, I'm sapiosexual. I get attracted to intelligence and witty humour. I'll happily take a smart average looking guy with good sense of humour who knows how to treat me.

[meetkitty123]

This Mamisita doesn't share!

I don't care what he looks like. No man is that grand.

[OptimisticGirl]

If I didn’t have feelings for the top 4% guy, then I’d just enjoy all the perks and not take issue with the other women.
But if I did have feelings for him (and sounds like I would) then it would slowly eat away at me knowing that he’s seeing other people and I’d start to question why I’m not good enough. Sounds way too unhealthy to be in a situationship like that.

[worldscolide]

Lets see how much they say one thing but actually do another.. Women are experts at that.

[Rayde]

I'm 15, never been in a relationship, but tbh, I'd rather an average guy all to myself.

[Juxtapose]

I don't encounter women like that very often because I befriend people who have sense.

[Jazzy54]

Definitely the average guy.

[ilovelamp]

now this is an interesting question.

[whirled_up_girl]

I would want an average guy all to myself.

[KrakenAttackin]

Getting an average guy is easy. The problem is women have a badly distorted view of "average".

[whirled_up_girl]

@KrakenAttackin I really wish there was a way that you could live inside my head for a period of time and see life from my perspective. In some ways I wish I could live inside your head and even others who see the world so differently from me. I feel like if we could do that we both have a much better understanding of why different people (especially of the opposite gender) are they way thtat they are.

[siseñor]

im a guy

[CT_CD]

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