Guys, would you prefer a fulfilling monogamous relationship or a life of sleeping with multiple women?

[Anonymous]

Either a happy, healthy monogamous relationship or spend the rest of your life sleeping with random women, never being loyal to any.

What do you truly want most?

Fulfilling monogamous relationship

Life of sex with multiple women

[MrOracle]

Despite some strong instincts otherwise, I know that sleeping around would be far less fulfilling. It's like junk food/empty calories - it might taste good at first, but there's no nutritional value and if you keep doing it for very long, it will negatively affect your health.

A solid, monogamous relationship is what I have now, and I'm perfectly happy. Sure, you can never sustain that "new relationship excitement" over a long period of time, but while that does fade out to some extent, it's replaced (in a healthy relationship, anyway) by deeper understanding and respect and a strong connection that brings a fulfillment that's difficult to describe, but something you miss terribly if you lose it.

[Lliam]

From my first girlfriend when I was 16, I always preferred monogamous relationships with long-term girlfriends. Two people bonded in infatuation is wonderful and the eager, unbridled sex is unmatched.

I've been married now for almost 28 years and love it.

[AI Opinion]

Diving into the heart of this question, it's like asking if you'd rather have a gourmet meal that satisfies your soul or an endless buffet where you taste everything but savor nothing. A fulfilling monogamous relationship offers depth, trust, and intimacy that you just can't find in the fleeting moments with multiple partners. It's about building a legacy, growing together, and those little moments of understanding and love that you can't get from just a glance across a crowded room. Sure, the idea of never saying 'no' to a new adventure sounds thrilling, but at the end of the day, it's those deep connections that truly enrich your life. Love is the ultimate adventure, and trust me, it's worth more than all the brief encounters in the world.

[HawkPerception]

Monogamous 100%

I wouldn't want to divide my attention between multiple people. I would want to give my one partner as much support and attention as possible. Get to know them the most. Share as many experiences with just them. And I'd want the same from them.

I dream of living off grid with one wife and a couple kids, literally living happily ever after.

[sawno]

100% fulfilling monogamy, I don't need anyone else just give me someone I can experience the deepest form of love with who is going to be equally loyal.

[sasi0234]

It all depends on circumstances and long family life... At sometime majority of men looks for a change to feel the new experience which inturn helps to improve family bonding, as the non monogamous relations are very short span and won't like to continue.

[MyBrainsInsaneReign]

I guess it depends on what you mean by "fulfilling."

Most of the men (teenagers and adults) who are in "fulfilling" relationships seem pretty miserable, honestly.

So there's definitely a case to be made for the "sex with multiple women" option.

[mattthefatbat]

I'd much rather have a wife that genuinely loves and cares about me and actually wants to be with me than feel empty inside sleeping with women that have no intention of loving me, or staying with me.

[Purpleronnie]

The amount of women I sleep with or have slept with has had and would offer no influence on my happiness positively so that’s no option at all for me

[normalice]

I could adapt to either and end up preferring it in hindsight.

[GoodGuyBreakingBad]

I want a life being married to one woman only.

[Anonymous]

Most men want monogamous, it's just unlikely. So the latter is better than nothing. Most guys KNOW that relationship with a woman today is only temporary. He either makes his peace with that, and Most do. Or he just doesn't date.

[Tim2nice]

For me a fulfilling life is one with multiple women

[Anonymous]

A monogamous life offers a combined history, intimate knowledge and an opportunity to build a life together.
A far richer and broader experience than sexual vagrancy.

[worldscolide]

I've been married 11 years, what does that tell you?

[DrPepper12]

Tbh I would want both. A stable LTR and other women. Monogamy is inherently unnatural to our nature.

[clampfan101]

Monogamous or nothing.

Sex without love is meaningless.

[red324]

It sure would be nice to be wanted by multiple women

[Anonymous]

Obviously I prefer sex with multiple women
That is the holy Grail

But the way society is organized means losing my house if I separate and losing the respect of my children. It's swings and roundabouts.

[RedInnocent69]

I could probably do with one, if she could keep up, but I doubt it… 🤔😉😂

[smurfwrangler]

multiple women. you'd probably learn more and be more interesting

[Anonymous]

Probably option 1. Though if we're totally honest, the dream would be to have both!

[askmesexquestions]

Your girlfriend is gonna have multiple friends all who need dick don't be selfish

[NathanDavis]

I've only been in committed ones, so far

[spartan55]

Who says you can't have both?

[Likes2drive]

I like being with one good woman

[LiamJHayden]

A life partner.

[Dongie]

Monogamy is the way to happiness. 💞🙄😏

[akeeeskuuu]

Life dosent mean one or the other.

[dsrice071966]

I would prefer a fulfilling relationship.

[paledreams]

I know how I voted A

[jahaims]

Just my wife

[Tstrbrainer]

More the merrier