Would you rather have a committed relationship or attract multiple partners?

[WhateverMayBeWillBe]

I have a friend that's very attractive and capable of going on multiple dates weekly and having sex whenever they want yet they would like to find & are struggling to meet a stable partner... and it makes me think/feel like the reason why I'd want to be in a relationship is more so for the lack of options & avoiding the hassle of dating/trying to attract a mate, I feel like if I were in their shoes I would just enjoy the causal sex and ability to date freely and whenever I wanted because relationships seem pretty flawed and temporary to me.

a committed relationship

attract multiple partners

[PrettyPriya]

Definitely a committed relationship. The emotional part of being connected, in love, or wherever you are at in a relationship makes it all the more exciting.

I love the fact that my boyfriend thinks about me, does little sweet things to let me know he thinks I’m special.

I think things like that will get lost in a multiple partner relationship.

[WhateverMayBeWillBe]

Whenever I put in effort towards someone they usually don't care and add that with the fact I get bored easily - it makes me wish I could just attract different partners with ease.

[PrettyPriya]

@WhateverMayBeWillBe

Sorry to hear that! Sounds like you haven’t found the right girl. She’s out there though! ❤️

[WhateverMayBeWillBe]

I don't really believe in "the right one" or soul mates, I think there's multiple people anyone can be compatible with if they meet the right criteria... sadly, with all my efforts to improve and be desirable (and believe me when I say I put in some form of effort everyday and that's not an understatement) it seems to still not be enough.

[PrettyPriya]

Hmm, sorry you feel that way but I stand by my statement. Wish you could have a rethink about it all, despite your experience. Best of luck to you friend ❤️

[Splatzonelover1]

prefer to have Committed respectful decant relationship. that i am not even gotten any where.

[WhateverMayBeWillBe]

Can't seem to have either so I feel exasperated

[Ethics]

Everyone wants commitment, it's the bumpy road towards it that make them run away.

[WhateverMayBeWillBe]

Can't speak on the behalf of others but for me it's the running into dead ends at every turn that makes me want to drive off a cliff.