If you have to choose, would you commit to someone whose had 5 one-year long relationships but cheated on 2 or someone who has never committed to 30?

[Jammaa]

Imagine that they both make you feel good, they admit that they love you, they have been honest, they don't show red flags aside from if you consider the partner history red flags, and they're equally physically attractive. Which one would you rather go for?

5 long term relationships but cheated on 2 of them or someone who never committed to a long term relationship but has been physically intimate with 30 partners

If you really think they're both equally great, select C. Otherwise, please choose.

Feel free to explain as well

5 long term but cheated twice

30 partners with no commitment

They're both so great

[DevikaButts95]

So someone who is likely completely untrustworthy or someone who never tried to manipulate or lie to their partner? "Tough" call I guess. Lmao.

[Juxtapose]

I'd go for a woman who never cheated but fucked everyone without an STD in the world of age over a cheater. A cheater will cheat when things get hard.

[Hanrej]

Well, I'm attracted to unfaithful women so it's an easy choice.

[Jammaa]

Really? Why?

[Hanrej]

It's difficult to explain without writing an essay.
Suffice to say that a woman who cheats care more about her looks, is more often sexually active and initiating, is generally happier as she has her fill of validation.

On the contrary, a strictly monogamous relationship suffer the risk of becoming mundane, passionless and for lack of better word boring arter a while.

I don't know how to explain it better than that, women who enjoy more freedom are simply more attractive to me.

[NathanDavis]

no cheaters for me...

[Jammaa]

What if those were just for the 1st 2 partners at age 16 and 18? Same thing?

[NathanDavis]

it was two times... and it means that after hurting someone like that first

they decided to do it again to someone else

yes, you can certainly learn and mature on many things... but, being careless twice about something like this goes beyond a line I would have a difficulty to trust

so, it is more about me not being comfortable than their cheating ways

[Juxtapose]

Very well said @NathanDavis

[NathanDavis]

appreciated

[laly520]

would neve go for a cheater

[exitseven]

I say either or.

[KrakenAttackin]

I would not commit to either.

[Jamie05rhs]

I would take the slut over the whore any day.

[noohair]

One year is not long term.