Why do most girls assume their man is going to cheat on them?

[Finchie40]

Girl’s don’t you realize a man isn’t going to cheat on you if you value him and prioritize him , stop nagging at him and belittling him and criticizing him , Stop comparing him and stop thinking he just wants You for sex , he wants sex with you because that’s his way of showing you he loves and cares about you , a way he can be close to you , A guy isn’t going To commit into a relationship with a girl to bring misery into his life , and he doesn’t want a girl that brings misery into his , you are supposed to be supportive of each other and compliment each other , you and him Vs the world , avoid temptations for each other , wear each others shoes before making decisions , remove selfishness for each other , understand you aren’t always right and he is wrong? A man will only cheat on a girl if she is constantly bringing misery into his life and comparing him to other guys , if she is selfish and only thinks about herself that is more than likely going to push him to cheat or be acceptive of another girl , Now if you are a girl the does compliment your man and treats him like a King and he still cheats on you? Then he is a piece of shit. When you girls stop flirting and seeking validation from other men and stop listening to your toxic girlfriends you will experience true love , when you make your partner your number 1 priority he will do the same for you. A guy is territorial of a girl he loves and adores , if he isn’t territorial and has no issues with you going out with your toxic friends and going on trips without him? He doesn’t give 2 shits about you and is probably cheating on you so you my as well cheat on him. We can’t hold each others hands at all times , we can’t choose someone’s actions , we can only give what we want to receive , If you choose selfishness over your partner then be prepared for them to be selfish to you , You can’t set boundaries that you can’t follow as well.

[Guy13]

That is what they are marketed. Guilty until proven innocent 😇 isn’t a bad approach to me…as long as it does not prohibit relationships from forming.

[Agape93]

Because in modern times, we don't capitulate and put him on a pedestal. We can prioritize ourselves and make ourselves happy too. But it says something if not essentially making feel like a king is what makes men cheat.

We assume it because it happens amazingly often even if we fuck him daily, clean up after him and make him. never stress out. Guys cheat because they want to cheat, it's a choice and they are the only ones responsible for it.

[LazerBean]

I don't, because I know my husband is not a cheater. Someone who is not a cheater will not cheat, and a cheater will find a way and reason to cheat regardless of how you treat them.

[TheSpaceGnome]

There is never a valid reason to cheat, but if you replace "cheating" with "leaving" in every part but the "peice of shit" part, then everything you said is accurate.

Women cannot expect double standards, they get what they give.

[USLegionary]

It's called projection. Women are more likely to cheat and have a habit of monkey branching from one relationship to the next. Liars always fear people are lying to them, thieves fear being stolen from, cheaters fear their partners will cheat

[Anonymous]

Most decent women don't. If a woman is always worried her man is going to cheat on her it's because THOSE are the types of men she chooses. She's to dumb to know what a decent man looks and acts like. I just roll my eyes and laugh everytime I see a woman on here complaining about it because it's almost ALWAYS her own self destructive choices.

[NathanDavis]

none of my ex-girlfriends ever had done this before...

I've lived and lead a very different life experience to this one you're talking about

[Anonymous]

So… a guy cheats- aka, is incapable of self control or mature conversations and actions- and somehow that is the woman’s fault?

[TroyDT2]

Do most really assume that? That must suck to live like that.

[disgustingweebtrash]

Women by and large dont really need to cheat, they can just take a break or break up to avoid the label or cheater

[Twalli]

Cheating because you think or know the other person is cheating is a shit thing to do.

[In_Trance]

Probably because they have reason to believe this