As a man, do you think I should date if I don't have money?

[DaweedO]

I'm kinda broke and in between jobs, and I feel like it's pointless to even try meeting women because i don't have much money, or a stable career. What do you think?

[Screenwriter]

Well, if you can't afford to even pay for YOURSELF on a dutch date, I'm thinking you might be right.

But, if you're able to do free or inexpensive things and to get out to meet people at Meetups: playing volleyball, softball, sailing... It'll cost you little or nothing to get out and about. Might be a relaxed way to meet and get to know people.

As long as you're able to pay your bills and as long as you're seeking a course in your life, don't cut yourself off from meeting women. You may. have to do some non traditional t hings... but be creative. Another creative person might appreciate you. Gold diggers won't.

[NoDecision]

Dating almost always costs money. It costs you money just to drive to meet them, even by taking the bus. Dinner costs money, movies, even a picnic in a park. I mean you can cut costs depending on what you do. The trick is in finding a woman in like circumstances, who will not be expecting you to wine and dine her. I'm sure you can figure something out. Be creative, but not in a way that involves trying to get into her pants. 😅

This is what I like - a date that cost me no money.

[DryGermanGuy]

😂😂😂

[Shiprex]

No need to quit because who knows there could always be that unicorn of a woman who sees you for who you are and is prepared to support you in your growth and allow you to set and seek your own goals while she does the graft of earning and sharing her earnings with her pay check each week or month dropped off in the hands of the househusband who would ensure the home is spick and span as well as home cooked food on the table each evening.

[ohsheeT]

I think your right don't embarrasses yourself. Wait until you can do it right. When you go on a date your trying to show her who you are and the best parts about yourself just be patient get it together. And do it right

[Anonymous]

I don't think it should be your main focus. But yeah, continue to date. There are women out that money is not the end all, be all. The number of women is the minority so you will have a tough time. But those women are out there. It's just a matter of finding them.

[SAMI_DABBAB]

Dates lead to more dates, if you’re not going to be able to sustain such a lifestyle just enjoy the free side of being around women until things change for you, the world is rough as it is, last thing you need is to feel bad for not being able to do something that’s not really necessary

[fish5505_87]

It's not going to be easy, but there has to be more to who you are then money, show that side of you, who knows?

[TheSpaceGnome]

Yes, and when you get money, pretend to be poor until she loves you.

[ABC1x1x]

As a man I've dated when I was homeless. Girls just want cock. If you can afford to feed them, it's a bonus.

[Iron_Man]

if you ever dated as a teen, you didn’t have any money so you can do it now

[Jay-_-]

Personally no, unless you aren't looking for a long term relationship.

[Anonymous]

Dating is a double comma club activity but by the time you've got that far the desire to date is usually gone