Is it ok to go on a first date without money?

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If we decide to go to have dinner and he will get me ride forth and back?

motownplayer2000 · Accepted Answer

I think it should be the standard. If the thought process is, a woman shouldn’t be expected to put out on the first date, then a man shouldn’t be expected to pay… to eliminate those expectations, then a free first date is optimal. Would eliminate the woman just going to get a free meal and a make having to invest resources into someone who may not be worth it. Nor would the woman feel pressured to have to preform or do something because of what she got. I advise men, if a woman gets pissed that you didn’t take to a fancy restaurant and whatever. That’s a serious red flag. First dates should be where you get to know each other with as little resources as possible invested into it until you fit together.

BoopBoopBeep · Accepted Answer

You should never leave the house without money/money equivalent. You don't know what could happen while you're out. If he invited you out, the date should be on him. If the date goes incredibly poorly he's likely not getting you an uber home.

HelpfulWoman · Accepted Answer

so long as you're both clear on that, then sure. when i dated I was upfront on my financials, and would rather wait until I had my money to pay for myself then assume the dude was paying.

elizamichale1 · Accepted Answer

I don't think that's a gud idea... always go with sum backup or be ready for alternates in case... lol

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Did he say he will pay for everything?

Billlewis · Answer

Any time a woman goes out on a date with me, she won't pay one red cent for anything whatsoever,.

Anonymous · Answer

For a woman, it's fine. However, given the current state of "gender equality", which isn't equality at all, a man must be prepared to pay for both his and hers. Obviously, the eradication of traditional gender roles has only applied to the ones that don't benefit women.

exitseven · Answer

You should always have some cash with you. It is better to have it and not need it than to need it and not have it

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

It’s ok however if the first date doesn’t go well & you don’t drive it’s always good to have a back up plan unless you want to walk home.

Pohjolan · Answer

Some guys are fine dating a broke gal but you should maybe check before getting the bill. Also don't insist on going to the most expensive place.

HitsyHonesty · Answer

HECK YEAH!! Why does it have to cost money? All you need to do is get to know each other.

bowenw · Answer

It's okay as long as you can pay for things with your phone if necessary, like an Uber.

LiamJHayden · Answer

No. Someone can promise the sun, the moon, and the stars, but have money on hand just in case he doesn't / can't deliver.

nawtee_me · Answer

Ass, gas or grass nobody rides for free…. lol

eagle1951 · Answer

depends who's buying, if it's him your good

sheikalana · Answer

No for both parts involved.

tunoo · Answer

No, I will never pay for a woman's food.

rebeliouse · Answer

well u should take some for emergency

Anonymous · Answer

It's not a good idea.

DJB72 · Answer

I wouldn't advise it

red-lipstick-girl · Answer

no it's not true

Heolurt · Answer

Nope

Anonymous · Answer

Fuck no

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