Guys, should I tell him I like him or make a different move or just wait?

[Anonymous]

I've met this guy 2 months ago at an extracurricular activity and immediately thought he was cute and I had the vibe that he liked me too, he even asked for my ig. Around 2 days after that, I couldn't stop thinking about him so I sent the scary first text and that's when we started texting constantly, he asked me "out" but didn't say it was a date explicitly, we had a lot of fun and saw each other 2 days after that, and so on. He initiates physical touch like back patting or holding my hand for a second etc, he gives me flowers, we talk about deep stuff sometimes until dawn, and overall I'm completely sure we like each back. However, even though he always has fun on our dates, I have to initiate them almost all the time. It's like he avoids telling me the exact day he will be free so I always have to suggest it. I'm feeling really uncertain about this whole situation and want to let him know how I feel because I'm a 100% sure he feels the same way but he's either scared of rejection, or scared of getting hurt in a future relationship. What do you think I should do?

Continue subtly flirting

Tell him how I feel

Try to kiss him

[ohsheeT]

You are just so adorable. I like all 3 of your votes choices good job

OK so first of all, don't try to second-guess. Don't try to read between the lines. Don't even try to figure it out just let it happen if the only way for you to see him and be with him is firbyou to make the move and ask him out then do it. Do look at thing like the title or question is it a date... who care at the moment. Your a friend that enjoys being around him. So that's what it is.

Some guys are so afraid of women who knows what she wants... because he's lost. And probably freaks out even thinking about it... don't bring up the girl friend boyfriend thing because he's never experienced that before and it scares him because he's not confident within him self and he's afraid he might fail

So just be his friend un till he gets the hang of it and enjoy it while you can. Because once he does get the hang of it he will probably try yo control it instead of just going with it

If you say or do things that are over his head or make him think about things he might run lol

This sounds like it's his first time with anything you might want yo do..
So do babysteps

Yo I b would like you have it together but just be careful how you approach everything

Once he gets use to it and relaxes then he will start tell you wh a t he want to

[Asker]

thank you, i got that impression too but it's getting so agonizing to wait when you like someone so much

[ohsheeT]

I do understand that this is going to sound crazy. But you have to be patient. This is a learning moment, and the choices you make today will either make you or break you. I would love to explain it, but right now, at this moment, I can't. Maybe in an hr I can

[Asker]

I think your answer got it completely right, please do tell me what you think I should do next whenever you cam

[ohsheeT]

Well, I'm not sure. Because I would need to know more things like who contacted who last or the last time chatted and a lot more little details and if you want you can just DM me it would make it easier

[Asker]

ok dm me I just followed you (itisme1937), bc my account is new and I can't dm someone first

[ohsheeT]

Ok, I couldn't find you, but I will try again

[Iron_Man]

sounds like Everything is going great. What’s the problem It’s a little bit too early yet two months give it another two or three weeks

[Asker]

This Friday I asked him if he wants to hang out during the weekend and he couldn't because of some family stuff but he said he'll tell me when he's free by Saturday, and it's Monday now and he's not mentioning us seeing each other at all, even though we're always texting all day

[Iron_Man]

I understand your circumstances and wanting to know if the guy likes you and wanting to know when you’re going to get together next time but let him bring it up. There’s no rush if the man wants to see you he’ll set up another date

[Abbycado]

How is not a date? When I first starting seeing my boyfriend we didn’t have to label going out as a “date” to make it official.

[Anonymous]

A guy should always like you more than you like him, otherwise this is the result.

[Asker]

you can't really choose that can you

[Opinion Owner]

You definitely can. You’ll know how much a man likes you based off his efforts, and if it’s you mainly initiating everything, made the first move and etc, it shows you like him more and doing most of the work.

[Spencer10]

Fortune favors the brave... just talk to him.

[Anonymous]

I voted for C, you should take some initiative, maybe he likes dominant girls.

[Asker]

how do i find out if that's what he likes

[Opinion Owner]

Is he shy when he is near you?

[Asker]

he's more relaxed now but was shy at first

[Opinion Owner]

Good, I think he likes you.

[Asker]

yeah i think so too but he's still not telling me when he wants to see each other again

[Opinion Owner]

Perhaps you should ask him, he would probably like you to take initiative.

[Asker]

yeah i did ask him out a few days ago and he said he would specify the date during the weekend but it still hasn't happened

[Opinion Owner]

Maybe he's just nervous, he probably needs a bit more time.

[Fireguy17]

screw around long enough someone else will swoop in and steal him out from under, so let him know how you feel because most guys are pretty clueless.

[MrChinaski]

Tell him how you feel.

[yotaman99]

He’s insecure