What factors lead to cheating in a relationship?

[princeofromance]

[BobbieBoy666]

Several factors can contribute to infidelity in a relationship, including relationship dissatisfaction, unmet needs, lack of communication, and personal issues like low self-esteem or addiction. Situational factors, like increased opportunity or a lack of emotional connection, also play a role.
Factors Contributing to Infidelity:
Relationship Dissatisfaction:
This can manifest as a lack of emotional or sexual connection, poor communication, conflict, or a sense of being unappreciated or neglected.
Unmet Needs:
Individuals may seek fulfillment of emotional, sexual, or other needs outside the relationship if they are not being met within it.
Lack of Communication:
When partners struggle to communicate effectively, it can lead to misunderstandings, resentment, and feelings of disconnection, potentially increasing the likelihood of infidelity.
Personal Issues:
Issues like low self-esteem, anger, unresolved childhood trauma, or substance abuse can also contribute to infidelity.
Situational Factors:
Increased opportunities, such as travel or work situations, can create situations where infidelity is more likely to occur.
Low Commitment:
Individuals who are not fully committed to the relationship may be more likely to seek out other relationships or to be involved in extra-marital affairs.
Sexual Dissatisfaction:
Disagreements about sexual frequency, desires, or behaviors can lead to individuals seeking satisfaction elsewhere.
Seeking Variety:
Some individuals may be drawn to the novelty and excitement of a new relationship, leading to infidelity.
Addiction:
Substance abuse or sex addiction can significantly increase the likelihood of infidelity, as it can cloud judgment and impact behavior.
Anger or Revenge:
In some cases, infidelity may be a form of retaliation or a way to express anger or resentment towards a partner.

[Twalli]

Looking for needs that aren't being met.

[PeachyPie93]

Nothing really.. a lot of people just cheat because they can and in general they aren't loyal people. Like if you honestly loved someone would you really give it up to someone just because he/she makes you feel sexy or wanted? Or because you are horny/attracted? I sure as hell wouldn't.
Even when I was single and 15 my older cousins boyfriend (31 years old) came outside when I was alone and I was sleeping over with their daughter in the trailer and he said can I come out here later and see you when they are sleeping? I was shocked because he knew me since I was a baby so I ignored him, he asked again and I just said "No" and he quickly went in the house. Later he came outside and I was laying on my stomach reading and he was like you two look cozy let me see how warm you guys are under there and he was touching my back and close to my ass under the covers then he went back inside.. My little cousin was like "was he just touching your bum?" I was showing her and she is like that is basically your bum lol It was really awkward and after that I always made sure never to be left alone at their house and avoided him. He also cheated on my cousin with a lot of her friends, and she was a skinny, pretty blonde with big boobs.. I don't know why he was always cheating on her and why it took her so long to leave him.

[yotaman99]

My ex did it on purpose did a lot on purpose

[thegreenyogi]

Frustration and one of the two people involved being unhappy about said relationship.

[AviatorTom]

As I've said many tines, cheating is most often the result of opportunity. It's rarely planned.

[Sunrising]

Having a lot of freetime and the opportunity. No cheating from me, I've no available time, but I'd want an open relationship, so there would be no cheating either way in my relationships.

[HighValue]

Bad morals is the reason people cheat. That's all.

[loveyouoak]

Disgust or alienation from one's partner may lead to cheating.

[NathanDavis]

lack of integrity

[serious]

Several reasons and factors.

[Angel_ica]

Bad sex does

[yotaman99]

Like my ex did to me.

[Angel_ica]

If you not can satisfy her she will get it from someone better

[yotaman99]

She did and she lied to me for a very long time

[Angel_ica]

I think it is good she is happy but she should have told you

[yotaman99]

Well she did a couple things that I’m glad of

[Angel_ica]

What you like?

[yotaman99]

Well it’s kinda embarrassing so got me to take meds for like the 9 years we were todgether that made me shrink

[Angel_ica]

You already small before?

[yotaman99]

I was below average

[Angel_ica]

Then you already useless before

[Billlewis]

Yes! So does incredible sex -- with the other guy;)

[ABC1x1x]

Weak morals and lack of attention

[Anonymous]

There are a lot of reasons

[LiamJHayden]

Selfishness

[yotaman99]

Really well can you dm?