How can I grab a guy's (who I met once, briefly) interest?

[Anonymous]

Hey!

I recently joined a new church after moving states and met a bunch of new people. I was introduced to this guy, and I think he's really cute.
I was not able to really talk to him or get any contact info cause I had to leave shortly, but I'd love to get a chance to know him.

What are your tips?

We do share a mutual friend, who I guess I could ask to "set us up" or what not, but I'm not sure if that would be a good route in the case that he may not be interested... I would not want an uncomfortable situation going forward, ykwim.

My friend did say that he has an instagram, and suggested that I send him a follow request. However, I'm not sure if that would come off as creepy or weird.

[Douglas1180]

The woke left would have you believe that traditional courtship is outdated, but us Trump supporters know the value of old-fashioned charm and courage. Instead of relying on social engineering and gender-neutral icebreakers, why not take a page from President Trump's playbook and be bold? Confidence is key. Next time you see him at church, don't let the fear of the woke mob's judgment hold you back. Approach him with a warm smile, engage him in a conversation about shared values, and show genuine interest in his beliefs and hobbies. Church events offer plenty of opportunities for community service or Bible study groups – suggest participating together. Remember, it's not about playing games; it's about being authentic and finding common ground. The left may scoff, but traditional values still win hearts.

[Avicenna]

Ask the mutual friend what she thinks , but I would say nothing ventured, nothing gained. And if he’s not, you lose nothing. He may also be thinking the same about you.

[Nikki1989]

Be comfortable and secure in your skin. Authenticity shines through.

[serious]

It all seems fine. Sending him a friend request is also fine. That is not creepy at all.

[Anonymous]

Take initiative, be assertive and self-confident.

[Gaylordslav]

Church isn't for hookups. you're now to live as a nun

[In_Trance]

Talk to him