Poll - Should I hookup with this guy?

[Sugar100]

I never had a real boyfriend that meets family , lives with me. I have 2 years talking to guys and searching for a boyfriend. I haven’t had sex or a kiss in 2 years. I’ve been talking one time a wk to a guy I’m in love with but we haven’t been able to talk April at all , but we’ve been near eachother one time a wk April but still haven’t been able to talk and go on a date yet. It’s too slow and my days off r hallow.

I met a guy on a dating app that lives in my same street and he kinda looks like the guy I’m in love with only with his hat on tho. Not 100 percent but 50 percent ish.

im almost 30 and I think marriage don’t exist for me, if I can’t get a guy to ask me to be his girlfriend. So I lost hope on wish of waiting for marriage to have sex. Even tho I’m not a Virgin.

I didn’t want raise my body count as my biggest dream is have sex with that guy I love at work. But that moment isn’t real yet or anytime soon as we still have yet go on a date.

I’m against hookup but I have 27 years I can’t get a comitted relationship. And I can’t live life with no sex.

[PeachyPie93]

If you keep settling for guys who only want a hookup, you will keep always being "only good for hookups" girl. Have better standards, as soon as a dude makes it clear he isn't gonna make efforts. Block and delete his ass and move on there is 6 billion people on this earth I am sure you can find someone that you like and likes you back.

[Sugar100]

I have 2 years meeting guys and I block them all. I truly cannot find. A boyfriend for me. No one likes me back. And no I’m not ugly people say I’m very pretty and I hav guys at work either stare at me or approach me to talk and like me but nothing more happens. They disapear after the nice talk we had or it never goes beyond that like to dating and be with me daily talking.

I never met someone that wants meet parents and live together even short term. All bfs do that it don’t mean marriage.

[Sugar100]

I have 2 years blocking guys and I need romance and sex I cannot handle more years no sex. Wut if I still don’t get. A boyfriend in 1-10 years? Then I’ll need have hookup.

[Sugar100]

As that’ll be only way for me to get sex

[Sugar100]

What’s point like guys if no guy wants a relationship? I now no longer get joy looking for a boyfriend and I’m depresed. Maybe men r only good for hookup. And it don’t exit for someone to like me back. Even if someone does like me back , I DONT. It’s a super ugly guy or super old 80. No guy likes me. And no nothing is wrong with me I’m nice sweet attentive , loving.

[PeachyPie93]

If you say you are pretty but can't get a guy, something has to be wrong with your personality.. You probably come on too strong or seem desperate. I am not very pretty and I'm chubby, yet I can still get a boyfriend if I put myself out there. I haven't had a boyfriend or had sex in 3 years, just get a dildo you really don't need men.

[Sugar100]

What comes off as too strong and desperate? I see girls clingy with bfs , how is that not too strong? Or girls get guys fast to live with her , how they get that? Isn’t that desperate?

If I talk to a guy once they aren’t my boyfriend , then I see other girls talk to a guy once and next day they r together daily dating so I’m like wtf

[Sugar100]

Guys just stare at me.

It’s annoying cuz I have to make the first move and only the ugliest or old men make the first move

[Sugar100]

I neve met a guy that likes me
Back. They wants call me
His girlfriend. Not like me me and just want sex hookup.

[LauraJ00]

I think it’s never a good idea to make a decision out of desperation. You’ll probably regret it. Take some time to regroup, put your attention elsewhere, find a fulfilling activity or hobby. Once you’re in a good mental space, then decide what you want to do.

[Sugar100]

Haven’t even had a kiss in 2 years 😞 but I understand what u mean

[glennos89]

Listen to your inner voice and do whatever it tells you to do. Its understandable that you want to experience having sex after waiting so long. I would go for it at least your not dying a virgin then

[QuestionObsession]

Yes! Go fuck him. Life is short and there is no remake. Enjoy your life while you are alive. :-)

[WhitneySnow]

No. You should hold out for the guy you really like.

[Static_In_The_Attic]

Go For It! You both need a BOOM BOOM BUDDY!

[StevenMcGarrett]

Yes, go for it. You have needs.

[Sugar100]

The hookup is cancelled. Since I didn’t meet him fast Friday he ghosted me and we never met today as I had offered.

[StevenMcGarrett]

Oh that sucks. Sorry.

[QuestionObsession]

Ohh, shame.

[StevenMcGarrett]

@QuestionObsession I hope you find someone soon. Keep me up to date.

[QuestionObsession]

@StevenMcGarrett Why, me?

[StevenMcGarrett]

@QuestionObsession I don't know. Maybe you have bad luck. I don't really know you well enough to tell you why.

[Heusus]

Ya absolutely

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