Is it okay for a 25 year-old girl to date a 21 year-old guy?

[Anonymous]

Would it be okay for a 25 year-old girl to date a 21 year-old guy? Even if the life experience difference is evident between them? For example, the girl is taking a Masters degree and the guy hasn't started his studies yet.

[Anonymous]

Of course it's ok. 4 years isn't a large age difference, they both belong in the same generation. What matters more, is whether they have things in common, get along/communicate well, have a healthy relationship and enjoy the company of each other. If she isn't certain, maybe she could keep it casual at first and test the waters, then if they have good chemistry, they good pursue something more serious

[ShivaniPandey]

Try him. If he is able to satisfy you onbed then age doesn't matter. As you are senior to him you can also dominant him in relationship and bed as well.

[Asker]

It's not like I want to be dominant in relationship personally

[ShivaniPandey]

I just only try to say if he satisfies you in every aspects then he's perfect

[WhiteThought]

Why wouldn't it be okay? There is no law against it and they are two consenting adults. If he were 25 and you were 21, then the life experience would still be evident.

[Iron_Man]

that’s not usually how it works. It’s Usually the older Guy dating younger women

[Asker]

yea well I wish I could swap ages then

[Iron_Man]

well, it is what it is

[Asker]

thanks man. very helpful

[Iron_Man]

well, what do you want me to tell you to break up with him and date, an older fella

[Asker]

no, but just older guys dating younger women is pretty normalised, but the opposite is not seen so positively which is why i asked the question

[Iron_Man]

Unless somebody ask you, the guy’s age, I don’t think anybody’s gonna pay attention or point it out how serious are you guys anyway in your relationship?

[Iron_Man]

Unless the guy looks really young for his age. Is there much of a difference in the aging process between the both of you or do you both look similar in age?

[EmmiL]

Yes why such silly questions

[Asker]

Because it feels like the one person is just started their adult incomparison to the other who has for a while now

[Asker]

adult life*

[EmmiL]

Ridiculous, it's 4 years

[Asker]

It still feels a lot because when one was 18, the other was 14. I know I should look back to that but its a bit hard not to think that when I was a certain age the other person was way younger

[Asker]

should not*

[Sal_Monella]

No reason not to.

[MasterKS]

Why not? age experiment is more exciting.

[Asker]

You mean life experience or romatinc experience? Because in this case, I was talking about like life experience

[MasterKS]

@asker mostly romance.

[PessicaJeter]

Yeah, absolutely.

[Anonymous]

Yes it’s perfectly fine

[StevenMcGarrett]

Yes, of course.

[Anonymous]

Nope

[Asker]

Can you elaborate?

[Opinion Owner]

Guys, at that age, are into older women. So it's mostly lust from his side

[Asker]

what if the girl isn't really "woman-like" in terms of appearance? she is often mistaken being younger than she is

[Opinion Owner]

Does he know her age?

[Asker]

yes he does

[Opinion Owner]

Then I'll stick with my asnwer

[Asker]

I mean he only found out later on which is why I am asking about it