Girls, Is it possible for a guy to be too hot/desirable to date? If so, what traits does that guy have?

[ProbablyClueless]

Everyone has their problems, but I have to think that there are certain guys who women (at least, most women) would look at think there's no way I could lock down a guy like that.

I know that there are really beautiful women out there who are just ignored and treated like crap constantly because everyone assumes they're bitchy, or that they get nonstop attention and "live life on easy mode." So... it stands to reason that there are men like that as well. Or at least, there's some male equivalent. I'm curious about what sort of guy would get that treatment.

Ladies, what are some characteristics (physical, mental and emotional) that would make a guy too good to date?

[victoriaxoxo]

Yes for sure, I’d say for me personality it would have to be looks. As I feel like there there is still a cultural understanding in many places that the woman is ‘supposed’ to be the more attractive one in the relationship.

Second would probably be popularity/social status. Mostly stemming from fear of not being able to ‘keep him grounded’ if he constantly surrounded by people esp. opposite sex.

Whilst money on its own wouldn’t really make a difference, it often ties into giving leverage in other domains such as social -> being surrounded by women. That would make me second guess my willingness to even go for it vs if he was a janitor who is secretly a millionaire.

Other areas less so unless there is a crazy mismatch but hard to imagine. Overall I feel like most people don’t like having big gaps in anything between them and their partner unless they can trade a big gap in something else for it (e. g. a hot woman and a rich man).

[Katebfun]

I would say a man could or is out of my league due to attractiveness. Also if he has a high paying career and lives a life of luxury. I have met men who don't mind nor do they care if I have a degree or making a 6 figure income. A man who is rich along with being attractive also has a wider net of opportunities to women. That also puts things into a new perspective.

[ProbablyClueless]

Interesting! So is it fair to say a guy who is "too datable" would be someone that you don't really feel like you're necessarily adding much to his life?

[Katebfun]

Well not adding to his life, no I would not go that far. What im saying is locking down a man that is highly desirable. Unless it was fate amd he knew I was the one, or something.

[ProbablyClueless]

Gotcha... so it's kind of question of balance in the relationship.

[chrissykerdock]

depends on his passion for me he may not have any

[PeachyPie93]

If I think a guy is hotter than me looks wise I won't go for him lol.