Is it weird for young women to be into old men?

Question

Do you think young women who are into men in their 50s are weird? I find younger men so much more attractive but lot of girls I know date or fuck with much older men, some are not even rich.

Lliam · Accepted Answer

It's not uncommon at all.
Everyone has different tastes when it comes to physical attraction.

In most relationships, the men are older, but not necessarily by many years. The average in the U. S. is males being 2.3 years older. But there are some large age differences, especially among celebrities and wealthy men.

Lots of men in their 50s are extremely virile. They also look more rugged and manly compared to guys in their 20s. They often have lots of experience and know how to treat a woman right both in and out of the bedroom, whereas some young guys are self-centered when it comes to sex.

Here are some leading men who are between 50 and 60.
https://www.imdb.com/list/ls500038552/

Summeroflove · Accepted Answer

It really depends on the woman here but grown adults are able to be into whoever they want to be into. Don’t worry about what other people are doing and focus on yourself.

Some people don’t feel genuinely attracted they’re doing it because it’s shocking and taboo as well as if there is financial incentives. That’s not all of them though some do genuinely feel attraction for a man whose older in age. So I don’t like lumping then all together. There are men in their 50s who are attractive as well.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

Don't worry you're not the only one. I seem to be drawn towards younger guys lately. My bestie and other girls that I associate with all like older men, but I just don't get it. There are definitely some good looking older men but I just don't find them attractive. You're not weird at all.

Hellfireandcandy · Accepted Answer

I wouldn't say "weird" unless they exclusively want to date/are attracted to men close to their dad's age. If you date your age or close and then someone older it's weird, but if that's all they date are much older and it's not a sugar baby thing, then it's weird.

ohsheeT · Answer

It's better that way You don't need for your people at work.
To know your business. And no it's not weird it's just the way it is now days older guys use to get a bad rap The younger girls are tired of the b******* from guys to their own age. So now they're making their own choices. Just like you and just like the younger guys, they know what they want. Everybody knows what they want. They wanna be treated right? And not used well in some cases

Finchie40 · Answer

No, everyone has their own preferences of what they are into and not into , so all that matters is they both have great chemistry and connection with each other , Age doesn’t determine that whatsoever

OlderAndWiser · Answer

Have YOU ever dated an older man, or had sex with an older man?

Avicenna · Answer

One of the great lessons we learning life is that everyone doesn’t think the same way we do. Adults make their own decisions in these matters.

AviatorTom · Answer

Is it weird to spend time with someone who has more experience?

AyChingao · Answer

I find it's unusual but not as much so as you might think. When I was 19 my girlfriend was 34. Since then it seems relationships are with younger women, biggest split was 18 years. Oddly enough it seems the younger (25- 35) ladies seem most responsive and eager to fuck when I'm hunting. I've got this thing though still. I find women up to 15-20 years older super hot, and if I do catch one she's gonna get all the delicious naughty things done 3:)

14gurlz2gagonit · Answer

It's not weird and in fact was the normal in different times and places.

Why would it seem weird though? I'm going to guess it's a case of don't knock it until you try it. I mean the girls doing it isn't knocking it because they keep doing it right?

Kabluie · Answer

There was a good articles lately why women are seeking older men that's above their generation or non Gen-Z because that block has become more right-wing and doesn't always align to their values. I do agree with this in some part because even I was told this once on an early date with someone in their mid-20s, they felt we aligned on every issue that was happening in the world aside from same hobbies, so that's a better connection. We are still dating casually.

aquamarine321 · Answer

No, it’s natural as a matter of fact most women date older men, even if it’s one month older and vice versa men well choose younger women, women prefer maturity while men prefer purity, beauty it’s a total balance between men and women, but remember this doesn’t apply to everyone because women also date younger men which is also younger men dating older women

Shiprex · Answer

No it's not. Men who are older tend to be more stable and know where they are going in life, have access to resources and women who are not interested in "exploring their sexuality" and want families will likely steer toward them

Anonymous · Answer

I think we'd have to define weird. It's not really normal no. In that aspect it is weird. But it is explainable. She can have daddy issues. That's not weird. It's unfortunate, but not weird. It actually makes complete sense. She's looking for unfulfilled needs from a father figure.

strateguy632 · Answer

No, it is natural because both are fertile fruitful age. I am 50 and many young gals get attracted.  Especially after men her age hurt her.

NicholasRedone · Answer

@emmil I'm amazed women who are 20 still think I'm their man? 👀🤔 Like ladies you've got fellow men you're own 20s age - why'd they want 31 year old me? I dress as you see, like a polished up homeless man 😉 🫧🪥

Billlewis · Answer

A lot of them like us because we often spoil/sponsor them, but we tend not to pester them for intimacy.

Static_In_The_Attic · Answer

Nowadays WEIRD has a whole new meaning & to answer your question I don’t think it’s weird I think it’s wonderful.

chrissykerdock · Answer

give an older man a blowjob and you'll have a good meal can't say that for younger men

Anonymous · Answer

Not weird but defo not my thing. I think the old guys who get most of the action are both relatively well off and have a lot of game for their age.

Surely · Answer

Older men are usually more experienced. Not in a rush and neither are looking for long term relationships.
As for being weird. That choice is up to the individuals involved. Not to be judged by everyone else.

abc3643 · Answer

No, not at all. This is a very common fantasy/fetish with young women.

Panthero80 · Answer

Into as they don't have an age restriction as to only limiting themselves to young men. or that they ONLY find men in their 50s attractive? by the way, 50s is considered middle age, not "old."

ProbablyClueless · Answer

It's so common that it's actually a stereotype.

LiamJHayden · Answer

People like what they like. As long as both are of age I personally do not care as it is not my business whom other adults date.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

Not really. Girls like masculine men of whatever age. They also like rich men, who tend to be older.

Hellraiser1984 · Answer

No. I've always been into the 30-40s range of women. They've usually got their life together and out of the sex crazed age.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Nope. No more than younger guys like older women. People like who they like.

DrPepper12 · Answer

A key for every lock no matter how rusty...

WonderingManII · Answer

I don't know why things are the way they are. They like what they like, I guess.

zagor · Answer

People should do what (and who) they want. Why does it concern you what other women do?

Samuel75 · Answer

No, it's not weird everyone has their taste and preferences.

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Its not weird people just like what they like I'm sure they probably think your weird for dating young guys

BDRick · Answer

Nope, it’s more natural than a young man being into a cougar

Celticwolf78 · Answer

Nah it's not weird some females like being with older guys but they shouldn't go towards guys that old 46 old enough

Maskx · Answer

To me, if a lady in her 20s is with a guy twice her age. I just assume she has daddy issues.

Emanon16 · Answer

Probably you are right

ChicoFromThe305 · Answer

Weird would depend on who you ask I think

AustColombiangirl · Answer

been doing that since I was a young teen

LiaRaven · Answer

Not weird

Jennz6 · Answer

I do young and old

andy530 · Answer

Not weird at all it’s honestly quite common

RedInnocent69 · Answer

Not in the least. Every girl has daddy issues

PeterLegg91 · Answer

Not weird but it is kinda morally wrong

BobbyLee789 · Answer

It happens very often

Anonymous · Answer

Gross and weird. It screams daddy issues.

eagle1951 · Answer

to each his own

alice55 · Answer

It's common

Anonymous · Answer

Can't help you there as I'm not 50

Anonymous · Answer

If you are 27, then yes. It's weird af

Miah06 · Answer

A little.

AydenHazor · Answer

To each their own

In_Trance · Answer

no it isn't

xyzguy1296 · Answer

No , nope

ThebestIndian · Answer

I don’t think sos.

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