Does he like me if he kissed me and met my mom and all the extra stuff but his dad recently died and he said he's mixed up and scared to commit rn?

[that1_senior]

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okay so to update like i never said i liked him but we were just hanging out and he kissed me I don't know how to take it and if he actually likes me. Im a little confused and im not rushing him or nothing ik he js lost his dad.

[ohsheeT]

Ok so this is a good learning experience for you. There are going to be guys coming in and out of your life any thing something. in this world will be going on with them always no matter what and if he's a good talker. And then he kisses one day and you get butterfly's and you start thinking well that boy kissed me that means he like s me and the next time you see him your both happy and your having fun

He kisses you again and you think he must really like me .. then he kisses you again but this time you start making out and he starts to touch you and you never felt that before

And if he know what he's doing and he makes it all about you and he really know how to touch your going to feel somethingnyou have never felt before and your going to think thus is what it's like to be in love your going to feel as if your a women and he is a man because this is what adults do and in that moment he's getting undressed he's undressing you and everything is going so fast you don't want to tell him to stop,

because your afraid that will push away so you let him make love to you and he's only going last 2 to 5 min and be finished. And roll off of you and your going be thinking what's going on is that it your kidding

But you don't say any thing. Because you just became a women in your eyes then the night ends and you don't see him again fir 4 or 5 days. And you are so happy to see him but he's not like he was all the other times. He's a little distant . A little cold. And he says he has to go you say OK

You start thinking of everything and you think we'll he must be sad because of his problems so you let it go. 3 days pasts and you she him but he's walking with another girl your heart falls to your feet and you think it can be true because he made you feel like your the only one in the world a week goes by and you see the girl he was with and you want to say something but she looks sad hr later you see the guy again but he walking with another girl ur heart breaks again ..

What do you think the learning experience is
Everything we do in life is trying to teach us SOMETHING. So think and learn before it happens. So you don't go through a broken heart or feel the pain you would if it happen

If a guy truly like you you can tell him no 10 times and on the 11th time he will still be there for you because he is real. If a guy begs you or try to until you give in it's not going to last

Remember no matter what a boy tell you no matter how many times he love you
You are the boss of you and your body no one touches you unless you say OK.. and no condom no sex because since it is your body if you get pregnant it's your baby because 995 out of 1000 are not going to be there for you⁹

[Summeroflove]

Communicate and be there for him let him get through the grief and see where the relationship goes. Most people don’t kiss if they aren’t attracted. Communicate and be there for him for the time being. If a while passes and he still isn’t sure then maybe keep him as a friend and start moving on.

[Abbycado]

Are you serious? He lost a parent ffs. I’m not that much older and can understand what he might be going through and I have both my parents.

You're selfish.

[that1_senior]

i never asked for commitment, and i literally said i would be there for him as a friend, i know he's going through stuff on his own, but im just confused as to why he kissed me.

[PeachyPie93]

I wouldn't worry about if he likes you or not. I personally would find someone else. Anyone who pulls away in a crisis will not make a good partner.

[Staximus]

Sounds like two confused kids with a fear of emotional intimacy in denial of their feelings who don't know what the hell they want. Typical Gen z retards

[trumpetplayerforlife]

Just be there as a friend right now and when he's feeling better maybe something will happen

[Pterodon]

No. Anything but a firm yes is a no. I’m sorry

[In_Trance]

Give it time there's no reason to rush

[zombiewoof]

Just be there for him, he is not himself currently