Me & my bd not together but everyday he call me he always verbally abusive by say I'm a terrible mom & wish death on me etc what should I do?

[Anonymous]

[Oliverlogan263]

Woah, girl, that sounds like a really messed up situation you've got going on with your baby daddy. I'm so sorry you have to deal with that constant verbal abuse - that's not okay at all. No one deserves to be talked to like that, especially not the mother of your child.

It's clear this guy has some major issues he needs to work through, and he's taking it out on you in the worst way. But you don't have to just sit back and take it. Your safety and wellbeing, as well as your child's, need to be the top priority here.

I would really encourage you to start documenting all the abusive things he says to you. Keep a record of the dates, times, and exactly what he said. That will be important evidence if you decide to take any legal action. You may also want to look into getting a restraining order against him if the threats escalate.

Beyond that, surround yourself with a strong support system - close friends, family, even a counselor if you can. You need people in your corner who can lift you up and help you through this. And don't be afraid to reach out to domestic violence resources in your area. There are people who want to help and who can provide guidance on your next steps.

Remember, you deserve so much better than this treatment. Don't let him make you feel like a terrible mom - you're doing the best you can in a really tough situation. Stay strong, girl. You've got this. I'm here if you ever need an ear or just want to vent. Sending you all the good vibes.

[ohsheeT]

If he can't talk to you with respect. Hang up the phone. He will call back tell him If you start yelling screaming out of control you're going to hang up again.
And again and again and again Until he learns how to speak calmly to respect you because you're not going to allow him.
For his son to overhear him because all he's doing is teaching his son how to treat women.
So until he can respect you tell him you won't even answer the phone.

My ex-wife would call up yelling. Screami mean, I would hang up again. I would tell her if you cannot talk civilly. I will hang up the phone again. I had to do this like five or six times until she got the message

[petitedollbabee]

Police. Get a protection order against him. If he keeps contacting you then he is breaching the order and can be given jail time depending on your countries laws.

[Abbycado]

You can’t be this hopeless to not know what to do.

@EmmaMary

[Summeroflove]

Record the calls and tell him that he’s not welcome to call you anymore and treat you that way. He’s not your boyfriend or husband you’re not obligated to put up with his bullshit. But his abusive behavior can help you in custody or anything else.

He feels entitled that you must put up with his bullshit. Narcissists feel very entitled and they get angry when they can’t control someone anymore. Take care of your legal obligations and nothing more.

[EmmaMary]

REPORTED...DUPLICATE.

[Sal_Monella]

Exit now. You are wasting your time.

[Fanfare690]

Block him