Thinking about turning to women after getting hurt after my first date … should I?

[Chelsdope0]

I feel like all men do is pick other women over me…last one liked trans and I wasn’t aware

[SteveSmith1985]

I don't think you can choose to turn to women... unless you are also (or exclusively) attracted to women. So if you are attracted to women, then there is no harm at all in giving that a shot. If you aren't into women... then I don't think you're going to end up being very happy/satisfied. It totally depends on how you feel about women; romantically and/or sexually.

[Chelsdope0]

I just want the attention. Studs seem cool I don't know

[strateguy632]

That is generalized. And if you are not attracted to a certain gal, then just dodging hurt is silly. Find someone else don't reject all men. Many gals around 30, got hurt by a new generation guy same age, so they run to me old fashioned guy age 50.

[nawtee_me]

Do what you want but don’t blame “all men” for choosing other girls over you. At some point there has to be a reason why? If one person tells me that I have a tail I think it is them, but if everyone tells me I have a tail then I need to look at myself to see.
Why is it for some people it is easier to blame others than it is to look at themself as being at least part of the problem?

[LK759x]

This seems to be a common narrative that people are following when they are hurt in some capacity. I'm not sure if it's because of a self comfort reason, or some kind of trauma received from a bad experience. So here's my reverse ask: What exactly is your internal reasoning for turning to women beyond "Thinking about doing so after getting hurt after my first date"?

[Chelsdope0]

I don't know studs seem better and they may understand you better.

[DannyUk2017]

Trust me! Stay single for a while! Your "train" will come in to your "station" when least expected! Stop rushing, stop becoming desperate, you'll end up making bad choices, that you'll regret even more, later.

[BadApple69]

Men can be jerks at times but all men are not created equal. Give other men a chance…. Although I think women are pretty good to date.

[Chelsdope0]

I think I’m done

[BadApple69]

Date women because you want to date women…. Don’t date them because men suck. All men don’t suck….

[DCVsMarvel2]

And so would this be you being "gay for pay", or are you truly actually a bi hetero scumbag

[Chelsdope0]

I don't know lol

[DCVsMarvel2]

STFU

[Chelsdope0]

Save The Funfetti Unicorns

[DCVsMarvel2]

shut the f- up

[Chelsdope0]

Fudge?

[DCVsMarvel2]

fruitcake

[msc545]

I mean you could try it and see if it makes you feel better or if you enjoy it. Nothing wrong with trying something. I'm not sure that you will experience less rejection, but let's hope so.

[ohsheeT]

What ever makes you happy

[Amur8711]

Not all men are that way, it may be the guy your attracted too, maybe try a guy a bit different from your normal.

[David318578]

How did you get hurt after a first date?