Guys, would you date a woman who's masculine?

Question

Like a tomboy or a stud.

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

In a heartbeat. That has always been my dream. When I was in college I was part of group of skiers. Two of my friends were dating girls who could ski with us guys. They were nice looking. Fit. Athletic. But not gorgeous. Not girly girl Barbies. But to me they were hot as hell. They were laid back but confident. And when I say they could ski with us. I mean they were as good or better than all the guys I skied with. Damn I lusted after them for that.

Fast forward and as I aged more and more people got caught up in work and families and their bodies aged. So I ended up skiing alone a lot of the time. The women I dated and the one I married didn't have anywhere near that level of physical talent or the tolerance for the risk or the enjoyment of the speed.

What I would have given to meet one woman who could have joined me on a mountain during the day. Come back and shower up. Have dinner at the lodge restaurant. Have a drink in a leather chair in front of a fireplace. Fuck our brains out. Then get up and do it all over again.

Sadly, I've never met her. She's a rare breed.

Finchie40 · Accepted Answer

Not anymore , I did once and I realized I prefer a feminine female over a masculine one ,
Mainly because feminine females’ are more respectful and submissive and they like dressing sexier. Masculine women are better off dating a Simp , a guy she can control

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

It depends on in which ways and how strongly. My first crush was also my first best friend. She was a bit of a tomboy. She outgrew some of the traits that made her tomboyish, and my affinity for her didn’t change much.

SteveSmith1985 · Answer

No, I can't really say that I would. I'm not gonna lie. If a woman (looks or personality) can be described as "masculine" then I am not likely to find her attractive.

HawkPerception · Answer

Nope not into those types. I prefer a feminine girl that's a sub in the bedroom especially. Different strokes for different folks though

MrOracle · Answer

A tomboy can be feminine, but a masculine, boss-babe cannot. I only date feminine women, and only ever have.

AviatorTom · Answer

I've dated several women with masculine features and tendencies. I prefer feminine women more but dating should be an interesting eperience.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Masculine? No, but I'd date a tomboy woman. A tomboy isn't masculine, its just an old outdated term for a woman who likes activities or subjects that "normally only men like". It has no relation to appearance.

Since that stereotype of "only men like _____(video games, cars, sports, science, tech, bugs, etc)" is no longer commonplace, tomboy isn't a useful term anymore, as its just expected that men and women can have the same hobbies, tools, goals, and interests.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Tomboys are still feminine. Some even more so than the overtly girly counter parts. If anything, they tend to be easier going and far more down to earth and helpful. They just like doing “guy things” is all. An ex of mine was a tomboy but she was still every bit (as she put it), “still a girl”. Very much she was. She was not remotely “masculine” in the least.

As far as a woman being masculine in her nature, that doesn’t appeal to me. As far as I can tell I do not attract those sorts of women anyway.

Anonymous · Answer

If a girl is tomboyish, that doesn't mean that she is ugly.

I know lots of attractive girls who are tomboyish.

Masculine and feminine are just a social construct.

People often mistake butch for a tomboy.

Butchy woman is an unattractive woman who looks like a man.

Tomboy is a girl or young woman who exhibits traits typically associated with boys, such as wearing unfeminine clothing and engaging in physical activities or sports, in short - it's a girl who enjoys things some people think are more suited to boys.

https://www.dictionary.com/browse/tomboy

https://www.vocabulary.com/dictionary/tomboy

Would I date a tomboyish girl? Yes I would.

wysiwyg2525 · Answer

I oerfer it for many reason. Most feminine women are too lazy and boring. A woman who is masculine are not afraid to go hiking, camping, play in the dirt, and have fun. They dont have to spend hours to get ready and they are not picky. They enjoy life and can relate to a guy better.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Answer

no why? Because they tend to be very argumentative. I accept no drama or conflict in my life. I'll happily discuss any subject but the moment a partner gets heated over some minor issue I'm out.

That 100% includes political and or social issues.

MisterWack · Answer

I have a girlfriend who isn’t, though I will say when you love someone you love someone and it shouldn’t matter stereotype or whatever. You love who you love, as long as it’s consensual, to everyone’s comfort in mind, and healthy then I see nothing wrong with it.

Date who you are into and may it bring you happiness, a family, and prosperity whatever that means to you.

Zack-Bann · Answer

There’s a difference between tomboy and masculine stud

I would date a tomboy woman. As in a woman who enjoys all the guy stuff
But she still has to be a woman underneath

Not masculine in a way where she can be confused for a man

dragoblack · Answer

Yep. Tomboys are more chill, communicate, are honest about their intentions, and less bullshite; compared super feminine women who play mind games, manipulate, jump to assumptions, are super toxic, lack self-awareness, and lack emotional intelligence & maturity.

Anonymous · Answer

I have dated tomboyish women and I don't consider them to be masculine. Now a lady who would be a "butch" type of woman I would not find attractive. No judgement, but I just wouldn't find it attractive myself.

Shiprex · Answer

Perhaps I would. It would be interesting but as long as she still had feminine traits that could be teased out as that would be an interesting challenge

Levin · Answer

Nah  Prefer someone submissive who I can fuck senseless.

mrkdvsn · Answer

Way back during my "dating" years, I would have been very open about "dating" a large variety of different types of females. (skin colors, girly vs tomboyish, tall vs short...)

NotLongKindaGirthy · Answer

Depends on how masculine. Would I date a woman with short hair? Yes. Would I date a woman with a penis? No.

exitseven · Answer

My ex girlfriend was the starting quarterback for a women's semi pro football team. this was a long time ago before it was popular.

nawtee_me · Answer

A masculine looking person assigned female at birth... yes. some guy thinking just because he changes the way the plumbing looks he is a girl... NO!

robocop666 · Answer

most men like that thats why there is a style of sex worker called a session wrestler  Marina Redstar

blackeagle007 · Answer

Tomboy? Depends on the female. There cute females, really cool that are tomboy. But how can a female be a stud?

Blackcat1952 · Answer

I actually have a female friend who's a masculine, I wouldn't I don't think you would either she has SeX all of the time

AndrésC64 · Answer

I love tomboys. I'd take a tomboy over a girly girl on any day.

Vick2828 · Answer

Noooooo!!! I'm tired of masculine women. They are so annoying.

Guanfei · Answer

Probably not, I prefer women feminine. But it's a possibility and I'm never closing a door.

Anonymous · Answer

Im not really attracted to masculine traits. I’d actually be more likely to date an ultra feminine transsexual than a Tom girl.

Anonymous · Answer

H3ll Fv<k! ng No!!! Total turn off for me!!!

Godihateyou · Answer

No, but id let her fuck the shit out of me on the down low

molonski2 · Answer

No not a Tom , no way , just not attractive.

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