I wouldn’t say, it’s a dal killer but a girl with very skinny lips bothers me besides the idea of the huge large nose
like Tina Fey-thin lips?
or like Emma Watson-thin?
skinny legs and a flat butt. Sorry men like a woman who can squat.
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Anything artificial. Tattoos, piercings, implants, botox, fillers, etc. I'd much rather an all-natural girl with some body flaws (which almost everyone has) than a plastic Barbie or a tatted up chic. Femininity is critical.
I think some tattoos are fine.
Agreed. My only exception is classic earrings.
@clampfan101
what about a woman who never wears earrings at all?
How 'bout a natural slobbette like Lizzo?
I’m perfectly fine with that too.
Fake boobs.
Anything artificial... tattoos, piercings (other than some nice dangling earrings on the earlobe, everything else is a turn off), big nose, flat nose, flat ass, muscles (I prefer soft, feminine looking women).
fair enough
Tattoos, bad teeth, bad hygiene, nubs where fingernails have been chewed off, facial hair beyond a closely trimmed beard, skinny jeans or bad fashion in general, long hair, any piercings, and smoker is a definite deal breaker.
Too much make up , small boobs , big ass doesn’t care Too much about her appearance, bad hygiene, to name a few lol
I don't like tattoos and piercings. One or two small tattoos and pierced ears are fine, anything else does not excite me.
Hmm. In general I try not to judge people by appearance too much. And I don't really have set rules in what I do and don't find attractive. But if I were to pick a few... and be aware, I don't judge people's character on this, just preferences...
Vitiligo. Don't know if it's actually popular or if only a small minority is praising it, but I do not find it attractive, like at all. Especially on the face.
Rosy cheeks. My reasons for this one are sort of oddly specific and personal. But rosy cheeks remind me of sunburns, that's one of the reasons. They're also associated with anger, embarrassment, acne, etc.
A loooooot of skin "imperfections" like moles, skin tags (especially), freckles, acne, warts, etc. Almost everyone has them to some extent, but if literally every inch of your body is covered in them then I'm likely turned off.
Tattoos and piercings can also be added to the list, but it also depends on the specific tattoos and piercings. Some actually look pretty cool. Others are not cool at all, lol.
I also don't like really short hair, like buzzcuts or whatever. Some volume/fluff in hair is appreciated.
And yeah... that's more or less about it that I can think of. Hope I didn't offend anyone who happens to have these features.
It doesn't matter. No one should be offended because of someone else's preferences. Even though I'm sure some people are. Those people should not take those kinds of things to heart. There's a reason for the saying that beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
what is vitiligo?
@MrGrimfate Yes! 100%! The reason I feel the need to phrase it like that is because humans in general are extremely sensitive and when they feel "called out" they can get aggressive.
Not even just a thing with the new younger generations. Even back in my parents' days they say that almost nobody responded well to criticism.
They weren't offended by using certain words that could get you cancelled, but like a guy my dad knew drank several bottles of coke cola and whisky every day, and smoked several packs of cigarettes, and was complaining about his health, and when my dad mentioned it might be due to his bad habits he got borderline violent towards my dad. And it happened with several people, not just a one-off.
But yeah. People are sensitive and easily offended. Always have, currently are, and always will be.
Ah. So it's basically a condition that causes discoloration in the skin, where the skin loses its pigment and becomes lighter, and so you are left with a ton of lighter blotches all over your body. Those lighter blotches can become sunburned SUPER easily, so best to take care of them properly.
It shows up more explicitly on Black people/people with dark skin in general, though White people/people with light skin can still have it.
You've most likely seen it at least some point of your life, be it real life or online or on TV or whatever, though you obviously didn't know what it was called.
ah. got it, yes i know what that is
m I don't find weight or anything "completely unattractive" IF I relate to the girl.
That said, I had one terrible case of complete un-attraction, physically speaking, awful because I was really attracted to her, physique aside. I wouldn't like to experience this situation again, and I'm taking precautions to avoid this scenario 😬. It was her face, she had a very visible asymmetrical face, distortions like the ones you see when you take a selfie at close range. Except it was her natural face. Mother nature is unfair.
Omg🤣🤣
like cross-eyed you mean or something?
so you liked her but you’re not attracted to her so friends?
Weight is the biggie (pun intended).
But fitness is also high on my list. If you're all flab and no muscle you're probably a couch potato with no discipline.
Being disproportionate is also a deal breaker. Huge boobs on a tiny woman. No boobs on a 5'8" woman with a stocky body. No neck. Stocky body with chicken legs.
Tattoo's aren't a favorite of mine. Tramp stamps were so named for a reason.
Bad hairstyles for the person's face or no particular hairstyle at all, the homeless look, LOL.
Too hairy, gaped teeth, long nails, uncircumcised, wears ugly shoes, dresses dorky, ugly noses, bum chins, long hair past shoulders, loads of tattoos especially on face or neck, massive ear gauges, nipple piercings, too fat that you need a scooter or walker, hairy hands that is really noticeable, too skinny of legs, flat asses, too muscly..
good list
Thanks :D
@MrGrimfate I don't really care tho.. plenty of guys are circumcised and are fine.. and no they aren't jews LOL I also would circumcise my sons if I had any. You do know there are also guys who's foreskin is too tight and later need to get it cut off.. so its better to do it when they are a baby and will never remember the pain.
agree
and for the record, it is perfectly fine for lack of circumcision to be a turnoff.
@PeachyPie93 its more likely for a baby boy to die during a circumcision than it is for him to ever need a circumcision later in life. Thank god you dont have kids. Risking their life over a sexual preference of your own is wild
@Apple1996 EVERY Muslim boy gets circumcised.. do you know how many Muslims are in the world? Billions.. So clearly not many die from a circumcision. The only way they would die is negligence on the parents side of not making sure its not bleeding or having an infection. Also my children being circumcised has nothing to do with my sexual preferences. I just want my kids to look the best they possibly can.. because foreskin is disgusting in all ways plus I wouldn't want to have to give them a bath every time they shit in a diaper because I don't want to have to mess around to clean their dick or risk them getting an infection. You can have fun doing that with all your boys but that's not for me.. Keep your decisions to yourself because you don't know much besides the phony bs you read on the interwebs..
What's a bum chin?
@Aakash_Hangargi When their chin has a dent in the middle and it looks like a bum/ass lol
its not difficult to care for an uncircumcised boy at all. The foreskin is actually still fused to the glans, and its impossible for anything to get under there. You can't (and shouldn't) retract the foreskin until well after a boy is potty trained. all you have to do is clean externally, like you would with any other boy.
@matchrestore That's nice but I am not here to talk about this.. this is a question about what we find unattractive.. it's not a question about everyone's views on circumcision. If you don't like circumcision then don't do it, but do not try to tell me what to do.
i was just responding to your comment about needing to bath a kid after every diaper change.
@matchrestore Yeah but every comment has been about this, and its getting annoying now because I generally don't care and most likely won't have boys anyways lol
Tattoos, piercings, gauges, promiscuity and corrupt moral values, having no moral worldview bigger than herself and just whatever makes her happy that day is the "truth" she lives by. Absolute truth comes from something bigger than you.
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An expressionless face.
If all their pictures are just dull, dead stares, I'm out.
agree
@Theodish_Warrior
you’re unable to smile?
honestly who cares. it could look creepy if you forced it.
i think expression/personality is a little more nuanced
i have very few deal breakers but there are definitely things that turn me off. If you're circumcised you better check a lot of boxes in the positive column. Same with excessive tattooing (especially if the tattoos aren't part of a cohesive design. More than one or two facial piercings. Yellow teeth.
big beards, being noticeably shorter than me, more than slight balding, chest hair, back hair, moles with hair on them, rotting teeth, missing teeth, very narrow shoulders, birdlike ossature, very fluffy long eyebrows, unibrows, very strange haircuts, nose hairs, ear hair, recessed chin, huge nose, mustacheless beard, very strange fashion styles
What do you mean "besides weight"? Weight is mandatory. Lack of weight is a dealbreaker.
So is a weak chin, contact lenses, hating cats, eating chicken, or religion.
But usually the first concern is NO SKINNY GIRLS. Only small-dicked guys like rakes.
okay. i stand corrected
most men and women would tell you overweight/obesity is a turnoff. so i thought i would level-set.
apparently my presumption was off
It's a weird thing for me, but chipped nail polish, or short nails with nail polish.. Especially if it's red.. I don't know why red (in tersm of polish) is such a popular color.. It's hideous to me.. Even if she's the finest woman, she loses points for that.. But at course also bad hygiene, and a flat booty..
Stubbornness, selfishness , hate, bitterness
Jealousy!!!
Oops.. these don’t qualify for physical attributes but to be honest, the attributes I mentioned far exceed any physical attributes I find unattractive
that’s fair
Too many tattoos, or too big.
Anything obviously fake, like surgeries, lip filling and such. I don't mind much if you do these, but at least make it look natural.
Any disgusting physical deformity. Sorry I know it's not your fault and you don't deserve it, but some things are hard to look at, even with all the love in the world.
It's a sad fact of life that we are programmed biologically to look for healthy partners. Deformities are a sign of not being healthy. This is one of mother nature's cruel tricks. People who are born with them are completely not responsible for what they were given. Just his people who are not attracted to deformities didn't choose to be that way.
Big fat lips and big fat ass that a lot of women pay money to get. Goofy and malformed looking.
Agreed there is absolutely a thing as too much ass. And in my personal opinion there's a thing is too much boob. There are definitely a lot of guys who prefer much more moderately sized boobs or even small perky boobs.
@MrGrimfate Definitely, not far back we all knew what a hot woman looked like. She sure didn't have a fat deformed ass and fish lips. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SoHpSY3IoAI
Creepy feet. Definitely if the feet are gnarly looking that's a big turn off. Also hygiene is a big must. If you want me to put my tongue on it and you've been at work sweating all day had the decency to give it a rinse first I'll wait I promise. I certainly wouldn't expect you to put your mouth on my private parts of I've been at work all day sweating balls without giving it a rinse first.
Men that shave any part of their body including their face. They need to have something at least a mustache for me to be interested
When they give off the far left liberal holier than though attitude, being a real "Karen", let me speak to the manager." Bullshit.
Forcing their horseshit beliefs on absolutely everyone.
okay. the question was meant much more superficially, though. just off of looks
You realize that none of those are physical features right?
Unless you are obese, it doesn't matter. Most men aren't looking to date a pentathalete
If you are intelligent, interesting and articulate, then you are good to go.
Geez... this thread collapsed quickly.
Hygiene is an important part of life that a lot of people neglect.
Making sure that you are clean from showering, oral hygiene, clothing, house cleaning. These are but a few essentials.
Nothing I think every part of a female is beautiful. However dirty or stank body parts is unattractive
What's the difference between dirty and stank?
Smell and appearance. Please tell me you learned the five senses.
Skin has to be clear. No freckles, moles, discolored, acne, etc.
oh freckles? interesting
I don't make the rules. 😜
A girl in high school thought it was cute that I had dimples.
Freckles are okay if they're in the right amount. Full body freckles not for me.
Indeed I do. It's the foundation of our species success!
tattos, holes and rings in weird places like nose.
manly hands or feet.
Totally agree mainly hands and feet are a big turn off. Girls I understand this is outside of your control.
Entitlement is one of the most obnoxious traits anyone can exhibit
That's not a physical trait though
it sure isn’t
The question was for physical features. I think we've gotten off track.
Bad skin
Bad teeth
Body modifications
Excessive makeup
When women do stupid shit to their face, like those dumb injections that make their face look like it was stung by a bee. Or those fake asses
Agreed. Be stung lips are absurd and silly looking.
I agree with @paige90 and don't like bad teeth. Also body odor.
Bad skin.
Bad teeth.
Excessive body hair.
Extra nipples.
Bad hair, ugly tattoos, poor hygiene, obesity, stupidity, MAGA politics.
the last two 😂
A bad attitude has a lot for me to make them unattractive.
Lady moustaches, too many piercings, too many tattoos. Dressed sloppily
lip fillers and although not a physical feature because it can be easily removed when they cake the makeup on to the point of looking plastic.
Anything which is out of proportion is annoying and unattractive.
Wonky teeth, bad hygiene and the worst one of all is ugly feet! Especially when they think that false toenails will disguise them!
LMAO.
wrong attitude, too much non sense talker, egoistic, think like a queen.
not physical attributes though
right? that’s what i said, too
@DreamCrescent short height, melon size boobs, big belly, very thick thighs, veiny hands.
veiny hands 😂
u Bad complexion.
as in she looks like she’s spent too much time in the sun during her lifetime or as in she looks like she could use a facial and a regimented skincare routine?
Tats, piercings (nose ring), dirty hands!!
Tattoos. Prefer natural.
Soft features on men.
I get that. I don't like really square manly jaws on women.
The lack of hygiene
Tattoos and plastic surgery.
Bad teeth
agree with you.
the topic of circumcision has brought out awful hostility out of some, yikes. oh boy
Implants/big tatas
Certain piercings
A good smile makes all the difference.
No boobs, HUGE buns.
You don't find Beardo attractive?
you’re asking me personally?
i think beards are fine. i prefer some facial hair myself, but not too grown out
the consensus from what girls said is overgrown/unkempt beards and hair are a turnoff. i agree
i did notice that trimmed or tidy facial hair was fine, too, according to the women who responded. it’s not like everyone voted for a clean shave, it’s really that the vote was against the messy look
Moles on faces.
Cindy Crawford? 😲
Rotting teeth, tattoos
Tattoos are a big turn off for me
Bad teeth. An under bite can be unattractive.
Plastic tits and lips 💋
Matching eyebrows
Let tats above the knee.
Piercings, tattoos, and hair dye
Unkempt looking.
Fake boobs.
Bad Teeth.
Wrinkles
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