Do you think it's a waste of everybody's time to date married men?

[Anonymous]

I do for various reasons but was wondering about the reasons other people had for why they won't date married men. Would our reasons line up?

[Screenwriter]

Well, if you don't want to get too involved with a man and it's for sex, not a relationship, a married man could be an OK choice.

Also, if you don't want to spend holidays with him because he'd be with his family and friends, and you don't want to meet his family or friends, then this could be ideal too.

And, if you don't want anyone to know you're in a relationship with this guy, and you like meeting in places where his family, co-workers and friends never go, this could also be "mysterious." Maybe you enjoy sneaking around. It could be exciting.

So, if you prefer very limited interactions with a man who you won't be able to rely upon or call on when you need help, have an emergency or need emotional support, or simply someone to chat with, then a married man, or, in other words, a man who's not easily available physically, emotionally, casually or socially, then a married man fits those limitations.

It's not a waste of HIS time. But it certainly is a waste of yours.

[PeachyPie93]

WTF is this question? How is it not a waste of time to date a married guy? LOL A) He is most likely not gonna leave his wife and kids for YOU, regardless of whatever bullshit he tells you. B) If he is willing to sleep with you it's highly likely that he would sleep with others as well. C) He honestly can't have that much time or attention for you since he has a whole other family. So what do you gain besides him giving you a bit of feeling desired and being a cum dumpster for him? Unless you are a sugar baby getting money from old cocks and I would assume that is even more disappointing because they don't even have to pretend to love you since its transactional and you have to fuck old guys hahaha.

[Anonymous]

There are just so many things wrong with this question.

Why would you think it was worth your time to date someone who's already married, in the first place? I'm more surprised that you even thought it would be?

Who looks at a married man and says, "Yes, I totally see a future with him. It's not as if he's already taken, and thus completely unavailable. Nothing could possibly go wrong, here."

[SteveSmith1985]

It's worse than a waste of everybody's time. But it's shocking that you think there could possibly be a future, in dating married guys. That's... not where you're gonna find a guy who isn't "wasting your time." This is an insane question.

[Nikki1989]

Well, he is married.

[Asker]

LMAO xD

[Shiprex]

They're not really meant to be dating so in doing so you'd be encouraging dishonesty and that kind of thing will bite you back in the long run

[Anonymous]

You are helping someone cheat, he's not yours, most the time they don't leave their wives and being a knowing participant makes yiu just as bad as the married person in my opinion

[In_Trance]

Nothing is a waste of time if you're learning a lesson

[jazzy34]

Find someone single.

[dudeinohio]

Exactly!

[jahaims]

Lmfao trash