Do you agree dating is pointless?

[Arthur8]

It is too superficial.

Agree 💯

Disagree 👎

[ChrisMaster69]

Totally disagree.

also this thing of turning dating in to a cash thing, just shows how shallow some people are.

You like someone, you ask them on a date, it could be a walk in park, picnic, cinema, meet for coffee, etc, the costs can be really small.

you start learning to date around 13-14, where money is not even a thing.

the rest as per @NathanDavis

i guess it’s no wonder people remain single or fail at dating, it’s simply £$ to them, they miss out the real reasons.

[Wsx2wsx2ws]

YEs kind of. The more I experience and the older I get I grow stronger belifs in arranged marriages.
The stupid factor grows exponentially when two people doped on pheromones and goofoids act out of character intoxicated and think they are being sane and making wise decisions. Tada look at how wonderful our relation ship is... what went wrong, everyone is crazy... Why does no one love me.. yep. Pointless.

[LazerBean]

I agree that it's pointless unless it is used as a means to actively find a marriage partner.

[Adaeva]

Of course it is not pointless. How will learn what I like in boys if I don't date?

[NathanDavis]

I disagree...

I am not pointless and I am not superficial... nor are the people I get involved with

if you take responsibility... then your dating will be what you make of it

[Nads111]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

All the women saying no... yeah, it isn’t pointless for you all. You are the ones who get free drinks, food, attention, everything is catered to you, you make all the choices and decisions and call the shots sexually.

Dating is absolutely pointless for men. We get to spend all the money and time and don’t get anything in return most of the time.

it’s quicker and easier to just get a whore.

[Nads111]

If all you care about is sex, then yes, dating would be pointless for you. A lot of people are dating for other reasons.

[Opinion Owner]

@Nads111 Women date for other reasons.
Generally, Men’s soul reason for dating is to get pussy. The rest is a bi product

[Nads111]

Well i've only dated guys who were looking for serious relationships so 🤷‍♀️ ..

[Opinion Owner]

@Nads111 And yet they didn’t last... or you wouldn’t have said “all the guys”
Guys will tell you whatever they have to in order to get pussy.

[Nads111]

@Nads111 I ended them because of compatibility issues. I've only dated religious guys so it's a bit different. Didn't do anything before marriage. I'm aware there's guys who are just out there to hit and run lol but that just wasn't my experiences.. Anyway good chat : )

[scott04sa22]

My last date canceled our date so she can play on her new Xbox all day. Yes is now pointless now. Move on with your life

[Nads111]

What would you rather do?

[Arthur8]

Um just stay single. A girl won’t make you happy it is something I’ve begun to realise

[Nads111]

Oh trust me I've had the exact same thoughts.. You just haven't found the right person yet : )

[Arthur8]

I don’t think so. Right person isn’t something that exists. Dating is just shallow, sure you need to be nice. But it’s all about looks and other superficial things

[Nads111]

I'm currently dating someone now and it's really not all about looks and superficial things.. in the beginning yes it starts with physical attraction.. but then you see that you share common interests, they begin to understand you and have a genuine interest in you and you just vibe and feel happy around eachother and start forming a bond.. you gonna have to go through a lot of crappy dates to get there tho.. lol don't give up.

[Arthur8]

They say you shouldn’t look for love. Just keep meeting new people. But I just don’t think there’s a good girl out there for me. I’ve never met one

[Nads111]

You will meet one, one day 💜

[Slartybartfast]

I'd rather eat glass, it's cheaper and less damaging.

[Nads111]

@Slartybartfast lol, you do whatever makes you happy..

[Anonymous]

No, dating is a lot of fun.

[Arthur8]

For a woman it would be, like guys paying for you

[Slartybartfast]

Foir guys it's like a job interview you have to pay for.

[MCheetah]

Pretty much.