It’s not worth it
90% of people are shallow to a certain extent. Most people who complain about other people being shallow, are actually also shallow themselves. By evolution, humans are designed to be shallow. Younger people will always look better than older people. Rich people will always be more attractive than poor people. People who cannot get their desired partners are the only ones who tend to complain about shallowness. Good looking people can afford to be shallow while the unattractive ones cannot afford to do so.
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Dating is always shallow on the front end. It is difficult to find serious people when it comes to dating and securing permanent relationship. They are out there, somewhere as it only takes one ☝️…
The action of dating is not shallow however I would say that the dating pool is now filled with shallow people both male and female
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Dating is like finding a needle in a haystack…. If you are dating just to date then you’re not gonna have much luck. However at the end of the day I think a lot of people end up disappointed because they are not doing anything to make themselves attractive to the kind of people they are trying to attract.
I think it is too shallow but still worth It in the end when you find your person that loves you for you.
Yes, and women, being the gatekeepers of dating and relationships, are to blame. Men have little power, if any, when it comes to dating.
Shallow in terms of standards? Then yeah, girls want a man that's straight out of chick flick movie, guys want a woman that's a submissive maid. It's all ridiculous.
If it's not used as a means to carefully find a permanent partner, definitely.
Yeah most definitely.. I don't like dating really.. But I'm single and I love women so... Yeah..
As an onlooker, yeah, it seems incredibly shallow. Not the act of courtship per se, but people themselves gamifying the act and screwing around instead of taking it seriously. Most people I see seem to take things for granted, including dating.
Yes, too many people are high maintenance or set their standards too high when it comes to dating
It start shallow, but you actually get somewhere it shouldn't remain shallow.
Yeah, but that's people for you. All they want to hear is the 10 second sound bite and then they're moving on to somebody else. So many people hide who they are and sell who they think you want anyhow. It's all one big s*** show. 🤣
Dating strangers, yes.
Dating someone you have know for a while, and you developed feelings for, no.Nope, because it's one of the way to build a good and healthy relationship with a person mentally, and physically. To know a person better, etc. To see how far can the relationship goes, to make better decision.
Okay if it's too shallow what would you suggest is a replacement for humans we need to meet each other to reproduce
It's only as shallow as you make it. And if it's "not worth it" for you, then don't do it and be happy without it.
As opposed to what? Parent-arranged marriages?
I don't know about "shallow" but it's definitely not worth the time and the effort.
Unless you are older and looking for someone to marry, it is meaningless.
do you know of a better way to "get to know" someone?
Not at all. I'm just lazy when it comes to that.
Yes its shallow and it corrupts peoples souls. So its really hard to find my one and only soulmate
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