Why do people schedule dates so they can ghost?

[Anonymous]

I have seen this pattern of men who just keep saying they want to see you, but then the day before or the day of the meetup, they just completely ghost. Its just shocking to realize how INDECENT and immature some people can be.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like dating app drama which are breeding grounds for people like that.


They want to be with someone so bad yet scared of taking the steps to actually commit.


Afraid of relationships afraid of marriage, we live in a generation where dating apps are full of people who are scarred by trauma and fear.

[Asker]

this has nothing to do with commitment. Its just meeting up for the first time.

[Opinion Owner]

It has everything to do with commitment. That’s the plan eventually isn’t? Otherwise what’s the point of going on a date if there’s no intention going forward? Casual sex?

[Fanfare690]

I bet you they won't flake for casual sex!

[Opinion Owner]

@fanfare690 oh you know they won’t miss that! Lmao

[PeachyPie93]

They are only interested in sex and not actually having to date and get to know you. Don't use dating apps.. they're full of garbage no one wants lol..

[Asker]

Where do you go to meet men?

[PeachyPie93]

Guys will come up to me when I am out shopping or getting coffee.. You just have to be friendly and not shy. Also friends of friends are always a good choice.

[Asker]

I have no idea where you live but thats pretty uncommon where I live in NYC. People don't even make eye contact here.

[PeachyPie93]

Oh you live in NYC.. Every guy I ever spoke to online that was from there were lying assholes, so it seems you got things harder. I live in a small city in Canada tho used to live in Birmingham UK and guys would come up to me when out by myself as well.. I guess it depends on the city..

[Anonymous]

Probably for the same reason women respond with a sentence or two to men then ghost them.

Bothe genders have thier games. Your genders just happens much sooner and is more frequent. Our genders happens much later. Because it wouldn't work to do it earlier.

[OneViewpoint]

Stop trying to hookup online.

[Anonymous]

Some people suck.