Why can't girls say what they think or want?

[TOQGYDL]

This post is just me venting.

Why do all the girls over Tinder ghost me? If you ask them too early for the coffee, they ghost you. If you ask them too late, they ghost you. If they get bored of you, they ghost you.
If you know each other in real life and you're kinda dating and you're kinda part of the same extended group of friends, they ghost you. Like, wouldn't it be more awkward if you just ghost someone and you have to see each other almost every day? Then let's say you at least send a text that this thing isn't gonna work.
Like out of all the girls I've dated, only one said over text. "Hey, I think this isn't gonna work."

[french_omelette]

Learn how to be mysterious and keep them intrigued. Don't tell them everything about your life, let them find out as it goes. It can even be about the most basic thing, like if you can't hang out with her Monday because you have to go grocery shopping or something, tell her "I can't hang out Monday because I have plans. How about Tuesday?" Anyways, I find it difficult to be upfront about some things because it might hurt someones feelings if I'm too direct, or if what I want conflicts with what someone else wants. I am afraid that what I think and want might be judged by a guy and he might think I'm weird, I don't know. Maybe try to meet girls the old fashioned way or do blind dates, tinder girls ghost men all of the time when they aren't interested because it's easier and takes less time for them to ghost then to explain every detail about why it didn't work for them. And it's not a reflection of you usually, it's just what they're into.

[PeachyPie93]

I don't know lots of people especially the younger ones just lack communication skills so I assume they just are too chicken shit or lazy to have a conversation about it. Never take ghosting personally because would you really want to be stuck with someone who doesn't even have the courage to talk about hard or uncomfortable things.. They would be a nightmare to date long term, expecting you to read their mind and stuff lol

[Chazmatazz269]

I believe it’s their hypergamous nature. No matter how great a man is, he can’t measure up to the expectations of Mr. Perfect she has in her head. That makes it extremely easy to make a dealbreaker of the tiniest fault. By the time they figure out that the perfect man doesn’t exist, they’re used up and jaded. They probably have at least one marriage and divorce under their belts and possibly a kid or a few, likely from different fathers.
Every really good dude i’ve known for a long time has had at least one former girlfriend or someone he dated show up out of the blue insisting he was the love of her life and explaining why he should take her back. Ell oh ell!
Just remember that it’s actually good when the trash takes itself out early. It’s much better than when they string you along for a while getting you invested only to ultimately waste your time and break your heart.

[WonderingManII]

I've noticed that girls seem to get creeped out really easily.

[Nikki1989]

You seriously don't get it?

It is just Tinder. Go outside, socialize in the real world, and you might get somewhere. Gripes!

[jahaims]

They can. Try talking to mature ones.

[TOQGYDL]

They are rare in my age range.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Fear of judgment.

[TOQGYDL]

Yeah, but i judge them more if they ghost me. I respect the one girl who told me how things stood.