If you are single, are you planning on staying single? What's your end goal?

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Yes or no? What's your end goal?

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

I'm not closed off to the idea of a relationship or marriage again but, I'm not actively pursuing it either. For the moment, I have no trouble meeting women or getting laid. Quite the opposite actually. It gets a little annoying actually. And a lot of times I have no real interest in meeting a new woman and going through the tedious bullshit up front before we can get into any sort of real conversation. So I have to fend them off politely. I like having the freedom to come and go on my own. Not answering to anyone about where I am or what I'm doing, or limiting myself because a woman can't or won't ski, surf, backpack, mountain bike, or run trails. And she only wants to talk about fashion, food, travel, and bitch about her friends and job.

But if the right woman came along. Athletic, fun, funny, a freak in the bedroom and a lady in public, well dressed and well groomed, intelligent, willing and able to challenge my mind, curious, with a passion for life... then yes, a relationship or marriage is definitely on the table.

Cormac995 · Accepted Answer

I'm desperately single and nothing I try will get me a chance. I've never had a girlfriend only had sex once it was awful and most woman, I've ever been interested in either used me abused me or ignored me. I'm good enough to be a friend, I'm good enough to receive love and comfort from, I'm good enough to cry on my shoulder and I'm good enough to bear your soul to but I'm never good enough to be loved. After my last failure and losing my virginity in an awful one night stand, I gave up for 4 years before I got desperate and went back to the stupid dating apps because I'm completely out of idea's. The only people I matched with so far were either scammers or literally whores as in sex workers on Onlyfans. I hate my fucking life, I don't understand what I'm doing wrong? Why am I good enough for all of this but a hug or a kiss or just a backrub from someone who loves me too much to ask for? I just don't understand. I just want someone to hold when I go to sleep, I feel like that's not a ton to ask out of life.

thegreenyogi · Accepted Answer

I don't really have an end goal. What I am certain of however is the fact that I will not tie myself to a person that makes me unhappy just for the sake of keeping up appearances with the world. I enjoy my single state because it allows me to seriously work and improve myself. Of course if the right person for me comes along I will welcome it but I won't live my life dependent on this to happen.

Simslover92 · Accepted Answer

I'm single and I go back and forth on if I want a family anymore. I'm 33 years old. I don't think it's going to happen for me.

HawkPerception · Answer

I'm currently single and definitely don't plan on staying single. Part of the dream life I envision in my head definitely includes having a wife and kids. I have a lot to figure out financially before I can get serious in a relationship, but I don't see any negative to finding someone now that can take me as I am and grow with me.

Chazmatazz269 · Answer

I am preserving my peace of mind by avoiding involvement with women.

LiaRaven · Answer

My end in hell lmao  What a question

Orion84 · Answer

I plan to remain single, going forward.

I've had relationships all my adult life, and after my last one ended, I just wasn't interested in having another one. I'm no longer looking, and wouldn't accept one if offered. I'm simply done.

I'm not sure what you mean by "end goal" though. My goal is to enjoy the peace that comes from being single.

WonderingManII · Answer

I don't have a goal, because I don't want to stay single, but I also don't feel like life or God has given me a choice in the matter. I need single women in my life that I can spend time with. I don't have that available to me. I know that people on the internet find that hard to believe. I once met a woman on a Christian social networking site, and she decided to try looking for single women for me on some dating sites. One day we we were talking online, and she said, "you are right, I looked, and you are right there isn't any." I think most people in my area of the state, meet in high school, church, or college. If for some reason those three places fail. Then you are pretty much done, and is going to be single for the rest of your life.

Truthatanycost · Answer

Pursuing happiness won't necessarily lead to happiness... pursue the Kingdom of God and speak His Word daily and you will find joy. And although some may try to persecute you, you will be given tools to deal with this and everything else in life.

If you want a partner, seek them through the wisdom of the only one that has gone before you... our Heavenly Father.

imagine001 · Answer

Sure, it's majorly a focus on getting the one and not getting dragged in on any lust Or escapist mentality.

Dating and craving for relationships are more integral psychological flaws which is inherently quite odd to succumb to at young ages until you understand these factors.

For me at least, building my work & self comes even before finding the 'one', so being in any relationship is just a clear nope.

And it works.
No IG, No YT, pure work and fitness. When you talk with people, you can feel the difference.

NathanDavis · Answer

I don't actively plan for it... I just am single at the moment

I'm not set on staying single nor I am closed to the prospects of a relationship... but I am not actively looking for one either

I just happen to be single and okay with it.. as much as I will be more than okay with being with someone the moment I happen to meet someone

Zack-Bann · Answer

I haven’t made plans
I’ve been single for a minute now and I’m enjoying it.

But I also would love to get into a new relationship.
Perhaps something better than the last one. That would be nice

I see people constantly getting married on instagram these days and sometimes I contemplate if it will ever be me.

But I’m in no hurry for that either

SotiCoto · Answer

My plan at the moment is to try and stay employed... or if I get laid off, to get another stable job ASAP.
I can't really dedicate any time nor effort to thinking about other things presently... but if I got the job thing sorted, finding a moderately stable home would be second on the agenda.

Relationships are not on the agenda because I can live without them. I'm going to die alone one way or another, but I'd rather die alone indoors and not homeless on the street.

menina · Answer

I'm single because I'm not actively pursuing a relationship. I want to focus on my objectives. Also my taste in men doesn't help me...

My main goal in a relationship is either a long term one or marriage.

HelpfulGirlll · Answer

My relationship status is fluid and my end goal is happiness.

silvermoon84 · Answer

I’m single and trying to find peace in it. I just got out of a 10 month situationship that I fell really hard for so I’m trying to heal first. After that, whatever happens happens.

Joshydavid25 · Answer

I'm single, and no I don't plan on staying that way.. My goal is to have a beautiful and kids one day..

Geo1970 · Answer

Being me, myself and I, and concentrating on an excellent career.

Shiprex · Answer

It's a tempting idea unless someone wants to change it.

Silver158 · Answer

I'd like a relationship but most women seem to be interested in playing games or they're looking to cheat on someone else with me. soooooooooo

MasterKS · Answer

Yes, keep doing sex, more casual sex and more and more new partners.

jazzy34 · Answer

No. I want to be married and have a family.

Jennz6 · Answer

Get pregnant

Lilly1979 · Answer

Single by choice was married to an abusive ex.

MannMitAntworten · Answer

Death. It comes to us all.

KittygosMeoWW · Answer

Don’t want to date

Chocolatetwopointtwo · Answer

yeah my goal is to stay single

CubaPirate · Answer

Too late for me

wkhan_87 · Answer

No..

jamesgoldman · Answer

Yes for this life

Cherrysherrylady · Answer

Yes I am

eagle1951 · Answer

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