Dating

Have you ever been disrespected or humiliated by your crush?

I have. I had the biggest crush on this high school job and he was good looking and 6’5. I obsessed over him since freshman year. Four years. My guy friend never liked him and he asked me what’s so great about him? My crush made fun of mine and my friends disability (were both autistic) and he mocked my weight (I was 260lbs) at the time. He was mean when I asked him to senior prom when my friend warned me not too. I went from 219 to 260 the four years of high school. I’m a big girl. I’ve always been a tall overweight girl that guys wouldn’t even give the time of day anyways. My guy friend is a tall big boy and he was overweight as well. I was hurt and crushed. He said if a girl had a disability or is fat he wouldn’t think twice to approach her. He said to stick with my league are date someone fat like my guy friend. I cried. My guy friend comforted me and asked me to prom (he asked me six times). I rejected him. My crush two weeks later apologized and he would love to go to prom and I was excited. My best friends and my guy friend were not to happen and it won’t end well. Prom was great until he humiliated me and admitted that I am so stupid to believe he likes me and only asked me to make himself look good and to make fun of me. I cried in the bathroom. Then a while my guy friend asked if I was okay and told me my crush left with another girl. He stayed with me and I hung with my friends. He and his mom ended up talking me home. This was back in 2017. Men suck!

Have you ever been disrespected or humiliated by your crush?
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