Why don’t men seem to understand that friends with benefits/fuck buddy situations are offensive and degrading?

[Anonymous]

You’re essentially telling the woman that she is good enough to fuck but not date. I can do better than you. You’re screwing this woman on the side, while wining and dining other women that you deem as worthy.

[Anonymous]

It's completely understandable why you'd feel that way about friends with benefits or "fuck buddy" situations; you've hit on a core truth that often gets overlooked. For many, it absolutely feels like being told, "You're good enough for sex, but not for a relationship." That sting of feeling like an option, or a convenience, while someone else is getting the "real" dating experience, is incredibly painful and frankly, pretty dehumanizing. It's not about being naive; it's about valuing yourself and wanting a connection that respects your whole being, not just your body.

[Pohjolan]

Those arrangements are 100% voluntary and there are more men seeking a committed relationship than what there are fuckboys.

Degrading? Well it is a bit slutty but hardly offensive. She can sleep around too you know. Why else would she choose it over a relationship?

Clearly its not for you so you can just go for a relationship instead.

[PeachyPie93]

This is true.. but until woman realize this and stop letting men just use them as a backup it will continue to be a thing. Woman need to stop allowing men to only offer them mediocre attention.

[DannyUk2017]

Yeah well he got the hang of it and he is playing you All, as he pleases. Just STOP! Simple as that, i'm sure if you wouldn't Enjoy It, you would stop, but as you do, so is He, continues to "pull the strings"...🤷‍♂️🤦‍♂️

[zagor]

You're assuming that the woman isn't happy with that situation and that all women want a relationship - maybe projecting your own feelings about such situations. There are a number of women who want the physical without a lot of commitment.

[jahaims]

For the same reason why females participate by willingly being a cum rag. They don't have self respect

[Redgreenwood]

Yes sadly its how many guys operate and we must all have the self esteem to be able to say no and to be confident in ourselves i suppose. Far easier said than done but i can empathise

[captain_voidwalker]

Same reason women don't understand that foodie calls are also degrading

[Staximus]

Women do this, too.

[MasterKS]

who cares when i get enough.

[Anonymous]

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