Should I confess to someone who already has a boyfriend I have a crush on her if she suspects me and asks me about it?

[Matias2003]

I have a crush on a girl who already has a boyfriend I only saw twice in my life. If/when I see her again should I tell her I have a crush on her if she suspects it and asks me about it? I'm trying to avoid confessing my crush on her out of respect to her and her boyfriend but if she herself asks me I believe I should tell her

[ohsheeT]

Stop first of all she is in a relationship. She is committed to a guy.

So right there if you say anything to her it shows you have no respect for her or yourself or him.


Let's say you have a girlfriend. And some guy walking in to the picture. And tell her he has a crush on her what's the first thing that's going to happen she's going to say. Sorry but I'm in a relationship. I think it's better if you don't come around anymore. Then she tell you now it's in the back of your head

This is a moment in time we all go through this is a moment in time you respect your self and her by saying nothing .

[Screenwriter]

No, no, no. Unless you no longer want to be friends with her and want her to avoid you.

There is no need for her to know about your crush. She is involved with someone else. What use do you think it would be for her to know? So she can pat you on the head and say, "Oh, that's too bad. If I were only free!"

Why would she suspect you'd have a crush on. her, anyway? If she's involved with someone else, your crush wouldn't interest her.

This sounds like a fantasy of yours. That she's paying attention to how you look at her, and realizes you like her, and she'll dump that idiot boyfriend and choose you.

Your admission will not give you any ground with this woman. It's wishful thinking that has no basis in reality.

Why not look for an available woman elsewhere: someone who has time and interest in you, not someone else. Good luck.

[Ez-Bri-Z_v2]

I would keep this one private if it were me. They are already with someone and I don't see how confessing helps anyone, but you, which seems a little selfish. Try and find someone else who is single and I am sure you will end up crushing on one of them eventually and avoid an awkward moment between you and this person.

[RageBabe]

Yes, but you also need to be considerate of how she responds.

[Matias2003]

Yeah. I'll accept I can't be in a relationship with her. I swear to god I'll never act on it

[RageBabe]

Okay.

[itsannalee]

Why people couldn't just find someone single to date with

[Abbycado]

No, wtf

[slatyb]

Just ask her out.